Gordon It's a state of being. Adhering to rules that are no longer in place. It's music, attitude, dress, having intellect of knowing when and when not to, how you treat a women, a lady or a slut (it's all good). Having confidence, control, how you live, what you drive, your perception of life based on true knowledge, being a mans, man. Well you get the idea. Most of all how to handle that 9.5" Black Dick I have in draping over my wrist and arm.