As I've mentioned before, we had very few blacks in our trade-off and high-school so I never had much contact with very many blacks until I got to college.. yes, I had black friends, but to my knowledge then, I didn't know any of my white girlfriends personally who was dating a black guy, let alone having sex with any.. I think I can honestly say that I was never prejudice toward blacks, I guess it was the fact that I was never without a white boyfriend and the subject never came up with me or any of my other white girlfriends.. even the few black girlfriends we had, only dated black guys and the interracial dating scene was non-existing. So it was no surprise that at the age of 20, I married my college sweetheart. After four years of what I thought was the perfect marriage, I found out my hubby was cheating and that changed everything. Long story short, my best friend, was the one who talked me into going out with her black boyfriends best friend, also black and that single experience changed my life forever and other than my losing my parents and a few other bigoted family and family friends, I have absolutely no regret with the path I have chosen. I soon divorced my husband and I've been black exclusive since.. That was more than 21 years ago.. And since then, I've found out that I must have been a little blond back in my college days as I've learned that a few of my close friends was having discrete sexual experiences with black guys that I never knew about. Even my best friend who talked me into going out with her boyfriend's black friend whom I lost contact with for about a year, I had no clue she was even dating a black guy until that day I went crying to her about finding out about my cheating husband.. That's when she found the right opportunity to tell me all about it and eventually talked me into joining the lifestyle..