why are cuckolds picky?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by bbcjames, Sep 11, 2015.

  1. bbcjames

    bbcjames Member

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    hey everyone this thought just came to mind when it comes to chatting talking texting etc trying to hookup for some good sex why are some not all but some couples so darn picky its like they dont live in reality lol there is no perfect black man. everyone is not tall with muscles and on average some are short big overweight fat whatever you call why are some so picky at the end of the day arent we all just trying get a nut, meet new people and have fun? why does body type or appearance weight heavier than the fucking
     

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  2. ksboy71

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    Excellent question. I think most of us have a visual image in our mind of what we "think" our wife "wants/needs" due to pro porn actors being in shape, long, thick, everlasting....

    When my ex wife finally told me she had been seeing another man (the third one since we had been married) and who it was i was first pissed (unknowingly cucked angst) and later after processing everything she had to say and who she had been with i began to wonder "why him, or him or him?" Then after more thought and discussion with her i understood it was more of their personality that was attractive to her and not their physical nature.
     
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  3. bbcjames

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    thanks for sharing. yeah i agree with her its more about the personality what we have in common that intensify the sex not what body type or appearance they have
     
  4. wahoosurfer

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    My wife said it plays into the whole fantasy of a big muscular black man fucking her. She said she cant get into a fantasy if the guy is overweight and doesnt look like he takes care of himself. He doesnt have to have a bodybuilder body but must be in decent shape.
     
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  5. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    This is the internet ... everything is perfect in this virtual world we live in. I mean, who has sexual fantasies about individuals who are 50-100 lbs over weight, or have a 3 inch dick?
    If you're looking to hookups and the person you're corresponding with won't Skype or phone chat, you're chasing a phantom anyways. I remember the old days in AOL chatrooms quite well.
     
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  6. wahoosurfer

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    Even if he has a 12" cock he has to be somewhat in shape for her to get into it
     
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  7. tomtomjim

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    physical appearance is somewhat important but you can be as pretty as anything and still be a lousy fuck. It pays to get to know the other before getting naked unless you just want a zipless fuck
     
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  8. Freespirit1

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    I would use the word "selective".
    I know I am selective about anyone I play with at any level. Even though there has to be a decent cock, there has to be so much more than just a big cock. I can use a big vibrator if that was the only requirement.
    Personality, attraction, turn ons vs. turn offs, comfort, situations, and the effort put in ...
    All key factors (but not limited to) in whether I consider if a man is fuckable or not.


    So why would couples & cucks NOT have standards or certain things?
     
  9. Chungcheng21

    Chungcheng21 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Because cucks want their horny wives to have the best experience.
     
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  10. tomtomjim

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    cucks are not picky unless the wife lets them be picky lol being a cuckold means giving up power
     
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  11. facers

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    The answer is even more simple than those above: We're picky because we *CAN* be. A post on CL or AFF and we have dozens of possibilities right out the get go. Go into a swing club and look over at the bar where the single men are. It's our choice. We're bringing you into OUR lives because we chose to...so we are allowed to be picky.
     
  12. Mlbflcple

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    Picky isn't the word for us. I agree with selective. I'm perfectly okay with a guy who has a little extra around the gut, as long as he's in good enough shape to go more than once. The only hard requirement for me is that he be taller than me. I'm just not sexually attracted to men shorter than me. Of course, we have to click before we go further.
     
  13. tiny_tim

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    It's all about the wife. If you can't get past her "attraction" filter, it's game over. She is the one that has to spread and it takes a connection, at some level, for that to happen.

    I suggest that you start by offering to meet for a drink or a cup of coffee so that the pressure is off her while that connection is formed. If you want to seduce another guy's wife, you have to actually seduce her.
     
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  14. tomtomjim

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    Once again if you are a cuckold it is your wifes choice and she decides what she does and often what you and the bull do as well. Nice wives respect their cuckolds feelings and desires but sometimes they just laugh and tell you to suck it up.
     
  15. TopCat

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    In general, men and women are both picky. Choosing a sex partner or a bull in this case is not an act of charity. I think it's perfectly defensible to like what you like and not have to spend a lot of energy analyzing it.

    "Whoever you want to choose honey, be picky and selective though. Think big."

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  16. hotjen

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    The one who has the pussy gets to be picky. That's the way that the world goes 'round.

    Plus an 8" cock on a 300 lb. man with tits as big as the woman's can be an issue.
    Been there, seen that.
     
  18. tomtomjim

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    a nice cock on a great looking man can end up being a bust if the attitude or connection is not there , and even if the guy is great he may not like the woman. We spent lots of time before meeting so as to make sure everyone was up for the ride
     
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  19. Maxfield0316

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    Women have preferences, and this type of activity often involves the words, "She has the pussy, she makes the rules" written in fine print. She has a husband who she loves deeply, possibly a family with him, and quite frankly bulls are a dime a dozen. A married woman can afford to be picky with who she sees on the side because she already has a man to come home to. Not every bull makes a great first impression, either. Personality is often much more important than looks. If you lack chemistry or she just don't feel things click, there's always another horny guy out there. Some women prefer gentlemen over thugs, some like thugs. It will vary from one woman to the next. This lifestyle comes with a lot of deviation and variance, no two couples do it exactly the same way. You can have a huge long lasting porn star quality cock hanging between your legs but if you don't make a good impression you're not the only one out there. Not every woman a slut, cunt, or whore. Married women are often sophisticated ladies and expect to be treated well... A fact not every male seems to understand.
     
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  20. bellnyc

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    there has to be an attraction while clothes are still on.... they're are plenty of big dicked ugly muthafuckas and some like that but finding a big dicked great looking guy in good shape is the prize here i think
     
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