Should all men dedicate time in their schedule to improve their sex game?

[BlkGodX]

Firstly please do not take offense.
Let's be honest, 50 to 70 percent of women fail to experienced an orgasm.
Which is insane

Only 15 percent of women experienced a multiple orgasm.

Which is just sad.

This can only be attributed to two things. Men as a whole dont know what the hell we are doing and two we dont care to know...pump and dump. Which pretty much is a guarantee of your s.o. leaving you.

What I purpose, is thar we learn.

Of course we need money, eat healthy, go to the gym, study but shouldn't we set 30 minutes of our time learning how to satisfy our women and constantly improving our sex game.

The basics to activated a female orgasm is being able to read her involuntary movements, adjust accordingly and do the things she likes physically. Apply slight domination and stimulate her erotically.

However, there are many advantanced techniques and moves out their to advance your sexual prowess.

Back on topic. Should we take 30 minutes of our day to learn and keep improving.

If more men were to learn how to satisfy their women, women in general would value dick more if a majority of us were able to satisfy them extraordinarily.
Thoughts, feedback.

 

[MacNfries]

You're making this sound like only a "man" problem ... its not.
Thoughts, feedback?

 

[Steele@730]

It's a two way thang. Some ppl just take and don't really care about their partner. Some don't know what they want, how to ask for it or how to please their partner(s). Just step on the gas, that key things is overrated

 

[Kody33]

Orgasms are not just physical. There is a mental aspect there as well. Example, I can get my wife to orgasm multiple times, like squirting all over and we have to change the sheets. Other times I do my damn best and if she's not mentally there an orgasm isn't ever going to happen.

 

[QoSandCuck]

Over the years cucky has improved his bed game by carefully watching my BBC friends and learning how to please me.

Cuckolding for us is mostly about power. I love taking power from cucky and giving it to a superior man. It is overwhelmingly erotic when cucky doesn’t just submit, but embrace his diminished status,

Of course there are other elements as you mention. Being in the arms of a true stud you feel affection for and the emotions and feelings from that alone is exhilarating, and hearing the nast words of my dear Bull as he loses control is true bliss - and cucky as witness is the icing on the cake.

 

[Jenniferkayla]

It’s a 2way street.
I can confidently say my head game is stronger now than ever. Definitely took some practice ?

 

[BlkGodX]

Orgasms are not just physical. There is a mental aspect there as well. Example, I can get my wife to orgasm multiple times, like squirting all over and we have to change the sheets. Other times I do my damn best and if she's not mentally there an orgasm isn't ever going to happen.

Theres techniques to get her there mentally. Should men take the time and really learn them?

 

[BlkGodX]

It’s a 2way street.
I can confidently say my head game is stronger now than ever. Definitely took some practice ?

If it's a 2 way street, how do you explain women who try their hardest not to cum but cum anyways?

 

[BlkGodX]

Most successful men are focused on advancing their careers first and foremost....

Then if they have acquired assets...

You will have one or maybe 2 mortgages , Car payments and definitely credit card debt to worry about before you think about spending 30 minutes a day improving your sex game...

The most you can do is go to the gym as much as you can to keep your stamina up and stay in shape....

Now if you don’t have a career, live with your parents, don’t have credit card/student loan debt and don’t have a car...

You will 24 hours a day to watch porn to improve your sexual technique....

Who watches porn to improve their sex game?

There are tons of sex experts out there on YouTube who can professionally give you the anatomy and advanced techniques to pleasure women.


The correct amount of pressure apply to the clit.
Making sure your finger nails are clean and well trimmed before fingering her.
Different sophisticated positions to stimulate the g spot or clitoris during penetration.

You can have all the money in the world but if you cant sexually satisfy your girl she will cheat.

I work 11 hrs a day, 5 days a week, and do college on the 6th day. I go to the Gym for for an 1 hr and a half 5 days a week. I find plenty of time to learn.

I think the consensus is men simply don't care to learn but are shocked when they get cheated on.

 

[BlkGodX]

6 minutes of your time

 

[bbcinkc]

This is kind of a silly question. Do you wanna hit the pussy again? Then hit it good the first time.

 

[BlkGodX]

Never ever worry about a woman cheating on you.....

Remember this saying.....

“ You could lose a billion dollars chasing a woman, but you will never lose a woman chasing a billion dollars “

On the real , if you spend 30 minutes a day watching YouTube videos about sex.... that’s 30 minutes you could be making money...

I know the game. Even if you are not in a relationship and have a rotation of girls they are not going to stick around if you cant satisfy them and you have no leverage on them if you cant take their soul sexually.

A woman will do anything for you if you give her mindblowing sex, since most guy dont care about her sexual gratification.

You will never get a women's best with money. Rich guys get cheated on all the time. The couples on here are successful yet their on here. Money means very little to a woman.

