why are cuckolds picky?

Ron Jeremy is not the most attractive man on earth, but he has no trouble getting laid on or off camera. Its all in your game. Even ugly guys get laid. You want a lady to lay you, play your best game. Yes some ladies want an in shape, attractive man. Lets be honest, how many husbands stay in shape after being married ten years with *******? Not many. Once married and in a stable job guys don't always keep up their appearance. They have the prize they wanted after all. If a lady wanted an out of shape guy she can fuck her hubby.
 
When a married woman cuckolds her husband she ends up cucking the other men she fucks and regardless of her fantasy she is the one in control. What motivates a woman is a mystery to most men most of the time and to me always. Cucks are not picky so much but the women who own them are.
 
Great conversation, selective is a great term, but I'm sure my girlfriend has a type in mind that she would enjoy physical turn on as we'll sexual, that first appearance along with personality starts the momentum.
 
My wife just prefers her lovers, black or white, to the be in good shape. That is one reason why she loves to have sex with black men, in general her experience is that black men seem to have good bodies. Not all of course but generally more muscular than the white men she has been with. In our experiences the black men she has been with when I have shared her have been in all shapes, sizes and ages. Even though her preference is young, muscular and well hung, she has not turned down any.
As a matter of fact, I think she could afford to be more picky considering how beautiful she is. I have seen Amie be just as an enthusiastic lover to black men I think some would consider unappealing. One thing I have observed is her attraction and submissiveness to "bad boys" or "thugs" who are aggressively assertive with her. Most would think my wife is a classy attractive woman so this seemed a bit odd to me at first but now somewhat understand.
 
OP, your question isn't really about Cucks. The cucks are just the workers doing the dirty work of screening for the women. In Western culture, women hold men to much higher standards than men expect from women, or even women hold themselves to for that matter. That is why vanilla dating, for instance is so difficult for vast majority of men out here, regardless of whether they're looking for the short or long term. You just have to admit that with sex/dating/etc women hold all the cards, generally speaking.

Always acknowledge that for every 1 couple/woman, there's an "x" number of men going sexless. And women know this.

It is what it is. There's nothing you or any man can do about it, just improve yourself and make yourself the best man (by YOUR standards) that you can be you that you can have some options for yourself. I'm speaking broadly here, but just the IR niche.

You gotta decide if it's even worth your time to play the rigged game, or do your own thing.
 
hornyblackbull said:
OP, your question isn't really about Cucks. The cucks are just the workers doing the dirty work of screening for the women. In Western culture, women hold men to much higher standards than men expect from women, or even women hold themselves to for that matter. That is why vanilla dating, for instance is so difficult for vast majority of men out here, regardless of whether they're looking for the short or long term. You just have to admit that with sex/dating/etc women hold all the cards, generally speaking.

Always acknowledge that for every 1 couple/woman, there's an "x" number of men going sexless. And women know this.

It is what it is. There's nothing you or any man can do about it, just improve yourself and make yourself the best man (by YOUR standards) that you can be you that you can have some options for yourself. I'm speaking broadly here, but just the IR niche.

You gotta decide if it's even worth your time to play the rigged game, or do your own thing.
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I agree that the women hold the cards as for the cucks they are usually the ones chosen by the women for a variety of reasons. The bull may fuck the woman whenever she wants but the cuck has access always in most cases. Bulls themselves are cucks to a certain extent since they do the womans bidding and share like everyone else. If you want a wife to pick you find out how to treat her and her cuck. My wife always made me find the men for her , totally controlling on her part and more work for the other man since he had to please me first. I was super successful most times and well rewarded for being such a good cuckold lol. Most women will not admit to being dominant and most men do not realize how dome women can be.
 
Interesting discussion topic, and I two poennies worth is that, in this situation as with being cheated on you would be less hurt if the other person is in much better shape, more attractive, and better in bed than you. I would be devastated if I found out I was being cheated on with a guy in worse physical shape than I not withstanding how good the guy was in bed, if you get my meaning, at least if the guys muscled, hunky and has a great personality,you could see why, a guy who is overweight, balding and stuff like that? Why is she looking at that guy get what I mean?

But as said previously I could get put in my place and have to deal with it if that's who get chosen. Lol
 
dudesimon78 said:
Interesting discussion topic, and I two poennies worth is that, in this situation as with being cheated on you would be less hurt if the other person is in much better shape, more attractive, and better in bed than you. I would be devastated if I found out I was being cheated on with a guy in worse physical shape than I not withstanding how good the guy was in bed, if you get my meaning, at least if the guys muscled, hunky and has a great personality,you could see why, a guy who is overweight, balding and stuff like that? Why is she looking at that guy get what I mean?

