I am curious why women do this. I have had many women in my lifetime and all of them stared me in the eyeballs when fucking missionary style. I struggled with keeping eye-contact normally, but then i got used to women doing this gradually. I should like to know the instinct behind why women do this?
Why do women stare men in the eyeballs when sexing, especially during penetrative sex?
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It’s just a spontaneous thing
she is connecting with him
Her eyes are saying: "You are in me!"
She wants your eyes to say: "I am in you!"
Does it not make sense that a penetrating stare might accentuate a penetrating penis?
I read somewhere that women focus on facial expressions in porn. I find very few pornographic images to be erotic without showing the face; there are exceptions.
I like watching a guy's face and reactions when we're fucking. It doesn't need to be an intense eye contact thing but I think it would be weirder to have someone looking anywhere but at the person they're literally inside lol
Assuming of course there is no football game on the tv in the room.
I'm Canadian, we don't really give a ******* about football up here lol
But if the dude I'm with cares more about watching a sporting event than my titties we will not be smashing again.
Because I love to watch the pleasure on his face as he's doing me.
the connection is a turn on for me. I guess if i don't want her to look at me, i'll lean down and kiss her more but it's sexy to me
I'm trying to figure out what else she should be looking at: the ceiling, the wall, her phone?
Somewhat akin to what avaadore said, if she's not looking at me then something's wrong.
Somewhat akin to what avaadore said, if she's not looking at me then something's wrong.
Honestly, the very first time i had sex i had expected people must close their eyes when doing it, because i thought it can't be normal to keep eye-contact, hence why our older generation keep light off back in them days. But then, my eyes was close and whenever i opened it slightly to spy on her i was shocked to see her eyes right through my eyeballs - i went numb at the sight and panicked. But then, because i wont get left alone, i ended up doing it and getting used to women spontaneously staring men in the eyeballs when inside them
. Even a virgin that had never had sex before, does it - that's what gave me the idea this act must be innate in all women.deepbreeder
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I actually like holding a girls face and stare in her eyes when we cum honestly. Ive made a few cry actually(not in a bad way).
Honestly, the very first time i had sex i had expected people must close their eyes when doing it, because i thought it can't be normal to keep eye-contact, hence why our older generation keep light off back in them days. But then, my eyes was close and whenever i opened it slightly to spy on her i was shocked to see her eyes right through my eyeballs - i went numb at the sight and panicked. But then, because i wont get left alone, i ended up doing it and getting used to women spontaneously staring men in the eyeballs when inside them
I almost spit out my tea at the "hence why our older generation keep light off back in them days" part.
I spent my childhood in Africa and this is the culture around sex
I must try this stared in the eyeballs when you cum together part...you inspired me, oh ye deepbreeder of white vagines
"You are in me!" Exactly. This explains a lot about how differently women and men experience sex. Women are letting men INSIDE themselves. A man can experience sex without letting anything (or anybody!) in.
Comparing those two options, I am very glad to be . . . a WOMAN.
There's a figure in ancient Greek mythology named Tiresias, a prophet. Tiresias angered the gods, who punished him by changing him into a woman for a number of years. Later, he was changed back into a man.
Hera (queen of the gods) and Zeus (king of the gods) later got into an argument about whether men or women get more pleasure in the act of sex. Since Tiresias was the only person who had ever experienced sex both as a man and as a woman, the gods asked Tiresias to decide. Tiresias firmly declared that WOMEN experience more pleasure.
"Tiresias was drawn into an argument between Hera and her husband Zeus, on the theme of who has more pleasure in sex: the man, as Hera claimed; or, as Zeus claimed, the woman, as Tiresias had experienced both. Tiresias replied, 'Of ten parts a man enjoys one only.'"
Tiresias - Wikipedia
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"Penetrating stare", "penetrating penis"....."in me"....."in you".
A beautifully viscero-erotic idea, very evocatively expressed and intensely perceptive of you, Andrea. Your view is no doubt rooted in your own experience of totally loving being fucked by the right man.
It's my awareness and conclusion too, drawn from my loving to fuck a woman who deeply appreciates my cock in her and communicates her great love of it with her misty sex-filled eyes looking straight into mine from the moment the rim of her stretched vaginal opening slips shaftward over the head of my cock.
My wife (now my ex) when being very slowly penetrated by my young black best buddy (now her husband) stares straight into his beautiful eyes until she feels the head of his erection pressing up against her cervix.
I once asked her what she saw in his eyes during the two or three minutes he took to alternately tease her clitoris with his gaping cum-slit and slip the bulging head of his erection ever-so-slowly in and out of the firm stretched rim of her slippery vaginal opening before giving her his full length and burying himself to his balls.
Her reply was very short and simple and still arouses me like fuck
"Just everything" she murmured very slowly, with her eyes misting over.
I have never pressed her on what "everything" means to her in the aesthetic, emotional, physical-sexual or romantic sense with my buddy or indeed with me when she is being penetrated.
In noting and enjoying and largely agreeing with all of the above postings by women, I discern this is erotically-speaking Holy Ground for women very hot for and/or passionately in love with their husbands or another man and that I must never ever trespass onto it.
Besides, when it's me or my beautiful young black buddy that is fucking my ex I find it a helluva lot sexier not to know
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"Penetrating stare", "penetrating penis"....."in me"....."in you".
Those are beautifully viscero-erotic ideas Andrea, very evocatively expressed and intensely perceptive. Your view is no doubt rooted in your own experience of totally loving being fucked by the right man.
It's my awareness and conclusion too, drawn from my loving to fuck a woman who deeply appreciates my cock in her and communicates her great love of it with her misty sex-filled eyes looking straight into mine from the moment the rim of her stretched vaginal opening slips shaft-wards over the the upstanding flange of the head of my cock.
My wife (now my ex) when being very slowly penetrated by my young black best buddy (now her husband) stares straight into his beautiful eyes until she feels the head of his erection pressing against her cervix.
I once asked her what she saw in his eyes during the two or three minutes he took to alternately tease her clitoris with his gaping cum-slit and slip the bulging head of his erection ever-so-slowly in and out of the stretched rim of her slippery vaginal opening before giving her his full length and burying himself to his balls.
Her reply was very short and simple and still arouses me like fuck.
It was "Just everything", murmured very slowly and super-sexily, with her lovely eyes misting over.
I have never pressed her on what "Just everything" means to her in the aesthetic, emotional, physical-sexual or romantic sense with my buddy or indeed with me when she is being penetrated.
In my reading and enjoying and largely agreeing with all of the above postings by women, I discern this is erotically-speaking Holy Ground for women who are very hot for and/or passionately in love with their husbands or another man and that I must never ever trespass onto it.
Besides, when it's me or my young black buddy that's fucking my ex I find it a helluva lot sexier not to know what her "Just everthing" includes----or excludes just so long as it's not my or my buddy's beautiful thrusting cock
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