Wives who were reluctant at first but with time and persuasion turned into sluts for black

I’ve never been a fan of all of the talk of “convincing” wives to try black cock. If it was a fetish and fantasy of the husband’s prior to marriage then it should have been discussed prior to marriage. Especially if it’s something so important to you, which obviously it usually is or there wouldn’t be so many of these posts. Not divulging your desire to share your significant other with black men prior to marriage comes across as manipulative (no surprise from the betas there) and is as if a woman seemingly becomes contractually obligated to fulfill your fantasies after marriage. Feels selfish and disrespectful to me.
 
I’ve never been a fan of all of the talk of “convincing” wives to try black cock. If it was a fetish and fantasy of the husband’s prior to marriage then it should have been discussed prior to marriage. Especially if it’s something so important to you, which obviously it usually is or there wouldn’t be so many of these posts. Not divulging your desire to share your significant other with black men prior to marriage comes across as manipulative (no surprise from the betas there) and is as if a woman seemingly becomes contractually obligated to fulfill your fantasies after marriage. Feels selfish and disrespectful to me.
I agree with the "convincing" part. But disagree with the "should of told her" because that is not the trajectory of the desire. When I met my wife (and lots of other girls) she was 19 and my only desire was to get in her pants, not to share her. Same for lots of others I met. Seeking out a black guy to have sex with her was not on my agenda at all. In fact, the opposite was true. Over the years something develops where the idea of sharing starts to bloom. Usually with a white friend. Once again - black guys were not a thought for a number of reasons most of which were the prevalance of HIV and AIDS among black males (and females) in the 1980s and 1990s and the lower socio economic status. The idea of adding different race into the equation entered when the pure novelty started to intrigue me. It started with the idea of Mediterranean and Turkish guys which she liked. Then it became kind of a notch in the belt thing to bed a black guy. In the end women choose men - no matter what the race. And if her choice and the guy's fantasy happen to coincide every one is happy.
 
Was a journey for us. We were swingers. And really enjoyed the dynamic but I found I was too demisexual to really enjoy casual sex with other women. She enjoyed the extra attention and I enjoyed Sharing her. I also did have a mild ir kink so told her I was going to find a guy for some mmfs for us and obviously most of the options I then presented her were black. She definitely appreciates the bigger size even though I'm not small by any means.
 
I agree with the "convincing" part. But disagree with the "should have told her" because that is not the trajectory of the desire. When I met my wife (and lots of other girls) she was 19 and my only desire was to get in her pants, not to share her. Same for lots of others I met. Seeking out a black guy to have sex with her was not on my agenda at all. In fact, the opposite was true. Over the years something develops where the idea of sharing starts to bloom. Usually with a white friend. Once again - black guys were not a thought for a number of reasons most of which were the prevalance of HIV and AIDS among black males (and females) in the 1980s and 1990s and the lower socio economic status. The idea of adding different race into the equation entered when the pure novelty started to intrigue me. It started with the idea of Mediterranean and Turkish guys which she liked. Then it became kind of a notch in the belt thing to bed a black guy. In the end women choose men - no matter what the race. And if her choice and the guy's fantasy happen to coincide every one is happy.
Organic developments in mutual interest are not within the scope of what is usually being proposed here though. It’s almost always “I want to see my wife with a black man and I’ll do whatever it takes to pressure her into trying it, how did you convince your wife? want to jerk off while we talk about it? etc, etc”
Those couples where things evolved naturally over the course of their relationship are all going to have unique experiences that led them to branching out sexually. There’s not much advice to be given since no two relationships are the same. The only common point of advice that can be given is to have open communication. Anything else is just blowing smoke.
 
You can t convince her - if she do nt have the mindset .
In my case , i hope she can be inspired to become more open for the hotwife lifestyle .
But at last it is up to her - like it or not .
Never want to convince her as if it is not in her mind it may comes out she just do it for you . that would be really bad .
 
