The role of BDSM in interracial relationships

[Jarius]

BDSM can be significant in any black bull-white woman/white couple relationship. I offer several reasons that BDSM should play a role. Your comments and suggestions for other reasons will be welcome.

• It reinforces status. Every BDSM activity will remind the white person or people that they are subject to the authority of the Black man. Too many white people have been raised with an inflated sense of self-esteem. If they are not regularly "brought down", they tend to gradually resume feeling overly important.
• It keeps the white people on alert. They never know what the Black bull might plan for a given session. Verbal degradation? Clamps? Plugs? Spanking? . . . They will not grow complacent if they do not know what to expect.
• Limited pain enhances sexual response. Too much pain is bad, and pain thresholds vary from person to person. That being said, a Black bull can adjust his infliction of pain to suit the individual. Pain is to sex as seasoning is to food. With too little seasoning, food is bland; with too much seasoning, it loses its flavor. A bull should start with a minimum and gradually increase, observing the response carefully.
• Restraints reinforce submission. This is something of a repeat of the first item. Cuffs, spreader bars, and the like limit mobility so that we can do things to and with our subs with limited or no movement on their parts. A woman who cannot move will feel a bbc inside her much more intensely than if she is thrashing around.
• Devices aid in training. A ring gag is a great aid for deepthroat training. Clamps (weighted or unweighted) increase sensitivity of nipples, clit, and pussy lips. Butt plugs help to stretch the ass.

 

[Andrea38]

There was a mutual attraction between this guy and me. He was dom; I was sub. The problem was that we had so quickly developed a mutual respect as well as attraction for each other that the bdsm thing just did not work from the start. Completely ******. So we let it go and he is my sig other.

 

[luchris]

For myself....the first and 2 last items are the most important.....

 

[PawgCelia223]

BDSM can be significant in any black bull-white woman/white couple relationship. I offer several reasons that BDSM should play a role. Your comments and suggestions for other reasons will be welcome.

• It reinforces status. Every BDSM activity will remind the white person or people that they are subject to the authority of the Black man. Too many white people have been raised with an inflated sense of self-esteem. If they are not regularly "brought down", they tend to gradually resume feeling overly important.
• It keeps the white people on alert. They never know what the Black bull might plan for a given session. Verbal degradation? Clamps? Plugs? Spanking? . . . They will not grow complacent if they do not know what to expect.
• Limited pain enhances sexual response. Too much pain is bad, and pain thresholds vary from person to person. That being said, a Black bull can adjust his infliction of pain to suit the individual. Pain is to sex as seasoning is to food. With too little seasoning, food is bland; with too much seasoning, it loses its flavor. A bull should start with a minimum and gradually increase, observing the response carefully.
• Restraints reinforce submission. This is something of a repeat of the first item. Cuffs, spreader bars, and the like limit mobility so that we can do things to and with our subs with limited or no movement on their parts. A woman who cannot move will feel a bbc inside her much more intensely than if she is thrashing around.
• Devices aid in training. A ring gag is a great aid for deepthroat training. Clamps (weighted or unweighted) increase sensitivity of nipples, clit, and pussy lips. Butt plugs help to stretch the ass.

This is very well-written and informed, psychologically as well as erotically. I'd love to see more classy BDSM elements presented in IR porn and erotica--mind games, training, cuffs and collars, exhibitionism, leather and latex. You offer a concise, sharply thought-out credo for the hows and whys!

 

[rustyshackleford]

This is very well-written and informed, psychologically as well as erotically. I'd love to see more classy BDSM elements presented in IR porn and erotica--mind games, training, cuffs and collars, exhibitionism, leather and latex. You offer a concise, sharply thought-out credo for the hows and whys!

I'm curious as to what kind of IR BDSM you like

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

BDSM can be significant in any black bull-white woman/white couple relationship. I offer several reasons that BDSM should play a role. Your comments and suggestions for other reasons will be welcome.

• It reinforces status. Every BDSM activity will remind the white person or people that they are subject to the authority of the Black man. Too many white people have been raised with an inflated sense of self-esteem. If they are not regularly "brought down", they tend to gradually resume feeling overly important.
• It keeps the white people on alert. They never know what the Black bull might plan for a given session. Verbal degradation? Clamps? Plugs? Spanking? . . . They will not grow complacent if they do not know what to expect.
• Limited pain enhances sexual response. Too much pain is bad, and pain thresholds vary from person to person. That being said, a Black bull can adjust his infliction of pain to suit the individual. Pain is to sex as seasoning is to food. With too little seasoning, food is bland; with too much seasoning, it loses its flavor. A bull should start with a minimum and gradually increase, observing the response carefully.
• Restraints reinforce submission. This is something of a repeat of the first item. Cuffs, spreader bars, and the like limit mobility so that we can do things to and with our subs with limited or no movement on their parts. A woman who cannot move will feel a bbc inside her much more intensely than if she is thrashing around.
• Devices aid in training. A ring gag is a great aid for deepthroat training. Clamps (weighted or unweighted) increase sensitivity of nipples, clit, and pussy lips. Butt plugs help to stretch the ass.

