My Hubby and I have discussed our sexuality at great length, we decided that in general we are not about labels, but if you want to break it down to brass tacks and labels here goes. We are both Pan-sexual but hetro-romantic,
Pan-sexual=not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.
Hetro-romantic= Has romantic attraction towards the opposite sex
now with that said not saying that romantic feeling couldn't develop with the same sex, just not as likley
to explain, My Husband is in love with me, and not particularly attracted to men in a general sense, but when we play he loves to suck a cock, and has taken one anally in the past and hopes to again one day, and he loves cum from men, in me particularly to eat me and reclaim me afterwards. so hope this is a help to some out there.
We in general don't believe in a definitive straight or gay...... We have fun!