But as said previously I could get put in my place and have to deal with it if that's who get chosen. Lol
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I think that you are like most of the men on here, you do what the woman expects you to do. Mean women make their husbands figure out what to do and punish them if they get it wrong. Nice women just give orders or ask like you have a choice. Even the bulls submit to the pussy and pretend like they are in charge. go figure weak pussy and cunt is so strong.
 
Interesting and some good answers so far. ImO a couple just is in the position to be selective. For them an additional guy or lady is a plus, not a necessity - they already have each other on a regular basis. ;) But in the end the choice is made by all involved parties. A lover or "bull" may not be available for some couples as well, when the chemistry just isn`t there or ideas are not compatible.

As for the question "who`s more dominant or has more say, the wife/gf or the husband/bf?" - That depends on the couple; everytwo are different in this. ;) For hotwifing couples who seek a male partner for the wife/gf it seems obvious that the woman takes a great part in making the decision, as she will be the one to enjoy the other man.

In many cases it will be the husband/bf though who does first filtering in place of his woman. An advantage of this approach is that the husband/bf doesn`t give up all control over the situation which is comforting for himself but also for his woman as, by doing so, he actively shows his approval. Also that turns it more into a "couple thing" and further away from the characteristics of cheating. :)
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
Interesting and some good answers so far. ImO a couple just is in the position to be selective. For them an additional guy or lady is a plus, not a necessity - they already have each other on a regular basis. ;) But in the end the choice is made by all involved parties. A lover or "bull" may not be available for some couples as well, when the chemistry just isn`t there or ideas are not compatible.

As for the question "who`s more dominant or has more say, the wife/gf or the husband/bf?" - That depends on the couple; everytwo are different in this. ;) For hotwifing couples who seek a male partner for the wife/gf it seems obvious that the woman takes a great part in making the decision, as she will be the one to enjoy the other man.

In many cases it will be the husband/bf though who does first filtering in place of his woman. An advantage of this approach is that the husband/bf doesn`t give up all control over the situation which is comforting for himself but also for his woman as, by doing so, he actively shows his approval. Also that turns it more into a "couple thing" and further away from the characteristics of cheating. :)
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Having the husband find the lovers can be a way to demonstrate even more control over the male. Usually the woman has the final say and it is always going to be hubbys fault if things do not work out. Every couple and person is different and much of the emotional energy is subconscious. I wonder how many women would accept their husbands having sex with another man without them being involved.
 
dudesimon78 said:
Interesting discussion topic, and I two poennies worth is that, in this situation as with being cheated on you would be less hurt if the other person is in much better shape, more attractive, and better in bed than you. I would be devastated if I found out I was being cheated on with a guy in worse physical shape than I not withstanding how good the guy was in bed, if you get my meaning, at least if the guys muscled, hunky and has a great personality,you could see why, a guy who is overweight, balding and stuff like that? Why is she looking at that guy get what I mean?

But as said previously I could get put in my place and have to deal with it if that's who get chosen. Lol
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I don't know if this is meant to be the whole point, but wouldn't him being 'better' than you make your more devastated? That means she can do better than you and is only with you so as to just use you for financial and emotional support. If she *can* do better than you then maybe she *will* do better than you and end up just cutting you out of the picture entirely. Again i don't know if that is meant to be the point or what, but if he is 'worse' than you then wouldn't you think to yourself "oh well, the guys a loser. if she left me for *him* then that is her loss"

Or maybe because just like in porn if the guy is ugly af it ruins the experience?
 
Hey, yeah basically, just better as in better at sex and being muscular, I work out but I'm not going for muscular just being healthy.

And if she did go for someone I would consider a loosed, then that would be more devastating, as I'd think WTF, what's this loosed guy doing for her I'm not???? Don't know if that clarity's what I mean or not.
 
dudesimon78 said:
Hey, yeah basically, just better as in better at sex and being muscular, I work out but I'm not going for muscular just being healthy.

And if she did go for someone I would consider a loosed, then that would be more devastating, as I'd think WTF, what's this loosed guy doing for her I'm not???? Don't know if that clarity's what I mean or not.
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if you are a cuckold your wife owner has the final say about who she fucks and you will suck it up and live with it, maybe she will fuck men just to make you squirm
 
re: why are cuckolds picky?
bbcjames said:
.... when it comes to chatting talking texting etc trying to hookup for some good sex why are some not all but some couples so darn picky its like they dont live in reality lol there is no perfect black man.
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bbcjames ... well, then let's put this question to TEST ...
On the same day you receive 2 request to hook up with 2 females ... which one do you choose?

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