Basically as the title says.
We started with a large cock fantasy years ago. I like looking at big dicks and she likes the fantasy of fucking them. That kind of changed into a BBC fantasy. More so for the contrast and size. I have a good size dick and last long. But my wife likes the idea of contrast and a larger sized cock. I also enjoy the same basically.
For awhile we did dirty talk in regards to the fantasy almost every time we had sex. We have a great sex life. 3-7+ times a week. Probably 4 out of every 5 times we have sex we include fantasy talk in some way or another. When we don’t have sex, we usually masturbate together. We always watch interracial. That’s been like that for more than a couple years now.
For the past month or so I’ve strictly been using a sleeve when fucking her. A large black sleeve. Afterwards I take it off and jack off while she talks dirty or I eat her pussy. That started because I told her I wanted to see how my cock felt after using the sleeve for awhile. She liked the idea. I asked if she wanted to stop and she said she’d like to continue to see where it goes and how my cock eventually feels. I think she’s really starting to prefer the full feeling. We’ve done fisting before but nothing consistently every week like the sleeve.
When we talk dirty now, I don’t say things like “imagine this was a BBC” or “you like the idea of it” or things along those lines. Now it’s more like “When you do fuck one” or “when we do set this up”. I’ve changed it from fantasy to making a reality of it.
I say all that because I’m pretty sure if I set it up, it could happen. Just don’t know if it’s worth it. We’ve been together for 12 years now. We have great communication. We have talked about this extensively and she says she’s able to separate pleasure from love. But she’s not sure how she feels about fucking someone else. So just curious of anyone else’s input.
TLDR: Wife and I are pretty sure we are ready, just wanting input from others.
We started with a large cock fantasy years ago. I like looking at big dicks and she likes the fantasy of fucking them. That kind of changed into a BBC fantasy. More so for the contrast and size. I have a good size dick and last long. But my wife likes the idea of contrast and a larger sized cock. I also enjoy the same basically.
For awhile we did dirty talk in regards to the fantasy almost every time we had sex. We have a great sex life. 3-7+ times a week. Probably 4 out of every 5 times we have sex we include fantasy talk in some way or another. When we don’t have sex, we usually masturbate together. We always watch interracial. That’s been like that for more than a couple years now.
For the past month or so I’ve strictly been using a sleeve when fucking her. A large black sleeve. Afterwards I take it off and jack off while she talks dirty or I eat her pussy. That started because I told her I wanted to see how my cock felt after using the sleeve for awhile. She liked the idea. I asked if she wanted to stop and she said she’d like to continue to see where it goes and how my cock eventually feels. I think she’s really starting to prefer the full feeling. We’ve done fisting before but nothing consistently every week like the sleeve.
When we talk dirty now, I don’t say things like “imagine this was a BBC” or “you like the idea of it” or things along those lines. Now it’s more like “When you do fuck one” or “when we do set this up”. I’ve changed it from fantasy to making a reality of it.
I say all that because I’m pretty sure if I set it up, it could happen. Just don’t know if it’s worth it. We’ve been together for 12 years now. We have great communication. We have talked about this extensively and she says she’s able to separate pleasure from love. But she’s not sure how she feels about fucking someone else. So just curious of anyone else’s input.
TLDR: Wife and I are pretty sure we are ready, just wanting input from others.