There are plenty of guys who spend their money and be a provider to get cheated on and dumped because they don't do it sexually.

I agree money is important and you should always be on your grind.

Its comes first. But knowing how to fuck and always improving your sex game is important as well imo. It's not as important in life but it still is.

Tbh looking at the divorce rate and the condition of men as a whole if you don't know how to fuck pretty much every woman will cheat on you, dump you, or just cuck you.

She will dump you for a guy who makes around the same money you make but looks or fucks better

Good dick is the great equalizer.

Me personally I work 55 hrs a week and have a SIDe hustle flipping cars, plus college. I dont live to work. I work to live.

Nothing is better then watching a woman submit to you sexually and get off.

It's the most raw, erotic, exciting thing in life.

You are hitting her spots good and doing ******* most men won't do. Positions most men don't do.

You know how hard this chick came when I flipped her ass over, handcuffed her to the bedpost, rubbed her clit and got in her spot with a medium deep, medium stroke .

I made her feel like a woman.
Money?
You have women taking you out to eat.
You have women making you dinner and your not together
You have women begging to be dicked down again
Buying you sneakers.
And gifts.
Bringing food to your job.
Paying for the hotel they want you to fuck them in.


And more

If you fuck them till they pass out and eyes roll back in their head.

I don't know about you but it's just a massive ego boost.

I still remember this one girl I fucked. She talked so much ******* on how she was going to slay me in bed. How my dick was whack. I made that chick squirt 4 times. She cam at least 6 times. I fucked her so good.

She fell asleep in her own squirt. Didnt change the sheets She said I couldn't cum in her pussy. I made her beg for me to cum in her pussy after her 3rd orgasm.
I got up stared at her, like I slayed her and didn't call or text her for 3 days. She blew my phone up like crazy. Called me 60 times over the course of 3 days.

I finally picked up. She went off and told her I wasn't going to have sex with her unless she let's me cum inside her as much as I want and she sucks me off whenever I want.

Not only did she take me out to breakfast the next day after she called out of work. She sucked me right after in the car. Swallowed. Made me some Italian food later that night. I came in her pussy twice once doggy and second from the back mounting her which made her cum. She cleaned my dick off. She made me like this strawberry alcohol beverage and massaged my body and my dick for the rest of the night. THEN she texted me positive ******* all day when I was at work.

That's just 1 scenario. Oh she put all the gas in my car everytime we decided to go out. I never asked her she just did it.

 

[BlkGodX]

Never ever worry about a woman cheating on you.....

Remember this saying.....

“ You could lose a billion dollars chasing a woman, but you will never lose a woman chasing a billion dollars “

On the real , if you spend 30 minutes a day watching YouTube videos about sex.... that’s 30 minutes you could be making money...

I also remember this cocky older guy who took this older chick out to gamble. He would wine and dine her. He called her being cocky about his money.
I didn't spend a dime on her. I fucked her on her couch missionary with her legs on my shoulders while he was on the phone.

No cuckolding. This was a black woman and older black guy. He had no idea.


We were actually struggling not to laugh.

All because he cant fuck.

 

[BlkGodX]

You lost me at buying you sneakers......

Well agree to disagree but money doesn't get a womans pussy wet.

 

[CuckToBeInWV]

Firstly please do not take offense.
Let's be honest, 50 to 70 percent of women fail to experienced an orgasm.
Which is insane

Only 15 percent of women experienced a multiple orgasm.

Which is just sad.

This can only be attributed to two things. Men as a whole dont know what the hell we are doing and two we dont care to know...pump and dump. Which pretty much is a guarantee of your s.o. leaving you.

What I purpose, is thar we learn.

Of course we need money, eat healthy, go to the gym, study but shouldn't we set 30 minutes of our time learning how to satisfy our women and constantly improving our sex game.

The basics to activated a female orgasm is being able to read her involuntary movements, adjust accordingly and do the things she likes physically. Apply slight domination and stimulate her erotically.

However, there are many advantanced techniques and moves out their to advance your sexual prowess.

Back on topic. Should we take 30 minutes of our day to learn and keep improving.

If more men were to learn how to satisfy their women, women in general would value dick more if a majority of us were able to satisfy them extraordinarily.
Thoughts, feedback.

There is so much cuck talk on here about white men not pleasing their women, but I take exception to it. I have always put enormous effort into finding what it takes to make my partner orgasm, and make sure to take the time and effort to make it happen. Back in 2016, I dated a female that considered herself a Domme, but I had turned the tables on her, and one night, after well over an hour of foreplay, I was able to have her so on edge, I could whisper in her ear "Cum now!" that she would start to do so. It was truly the most extreme thing I had done sexually, but I have made sure many women leave a huge wet spot on the bed from gushing or squirting.

