Im not here to talk bad about lifestyle or anybody in it. But if you’re a couple just getting into lifestyle or a male who wants to share their gf/wife w BBC, i advise you to take it real slow or keep it as a fantasy if you can. Ive been obsessed with the whole idea for about 7 yrs and even lost my ex wife to lifestyle about 5yrs ago. And even after splitting up i would still look at pics n vids of us roleplaying n talking about BBC. I slowly but surely tallked her into the idea. I use to love hearing her tell me how she needs a BBC to punish her. Pretty much trained her into becoming a BBC whore. She always said it was for my pleasure cuz she knew i turned on it made me. Getting her.a black dildo to play with was the last straw. It took a coulple of weeks for her to take it all but once she took all 7 inches she slowly cut me off. once she orgasmed for first time, she was 100% for sure about this. She didnt need me to bring it up anymore. She went from asking me to begging me to share her with a black cock. and eventually threatened to stop letting me fuck her until i get her a big black dick. After finally sharing her and watching her become someones slut. I would still go back and do it again. Im so addicted that im willing to do whatever it takes to take part of the experience. I use to think is was so disgusting when men would clean up n stuff. But now i kind get off imagining things and think its all in my head.