My wife is from Mississippi and her female relatives always told her that all black men wanted was sex with white women. I set her up with a date with a 29 yr. old black stud for her 50th birthday. Not really expecting anything to come of it. He called me in our motel room about 11:00 that night and said they would see me the next morning and he said she has the best pussy I have ever had. Anyway that started us on the road to the interracial hotwife lifestyle for the next 7 years that included her moving in with one of her black lover for 29 months before she came back home.
 
When we first got together, talking about previous relationships, I told her about some swinging in a previous relationship, her reaction was “ don’t ever expect me to do anything like that” in all honesty I hadn’t even considered the idea, and told her that. Roll on 18 mths later and we are married. We used porn as well as toys to enhance our sex lives, and one night she bought out a parcel she had not opened, she had ordered a new vibrator but on opening it she was shocked to find it was not the one she had ordered, or so she said lol this one was a rather large black one, she went to put it away and I asked her why? She said she didn’t want me to get upset because it was bigger than me, I told her I didn’t mind, but would prefer seeing the real thing, she looked at me and said “yeah sure you would?” I placed her hand on my rock hard cock, and said “there’s your answer” over the next few nights we role played different scenarios, and she began asking about the swinging experiences I had mentioned, she said she wouldn’t be able to watch me with another woman as she would be too jealous, I told her that I understood and that if she wanted I would be ok if we invited another male to join us, her immediate thought was if I was bi and had kept it from her. I told her I wasn’t and it was about her experiencing two men pleasuring her, I did not want any contact with the man. She was concerned that it would change our relationship for the worst, and all I could say in truth was that if we were totally honest and open with one another we could try it once and leave it there. I was sort of hoping that she would come round to involving another woman, but then she stunned me by saying “ ok, but only if it’s a Blackman”. My head exploded with images that hardened my cock instantly, I felt a little embarrassed as she could see, and before I knew it I was agreeing to it and we was planning how to go about it. We decided not to make any rigid rules, just a safe word that if we used we would slow things down/stop whatever was going on, I told her that she was the one in charge, I would go along with what ever made her comfortable. Our first meeting never went to plan mainly due to too much *******, and the bull we met wasn’t entirely honest, the pics he used were at least ten yrs old, but it didn’t put us off because we both felt the trust in each other had strengthened, she had been nervous and held back thinking if she enjoyed it too much, I would get jealous, when she saw that it was her enjoying herself freely in front of me, without the fear of any recriminations being thrown in her face that actually turned me on, she began to enjoy herself properly. The first couple of times I was more involved in pleasuring her, they were mmf’s but it became clear that I was so turned on by watching her, because I would cum within minutes and spend the next half hour waiting to get hard again, it was the second time we met a bbc bull who was local to us, the first time we had invited someone back to our house instead of hotel room, that I had shot my load within minutes of us beginning foreplay, the bull was playing with her pussy whilst she was lying on the settee, I was standing over her coaxing my dick and she said “why don’t you just sit down and watch how it’s done” I was hard before she finished the sentence, I spent the next couple of hours watching them explore each other, she went into a trance like state, and carried on as if I wasn’t even there, watching her was the most exhilarating intense sexual pleasure I had ever experienced. I was in awe. I held her hand as she had her first ever squirting orgasm, within 3 months we had our first multiple meeting with two bbc, she even wore her wedding dress on our first anniversary while two bbc fucked her overnight. The local bbc became our friend and for over five years he would fuck her at every opportunity,we even managed to intergrate him into our circle of friends and holiday abroad together where wife and him were the couple for the holiday
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Pics from our anniversary
 