About 12 years ago, one play partner was well known for being a size queen. I told her, I would disappoint the hell out of her in that regard, I am average length, but thick, but not long. She is a squirter, brought over her special blanket, and we had a blast. She came back many times for more fun, even though I didn't measure up size wise.

White men who are hung up on not being able to please their partners are in a self-fulfilling prophecy. They convince themselves they can't.

 

[TexasPervySage]

Long as some of the women, mainly my regulars, get off, I dont care. Nobody bats at 1000.


And like mentioned before, it goes both ways. If you listen in on men's conversations, you'll find that women arent as good at sex as they're led to believe.

Yeah, there is some universal stuff that applies, but at the end of the day, you gotta communicate with that individual woman(and for the women, with the man).

 

[VegascplXXX]

Wow, in one way it explains why so many men don't have a clue when it comes to sex. It sounds like some guys choose to give up their sex life in persute of money! I'm glad my husband didn't make that choice!

 

[BlkGodX]

Wow, in one way it explains why so many men don't have a clue when it comes to sex. It sounds like some guys choose to give up their sex life in persute of money! I'm glad my husband didn't make that choice!

I get the same response in real life, social media etc.

They dont care to learn. Women are sexually frustrated and unsatisfied and after watching a hundred videos, the conclusion from women is that guys dont have a clue what they are doing.

Makes sense because men are too selfish, egotistical, and ignorant too learn.

Then they wonder why they get cheated on.

I wish it was that easy. That woman can be pump and dumped and still orgasm the way we do. They dont. It takes alot of knowledge to make a women cum multiple times.
Never mind advanced g spot stimulation techniques, most guys dont even wash their feet or trim their toe nails or fingernails. Hell they dont even wash under their ball sacks good and put a fragrant on their.

Hell when they piss they don't even wipe off their penis with toilet paper and they let the piss residue drip in their pants. Its because their balls smell like Clorox and poo.

Then they wonder why their women stops sleeping with them or why she won't give them the sloppy blowjob he desires.

 

[BlkGodX]

There is so much cuck talk on here about white men not pleasing their women, but I take exception to it. I have always put enormous effort into finding what it takes to make my partner orgasm, and make sure to take the time and effort to make it happen. Back in 2016, I dated a female that considered herself a Domme, but I had turned the tables on her, and one night, after well over an hour of foreplay, I was able to have her so on edge, I could whisper in her ear "Cum now!" that she would start to do so. It was truly the most extreme thing I had done sexually, but I have made sure many women leave a huge wet spot on the bed from gushing or squirting.

About 12 years ago, one play partner was well known for being a size queen. I told her, I would disappoint the hell out of her in that regard, I am average length, but thick, but not long. She is a squirter, brought over her special blanket, and we had a blast. She came back many times for more fun, even though I didn't measure up size wise.

White men who are hung up on not being able to please their partners are in a self-fulfilling prophecy. They convince themselves they can't.

It's not a race thing. It's a man thing. With the exception of black men on this site most black men in real life can't fuck either.


I've seen many black men get cheated on, dumped because they are ignorant to their womens sexual needs.

I know plenty of black men who smell like weed, musty and *******.
Breathe smell like *******.

Overweight.

Then they wonder why their girl stopped having sex with them for months on end.

I know a guy who was taking care of this single moms *******. She treated him like *******.

He led with his wallet. She cheated on him while she was at work. She used the classic pick an argument excuse to not have sex with him and fuck the guy she really wants to fuck trick saving her pussy for that guy.

She eventually dumped him and got with the guy she was screwing around on him with.

Black men are no different then white men, or asian men. They have the same problems. I will say this though some of us; "keyword" some of us, are starting to at least wake up and understand that you must be a womens sexual first .Y ou must must must make her cum hard and MANY times constantly to keep her. I will give black men that.

Even then a woman could still cheat on you but the chances of that happening are slim to none.

 

[Sunshine girl]

IMHO, you can and should learn about sex. But at the end of the day, everyone is different. What gets one man off is gonna have another thinking you don’t know what you’re doing lol. What’s the right pressure? The right speed? Is that dick long enough for me to grind on during doggy or do I need to be still

Technical knowledge is good but nothing replaces getting to know someone and paying attention to their body and how it reacts to what you’re doing.

I’m one of those squirters that can go for hours, but if you never take the time to figure out how to make it happen... I can cum and have a good time without that, but you have to know my body and that’s typically not gonna happen the first time.

And as far as getting dick good enough to blow up your phone 60 times before you answer or buy you shoes, uh...just no. Nobody is that good and that lady lost her damn dignity lol But good for you if that’s what you enjoy

On either side, if you’re more worried about what you’re getting out of it and have to be first rather than seeing what you can do to ignite your partner and figure out how they get off so you can both get off, it’s not likely you’re going to walk away satisfied. IMHO if i didn’t get you off, we aren’t done.