why are black women sooo angry???

FACT...Over 90% of all blacks in the USA have one white ancestor!! Aint that much difference between any of us!!
very true Viginia...there was a survey, and if you look around and see truly Black Folks with very dark complexions,
there are less then 5% of the African American population. When I see a BEAUTIFUL FULLY BLACK woman, I go out of my way to tell her how attractive and beautiful she is. Very few of us look the way our forefathers looked after arriving on the Middle Passage from African and the Caribbean..
 
I don't think black women are any more angry than white women or any other ethnic female. I know many that are sweet, good natured ladies as well as those you might consider "angry", who have attitude.

However, I know many white and Latino women who could be described as "angry" also, they just don't usually have as much "in your face" attitude that some black women have, although some do.

The one thing I find that they all seem to have in common is that they misplace their anger and direct it toward men in general for those guys that fucked them over instead of blaming themselves for the poor choices in men that they made. Almost every one of them picked a guy that excited them instead of the "nice" guy that later they wonder why they can't find a man like so-and-so married who is good to her- the very guy they passed over.

If women would wake up and realize that the "bad boy" that excites them is the same guy that excites all the other women as well and who is probably going to use that natural ability to his own advantage, so stop trying to change him into Mr Perfect Husband and they might stop getting cheated on and made angry.
You want to party with Mr Stud Muffin, fine- go have fun, but if you want a stable, loving man don't turn a blind eye to Mr. Nice-but-sort-of-boring-Guy. You want both, fine, find a nice guy that will let you get as freaky as you want sexually as long as you know whose bread you need to keep buttered at home.
Black guys aren't that much different than white as far as many are submissive to a good woman and willing to do MFM threesomes and whatever if it makes her happy, they just have more social pressure to keep face with their "Bros", who are probably doing just as much freaky ******* on the down low as they are or want to, but can't admit it.

One reason that black guys don't see so much of this angry attitude with white women is, because to a large degree, they are the Mr. Stud Muffin to the white woman, even and especially if they are Mr. Nice Guy as well. The white guys get the attitude from them instead.
The anger isn't because all (insert ethnicity) men are dogs, it's because those women pick dogs and then get pissed when they get bit.
 
If the first humans were Africans then how in the fuck can "other species" leave from other areas? None of the ******* that you typed made any sense. Africa was the only continent where humans lived for tens of thousands of years. I don't believe in googling history lessons, but research "Scientific Eve". Or the "Eve Gene". Its undeniable who the first humans were. The oldest human bone evr found was traced back to East Africa. So step your game up and stop listening to these lying and fact omitting European scientist because these are the people who hide and lie about the truth anyways. Next you will tell me that Ancient Egyptians weren't black.
 
... Africa was the only continent where humans lived for tens of thousands of years. I don't believe in googling history lessons, but research "Scientific Eve". Or the "Eve Gene". Its undeniable who the first humans were. The oldest human bone evr found was traced back to East Africa. .

I don't know, dude, this "real" pic from that very time period shows they looked very white to me. :bounce:
Doesn't look like they're making any "little" NiggDicks ... :happy:

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If the first humans were Africans then how in the fuck can "other species" leave from other areas? None of the ******* that you typed made any sense. Africa was the only continent where humans lived for tens of thousands of years. I don't believe in googling history lessons, but research "Scientific Eve". Or the "Eve Gene". Its undeniable who the first humans were. The oldest human bone evr found was traced back to East Africa. So step your game up and stop listening to these lying and fact omitting European scientist because these are the people who hide and lie about the truth anyways. Next you will tell me that Ancient Egyptians weren't black.
How can the other species leave from other areas? Quite simple really. There were several migrations that spread out over primarily Europe, Asia, and the Middle East. Many of these populations were isolated from other populations for extended period of time and consequently evolved differently than the originating population. Later migrations interbred with the populations that had developed from previous migrations. Hominids probably did get their start in the Rift Valley part of which is in Ethiopia. Human evolution doesn't appear to be very linear. Out family tree is really more of a bush.
 
Question for the Forum, I'm 27yrs, 5'11 205lb, 9inches, sexy as hell, served 8yrs in the army, going to UCF to be a teacher, why is it that i find myself drawn more and more to white and Latin women, I've tried dating black women around my age, and OMFG, it's like a car wreck, if it's not "baby daddy drama", it's the nasty hostile attitude, is it me? or is this becoming a common thing?
Why are a lot of these black women you talk about angry? They're not angry. They are hurt. Most of 'em have ******* as ******* figures. That's where it all starts. We always joke around about some "crazy b*tch" having daddy issues. Well it's true, especially in the black community. There are a lot of good sistas out there, even in the hood. If you could ever get them to the point of trusting you and get them in one-on-one deep conversation, you'll see that they are just as nice as any other woman out there. Remember, they were little girls too. They once looked up to mom and dad and believed they were special and daddy's little princess. Then daddy left, uncles who she thought had her back, ended up trying to get between her legs, etc . . . I had a friend who once sought pschyatric councel because her ******* left her and her familty, moved to another town, started another and treated the new family like they were gold. I told my friend once, "but you are strong black woman." Her response?" I'm tired of being a strong black woman."
Thank you for serving the country, brah. The baby daddy drama? It's true unfortunately. Too many of our you black women are single parents. But, again, alot of 'em in their quest to find "daddy" give it up so easily. (they also seem to fall for some of the most lowdown niggas around when good brotha's would show 'em respect. But that's for anothe topic.) Good luck, brah.
 
