Sorry, long read...
i am in love with bull (...)
What many people fail to notice is that there is always an emotional part about a sexual relationship too. At least when the sex is good and it includes orgasms. Orgasming does biologically do something with the brain that develops a connection between two people. The question is: Are you capable of both differenciating between those feelings and love and emotionally sticking to your rational decision that it is to be a sexual relationship only?
i know a girl who has always had "chain relationships", meaning after the end of a relationship she would find and fall for another guy immediately after they`d had sex for the first time. She always encountered very strong feelings of connectedness with her boyfriends up to a level that it`s imaginable there even exists a clinical term for that condition.
At parties that she`d arrived before her boyfriend of a given time she would leave a conversation without a word no matter who she was speaking with or if she or the other person was in the middle of a sentence just to go and hug her arriving boyfriend hello. It was always clear to me that she is
not created for a lifestyle like this.
A quite different example would be my girlfriend. She once told me she had had a strictly sexual relationship with a "friend", a fuck buddy that is, before me. They would meet up and be adventurous and try to satisfy each other`s sexual desires. For instance, they had planned on a MFM threesome, but for some reason it never came to happen. She also told me that was something "on
her list" (and still is
). i asked her if she would have taken him as a boyfriend if he had striven for that. She told me that she never would have had a serious relationship with him, because for her he simply isn`t the type of man for that.
Taking the two facts together that there is historical proof of my girlfriend`s capability of having a sexual relationship without falling in love plus her persistent unresolved desire for a threesome makes me feel like she is a very good candidate for the cuckolding or hotwifing lifestyle. What do you all think?
Bottom line: Not everyone is created for a lifestyle like this.
So, cuckold wannabes be careful what you wish for! If your wife or girlfriend is
not made for such a lifestyle, beginning to act on it will also be the beginning of the end of your marriage/relationship. jm2ct`s
(...) only problem he likes to share me with friends
Happens sometimes. Does that make him a cuck? i don`t think so.
i read an interesting article about cuckold relationships where a husband`s reasons for sharing his wife with other men were compared to a man`s reasons for sharing his tools with other men. i think for a "bull" or side-lover it is pretty much that: (proudly) showing what he has.
For a cuckold husband i would say, typically, there is more to it. It is not only making others aware of what an attractive and desirable sexual being
his wife and his pride is, but also he has a strong feeling that she
deserves to be (sexually)
satisfied to the fullest.
@maryann 660ac: Don`t mind being shared by your "bull" too, as this can be highly enjoyable.
But if you find out this is not for you, then stop him from doing it or move on. There is plenty to experience out there!