When we first got together, talking about previous relationships, I told her about some swinging in a previous relationship, her reaction was “ don’t ever expect me to do anything like that” in all honesty I hadn’t even considered the idea, and told her that. Roll on 18 mths later and we are married. We used porn as well as toys to enhance our sex lives, and one night she bought out a parcel she had not opened, she had ordered a new vibrator but on opening it she was shocked to find it was not the one she had ordered, or so she said lol this one was a rather large black one, she went to put it away and I asked her why? She said she didn’t want me to get upset because it was bigger than me, I told her I didn’t mind, but would prefer seeing the real thing, she looked at me and said “yeah sure you would?” I placed her hand on my rock hard cock, and said “there’s your answer” over the next few nights we role played different scenarios, and she began asking about the swinging experiences I had mentioned, she said she wouldn’t be able to watch me with another woman as she would be too jealous, I told her that I understood and that if she wanted I would be ok if we invited another male to join us, her immediate thought was if I was bi and had kept it from her. I told her I wasn’t and it was about her experiencing two men pleasuring her, I did not want any contact with the man. She was concerned that it would change our relationship for the worst, and all I could say in truth was that if we were totally honest and open with one another we could try it once and leave it there. I was sort of hoping that she would come round to involving another woman, but then she stunned me by saying “ ok, but only if it’s a Blackman”. My head exploded with images that hardened my cock instantly, I felt a little embarrassed as she could see, and before I knew it I was agreeing to it and we was planning how to go about it. We decided not to make any rigid rules, just a safe word that if we used we would slow things down/stop whatever was going on, I told her that she was the one in charge, I would go along with what ever made her comfortable. Our first meeting never went to plan mainly due to too much *******, and the bull we met wasn’t entirely honest, the pics he used were at least ten yrs old, but it didn’t put us off because we both felt the trust in each other had strengthened, she had been nervous and held back thinking if she enjoyed it too much, I would get jealous, when she saw that it was her enjoying herself freely in front of me, without the fear of any recriminations being thrown in her face that actually turned me on, she began to enjoy herself properly. The first couple of times I was more involved in pleasuring her, they were mmf’s but it became clear that I was so turned on by watching her, because I would cum within minutes and spend the next half hour waiting to get hard again, it was the second time we met a bbc bull who was local to us, the first time we had invited someone back to our house instead of hotel room, that I had shot my load within minutes of us beginning foreplay, the bull was playing with her pussy whilst she was lying on the settee, I was standing over her coaxing my dick and she said “why don’t you just sit down and watch how it’s done” I was hard before she finished the sentence, I spent the next couple of hours watching them explore each other, she went into a trance like state, and carried on as if I wasn’t even there, watching her was the most exhilarating intense sexual pleasure I had ever experienced. I was in awe. I held her hand as she had her first ever squirting orgasm, within 3 months we had our first multiple meeting with two bbc, she even wore her wedding dress on our first anniversary while two bbc fucked her overnight. The local bbc became our friend and for over five years he would fuck her at every opportunity,we even managed to intergrate him into our circle of friends and holiday abroad together where wife and him were the couple for the holiday
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Pics from our anniversary
This is how white marriages should be consemated.
 
This is how white marriages should be consemated.
It was the defining moment of our journey, it set the bench mark for what we wanted to experience together, we both realised that night that we had broken through any negative emotions left, any doubts that we might have had about it damaging our relationship were completely wiped away, as over the next few hours my wife turned into a pornstar, she was absolutely insatiable, wanton is understating, she was in a zone of pure pleasure as she took them both, her first DV,DP,anal, spanking, blindfolded and bound, her first squirting orgasms, i was in awe as she earned there respect, taking everything they threw at her 🤪👍
 
It was the defining moment of our journey, it set the bench mark for what we wanted to experience together, we both realised that night that we had broken through any negative emotions left, any doubts that we might have had about it damaging our relationship were completely wiped away, as over the next few hours my wife turned into a pornstar, she was absolutely insatiable, wanton is understating, she was in a zone of pure pleasure as she took them both, her first DV,DP,anal, spanking, blindfolded and bound, her first squirting orgasms, i was in awe as she earned there respect, taking everything they threw at her 🤪👍
It really allows something to come out, something deep that white men cannot quite pull out. Some chemistry for lack of a better term.
 
We were married for several years before I found out she had had a thing for black men when she was younger, before she met me. Somehow it came up in conversation and she confessed this fact to me. I really had no idea, she kept it hidden from me and her racist southern family. For some reason, the image in my mind of my beautiful little blonde haired blue eyed being screwed by black cock turned me on and I blurted out I would love to witness a replay of her with black men. She was initially upset at my suggestion, but it really only took a few days for her to come around. I think it took little convincing because she already had been with black men and loved the sex she had with them. Her real reluctance was how it would affect our marriage relationship.

