*This is a repost from the verified members forums* I want everyone to chime in.
I don't really go to sex parties but I've been noticing a trend of these "BBC" themed sex parties or "queen of spades" sex parties and the main attraction is supposed to be black men. Some of these events are charging single men up to $200 to attend.
From what I'm told a majority of the women there are overweight and most don't even qualify to be a hot wife. So tell me why are these men willing to throw their money away at a slim chance at fucking an obese wife? Pun intended fully
The host of the sex party is not usually in on the sexual fetish, they're just a businessman/ woman.
Despite all the hard talk about "equality" in western countries, the fact remains that in almost all clubs, discos, swinging clubs and so on, guys have to pay (regardless of race), and this is true for everything from teenage discos to cuckold/ hotwife clubs.
Sadly I can't see it going away anytime soon.
I have to say that the comment about overweight older women and young, attractive (usually black) men is true too.
Me and my ex were in a one way open relationship (I have been both a bull and a cuckold and enjoy both situations, I am white though), and honestly we didn't actually like the ones we went to in the US.
First of all, in our relationship we are NOT interested in humiliation or anything "sissy" etc and there were a lot of guys there that were for sure closeted... I think this pissed off a lot of the black guys there, and understandably so.
Secondly, I am totally heterosexual and not all of the guys there could understand this
Thirdly and worst of all, most of the women there were older, fat and not particularly attractive.
My girlfriend at the time was a 22 y/o Spanish girl with a huge ass and so obviously it was a bit awkward because basically every guy there wanted her and not the others... And she can only take so many (and fantasy aside, obviously she was only interested in some of them, she doesn't just have sex with any guy who is black).
On the other hand, the ones here in Spain (and we've been to one in Italy too) have been superb. My gf got a bit jealous though because some girls there appeared to be interested and I'm not allowed with other women (I'm only a bull when I'm single, we were in a cuckold relationship at the time).