I enjoyed reading and learning your in depth view .. Most men are shallow and just want to fuck. For us however we are a cuckold couple and my lady Scarlett is not submissive at all . She does want to be taken but not in these ways . I the cuck am submissive to her and in turn her Bull.
We find it difficult to find A Bull who would enjoy to apply all those roles towards the sub cuck. In very limited instances Scarlett is very turned on by a Black man's power over me .

 

[shawfelix007]

BDSM "can" play a role, but whether it "should" play a role depends on the people involved in the relationship.

I don't think all the couples will tend to view relationship with a black bull through the prism of "DOM" and "sub" binary.

Some women might enjoy being gagged, choked, restrained etc. etc. where as others might not.

Some husbands might like to be humiliated , others might NOT.

Some couples might enjoy the bull in charge whereas others might tend to view him as equal who strengthens their already strong bond.

 

[katybarcelona]

I like this thread, I want to learn to be submissive and complacent to the black race

 

[Eduardorm225]

If you aren't adding some BDSM to your IR experiences you're truly missing out. The time and thought it takes to create a scene is important. It enhances the anticipation. Once you're in the moment and she submits you can take her places she didn't know existed. And when it's over she will curl in your arms and no man will matter more than you in her mind.

 

[LilLiz]

Tes but I want this for real I have a ******* fettish

 

[Eduardorm225]

Tes but I want this for real I have a ******* fettish

All of those pictures are real and I'm in every one of them. But here's the truth. You have a profile picture with your face yet you're not verified. So the idea that you really want this (or that you're even a woman at all) is suspect at best. Not saying you're not just saying it's questionable. Get verified then let's talk.

 

[Jacktone]

Slap my bum.
Bum bum bum.

 

[DanielJ2021]

I'd love to see more classy BDSM elements presented in IR porn and erotica--mind games, training, cuffs and collars, exhibitionism, leather and latex.

All of those elements can be used effectively, depending on the individuals involved. I am not much for leather and latex, but I find all of the others to be useful in varying degrees, depending on the woman. Some people make the mistake of thinking BDSM is one-size-fits-all, when in reality, techniques need to be adapted to the particular woman. The better I get to know each one, the more appropriate my methods will be.

 

[luchris]

All of those elements can be used effectively, depending on the individuals involved. I am not much for leather and latex, but I find all of the others to be useful in varying degrees, depending on the woman. Some people make the mistake of thinking BDSM is one-size-fits-all, when in reality, techniques need to be adapted to the particular woman. The better I get to know each one, the more appropriate my methods will be.

That’s indeed true...it depends from the woman but also from the dominant men....
What do they want, their methods, rules, expectations and requests...
Her limits, needs, degree of sexual submission.....availability, proudness to be seen, showed off, shared...
And very important to me...the need of mental domination as the motor of physical ownership

 

[Bbc4u2enjoy]

I enjoyed reading and learning your in depth view .. Most men are shallow and just want to fuck. For us however we are a cuckold couple and my lady Scarlett is not submissive at all . She does want to be taken but not in these ways . I the cuck am submissive to her and in turn her Bull.
We find it difficult to find A Bull who would enjoy to apply all those roles towards the sub cuck. In very limited instances Scarlett is very turned on by a Black man's power over me .

Sounds to me like you putting words in her mouth. I think that in the case where a woman is dominant like Scarlett you need a bow that's there to please her and romance her and do the things that you just can't do stop adding on what you want to add on and let her tell you what she wants you to put when you try to represent her please.

 

[beenblackened]

I've always liked a little BDSM when we play.

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[DakDoesMILFs]

I've always liked a little BDSM when we play.

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Excellent!

 

[bobbyhotone2]

Did her lucky husband take the picture?
Her husband is a lucky man to be married to such a beautiful and exciting Lady and a slut for black cocks.
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Exciting to see how well her black Master abuses her big beautiful naked white TiTs and nipples, puts her on a dog leash and collar and makes her crawl like dog. Looks like he also enjoyed whipping big beautiful naked white TiTs and nipples. That training should help the white slut wife and cuckold husband to remember their proper place when servicing the white wife's black Master.

 

[Mistertinycuck]

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Love that leash. I’d like to see the black hand holding on to it.

 

[toyforblack]

Yes its devine to be tied up or chain and used. Teaches a girl her place so she may show her gratitude when she is released.