How did you set it up once she agreed? What were the first experiences like?
 
I agree with the "convincing" part. But disagree with the "should of told her" because that is not the trajectory of the desire. When I met my wife (and lots of other girls) she was 19 and my only desire was to get in her pants, not to share her. Same for lots of others I met. Seeking out a black guy to have sex with her was not on my agenda at all. In fact, the opposite was true. Over the years something develops where the idea of sharing starts to bloom. Usually with a white friend. Once again - black guys were not a thought for a number of reasons most of which were the prevalance of HIV and AIDS among black males (and females) in the 1980s and 1990s and the lower socio economic status. The idea of adding different race into the equation entered when the pure novelty started to intrigue me. It started with the idea of Mediterranean and Turkish guys which she liked. Then it became kind of a notch in the belt thing to bed a black guy. In the end women choose men - no matter what the race. And if her choice and the guy's fantasy happen to coincide every one is happy.
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Told my husband no for years just because I was scared and held back by societal norms, but after becoming a nurse in a metro area I kept seeing my black patients and the overwhelming majority of them had large dicks. I wanted to know what it felt like to be filled up by one of those monsters. The curiosity finally got me and decided to try it out. Now I’m hooked 😬
 
Told my husband no for years just because I was scared and held back by societal norms, but after becoming a nurse in a metro area I kept seeing my black patients and the overwhelming majority of them had large dicks. I wanted to know what it felt like to be filled up by one of those monsters. The curiosity finally got me and decided to try it out. Now I’m hooked 😬
can you tell us how you started?
 
Told my husband no for years just because I was scared and held back by societal norms, but after becoming a nurse in a metro area I kept seeing my black patients and the overwhelming majority of them had large dicks. I wanted to know what it felt like to be filled up by one of those monsters. The curiosity finally got me and decided to try it out. Now I’m hooked 😬
Being a naughty nurse wasn't there any sexual exploration with colleagues prior to BBCitis?
 
My first guy my husband brought to share me with in the beginning of our swinging experiment was a black guy and they took turns fucking me and watching while drinking. I think they both fucked my 3-4 times each and I knew right then black cock is what I wanted. My husband has a nice size cock but his friend was really big and it was great. We played with many other men women and couples but I always wanted more black men. Today black men are the only men I will swing with. Told my man don’t bring any men who are not black or couples where the man is not black.
 
When I was working in Romania I dated a woman an older (she was 48 at the time) Turkish woman who was basically a reclusive "cat lady". I met her at my office building, she was the building receptionist (About 20 or so businesses in the building, its common to have a front desk worker).

Literally nobody talked to her, I was even told to avoid her. She was a relative of the building owner apparently. Her face wasn't unattractive or anything, just the usual wrinkles of a woman in her late 40's.

She was one of the ONLY persons in a 100 mile radius that spoke decent English, so I often talked with her and she seemed to like it.

Anyways, she sat behind a tall counter/desk area and I never saw her body, until one day she was opening a locked door in the hallway for another woman and she had an absolutely fucking ridiculously huge, perky monster of an ass in yoga type pants. It literally jiggled back in forth as she was trying push the door open as it was sticking. I was stunned, instant erection, LOL. I even remember going back to my desk questioning is that thing natural or plastic surgery? How does a woman that old have such a perky ass?

Obviously being the absolute degenerate skirt chaser I was I kicked the game up. A week later she invited to her apartment after we met for coffee and within 10 minutes of entering she was bent over - ass up over her couch with her knees on the floor, skirt flipped up over her shoulders while I was digging her pussy out like a madman for 45 minutes. I still remember her looking back at me with a smile absolutely loving every second of it. There was an huge trail of slimy goo just leaking out of her pussy the entire time. As I was about to cum I got up and moved up to her face and absolutely blasted her with one the biggest cumshots of my entire life and she didn't even flinch. She fucking loved it. We ate dinner and I fucked her again on her bed before leaving.

I later learned she had not had sex in over 10 years.

Back to your point I managed to get more black dick in that woman than the Kardashians. We found one especially aggressive black man from the UK who she liked very much that we turned into a regular thing.
Got any more stories about this chick?
 
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