Why are a lot of these black women you talk about angry? They're not angry. They are hurt. Most of 'em have ******* as ******* figures. That's where it all starts. We always joke around about some "crazy b*tch" having daddy issues. Well it's true, especially in the black community. There are a lot of good sistas out there, even in the hood. If you could ever get them to the point of trusting you and get them in one-on-one deep conversation, you'll see that they are just as nice as any other woman out there. Remember, they were little girls too. They once looked up to mom and dad and believed they were special and daddy's little princess. Then daddy left, uncles who she thought had her back, ended up trying to get between her legs, etc . . . I had a friend who once sought pschyatric councel because her ******* left her and her familty, moved to another town, started another and treated the new family like they were gold. I told my friend once, "but you are strong black woman." Her response?" I'm tired of being a strong black woman."
Thank you for serving the country, brah. The baby daddy drama? It's true unfortunately. Too many of our you black women are single parents. But, again, alot of 'em in their quest to find "daddy" give it up so easily. (they also seem to fall for some of the most lowdown niggas around when good brotha's would show 'em respect. But that's for anothe topic.) Good luck, brah.
Unfortunately you make a lot of valid points. Both of my daughters told me when they were in their 20's how lucky they were to have two parents that cared. Of course when they were in their teens I was ruining their lives and I didn't understand anything that they were experiencing. A lot of men brag about getting a woman/women pregnant. It isn't a particular difficult task to learn or to do. Raising children from birth to adulthood instilling them with the skills and values to make them productive members of society is a much more noteworthy task.
 
Why are there not more conversations like this? Aside from the fact that this is a site for obvious other reasons. I do not see why it is there cannot be more in depth discussions on a variety of subjects.
You are entirely free to start a thread on anything that doesn't violate website policies. If other people are interested they will jump in
 
I have just one point to add to the many good points I have read above. If someone hurts you, you need to be able to put that aside and consciously decide to not blame others for the fault of one, if you want to be happy. That's what I have had to do. Does it leave me open to still being hurt? Yes. But I refuse to miss out on having a potentially wonderful person in my life simply because I am tarring them with the same brush that someone else needs instead.
 
I have just one point to add to the many good points I have read above. If someone hurts you, you need to be able to put that aside and consciously decide to not blame others for the fault of one, if you want to be happy. That's what I have had to do. Does it leave me open to still being hurt? Yes. But I refuse to miss out on having a potentially wonderful person in my life simply because I am tarring them with the same brush that someone else needs instead.
s a pity a lot more people dont take this view think like this its easy to say they do but to really think well its open for discussion the world could be a better place :)
 
s a pity a lot more people dont take this view think like this its easy to say they do but to really think well its open for discussion the world could be a better place :)
Unfortunately sometimes it takes defiance and/or anger to make change happen. How would have things have been different if Rosa Parks had given up her seat?
 
I have just one point to add to the many good points I have read above. If someone hurts you, you need to be able to put that aside and consciously decide to not blame others for the fault of one, if you want to be happy. That's what I have had to do. Does it leave me open to still being hurt? Yes. But I refuse to miss out on having a potentially wonderful person in my life simply because I am tarring them with the same brush that someone else needs instead.
I think Elizabeth Taylor said something like"There is no better deodorant than money" There is no better revenge than to be successful(that's my belief.) I seldom have people that are racist to my face, I don't tolerate it. If it is in a social setting I will distance myself from the person. If it is in a business setting I will contact the owner or manager and explain calmly and clearly the problem I perceived. The owner or manager will need to explain to how I may have misunderstood the employee's intentions or outline what actions are going to be taken to prevent a re-occurrence. I am fortunate to have wonderful circle of friends and acquaintances and I think I lead a very happy life. I just don't have a place for hurtful people in my life
 
Being white doesn't necessarily mean you lived an easy life or had good role models! Many of us were raised without
fathers present. In abusive situations! Raised our own children, as single moms, with deadbeat dads.Nothing can be done to change that. The only thing you are in control of is your own behavior and attitude towards life. You can choose to be happy or you can choose to be angry! Life is what you make of it!!
Hard lives aren't unique to any race. Native Americans probably had the worst deal in this country until they started discovering casino gambling
 
.... The only thing you are in control of is your own behavior and attitude towards life. You can choose to be happy or you can choose to be angry! Life is what you make of it!!

Virginia, I can agree with your point concerning normal people, but there are many mental diseases and medications to those diseases that prevent contolling behavior and attitudes. For example, one out of five individuals you meet on the street are battling various levels of depression, and that's just scratching the surface of mental illnesses. The older one gets, the more likely they are experiencing a mental illness of some form, and, they often aren't even aware they have them.
 
Virginia, I can agree with your point concerning normal people, but there are many mental diseases and medications to those diseases that prevent contolling behavior and attitudes. For example, one out of five individuals you meet on the street are battling various levels of depression, and that's just scratching the surface of mental illnesses. The older one gets, the more likely they are experiencing a mental illness of some form, and, they often aren't even aware they have them.
I don't believe that you can get teenagers through those fun years and remain entirely sane:hot:
 
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