My only request to Sarah was that she be herself and do what she instinctively desired. Our relationship with our black friend Thomas was genuinely as friends, not "cuckold" at all. In our Southern location, back in the late 70's we had to be extremely discrete to avoid triggering suspicion about our relationship, plus with Thom's work schedule, he could only spend a weekend with us every 3 to 6 weeks or so. So when he was able to spend a weekend, I made sure they had time alone to enjoy each other. Sarah enjoyed cuddling and kissing with Thom, and they were very affectionate with each other. Sarah soon realized I truly wanted her to enjoy herself, and after that realization, Sarah was confident to truly be herself with Thom in front of me around the house.