For us it started at a party. There was a large mature black man that wanted to meet up alone with my wife. I told him she didnt meet up with out me there. He offered to pay for her time. We got his number and told him we would discuss it and get back to him. We talked to the owners of the house that were hosting the party and they said he was a very nice man and does like to pay married women for their time so that he can have them alone. We talked about it, she was excited knowing a man would pay what he offered. We ended up deciding it would be fun for her to try out. She messaged him and said she was willing to meet him the coming weekend. So they agreed and she ended up meeting him. It was the first of many meetings with him. It worked out he had other friends that liked to have married women. She ended up being turned out for quiet a few black men. The money was good as were the stories she shared with me about what they did with her.