In searching for Bulls and experiencing successful and rewarding sessions with real people . Do you think that Porno has created a unrealistic scenario or drove hoards of men to flooding these sites with no intent of meeting but Jacking at Home and inturn created a generation of men that do not know how to communicate . It has been a very frustrating landscape overall the Men we have now went rather easily once our parameters matched .
Has the Porn World Impacted finding Real BBC Men to meet ?
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Well that is what porn is for. It is full of unrealistic scenarios because it is fantasy and fiction. Porn is for masturbation. It's not designed to create links or connections let alone meetings. It is the film version of fiction and fantasy. It always has been. Now ask yourself, for the most part who is busy masturbating? Not people who are with or can get partners to be with.
So has it impacted finding real things? No because porn is fantasy and always has been. BBC and IR porn being niches even at that.
So has it impacted finding real things? No because porn is fantasy and always has been. BBC and IR porn being niches even at that.
Yes But I feel it has flooded men to come here with unrealistic expectations . Years and Years ago they made fun of people who used to do by mail dating . However it was stated somewhere that people who actually were willing to go through that trouble were actually looking for a partner . I kind of wish there was a voice or cam verification to weed out the fake or wankers . I wanted to start a Website myself with that premise .
Of course, the 'flood of porn' has to impact something, somehow and creating unrealistic expectations about having sex is no doubt a leading impact. Like everything else involving human behavior though, there is no such thing as a single, one-dimensional aspect to this. Whereas there are more "fakers or wankers" as you call them, there are also some women who get charged up and finally make themselves available. I won't pretend to guess the relative numbers of both camps, but I can at least personally, anecdotally attest to the fact that overcoming previous hesitancy or disinterest has been the cause of my meeting some very delicious women - and porn has been noticeably involved.
Good luck with your idea of creating an online environment that weeds out the fakers and wankers. Many have tried but the landscape indicates you may cut their numbers down, but like a lawn at your home, the weeds never go away completely, and they can come back with a vengeance. My advice to all of us is to accept and be prepared for the frustration that comes with the onlookers posing as participants. It's part of the price we pay for the orgasms we actually get to experience...
Curiosity of the onlookers killed the pussy cat, but the satisfaction from real orgasms brings the rest of us cumming back...
Good luck with your idea of creating an online environment that weeds out the fakers and wankers. Many have tried but the landscape indicates you may cut their numbers down, but like a lawn at your home, the weeds never go away completely, and they can come back with a vengeance. My advice to all of us is to accept and be prepared for the frustration that comes with the onlookers posing as participants. It's part of the price we pay for the orgasms we actually get to experience...
Curiosity of the onlookers killed the pussy cat, but the satisfaction from real orgasms brings the rest of us cumming back...
Great Answer !Of course, the 'flood of porn' has to impact something, somehow and creating unrealistic expectations about having sex is no doubt a leading impact. Like everything else involving human behavior though, there is no such thing as a single, one-dimensional aspect to this. Whereas there are more "fakers or wankers" as you call them, there are also some women who get charged up and finally make themselves available. I won't pretend to guess the relative numbers of both camps, but I can at least personally, anecdotally attest to the fact that overcoming previous hesitancy or disinterest has been the cause of my meeting some very delicious women - and porn has been noticeably involved.
Good luck with your idea of creating an online environment that weeds out the fakers and wankers. Many have tried but the landscape indicates you may cut their numbers down, but like a lawn at your home, the weeds never go away completely, and they can come back with a vengeance. My advice to all of us is to accept and be prepared for the frustration that comes with the onlookers posing as participants. It's part of the price we pay for the orgasms we actually get to experience...
Curiosity of the onlookers killed the pussy cat, but the satisfaction from real orgasms brings the rest of us cumming back...
Generally speaking, an ever increasing number of men of all races, are not botheing to seek out and date woman. They have no interest or motivation to do it. The ubiquity and availability of porn is a symptom of larger societal issues.
One of the unforeseen blow backs from the dating apps, is for woman to constantly look for someone better to date and an unstable feedback loop occurs. The woman are all looking for a diminishing number of “top notch male prospects” and the huge number of average men end up with no dates. And they give up.
Another interesting statistic is the result of the feminization of colleges and the increasing number of woman earning degrees. It’s well known that woman will almost always date up and not date down. So you have educated single woman rejecting a large number of blue collar men. And the feedback loop accelerates. Men not socially interacting with woman because there are no one to date.
I think that the recent increase in older woman/younger men relationships is due to single woman entering their 30’s and realizing they are no longer the desirable hot woman of their 20’s and they themselves cannot find that “chad” to hookup with. And then change their mind about dating younger less desirable men because that’s what’s available .
One of the unforeseen blow backs from the dating apps, is for woman to constantly look for someone better to date and an unstable feedback loop occurs. The woman are all looking for a diminishing number of “top notch male prospects” and the huge number of average men end up with no dates. And they give up.
Another interesting statistic is the result of the feminization of colleges and the increasing number of woman earning degrees. It’s well known that woman will almost always date up and not date down. So you have educated single woman rejecting a large number of blue collar men. And the feedback loop accelerates. Men not socially interacting with woman because there are no one to date.
I think that the recent increase in older woman/younger men relationships is due to single woman entering their 30’s and realizing they are no longer the desirable hot woman of their 20’s and they themselves cannot find that “chad” to hookup with. And then change their mind about dating younger less desirable men because that’s what’s available .
Very specifically what do you think those unreal expectations are? One person's unreal could be another's average to daily. What's a realistic achievable thing for you or me may not be the same vice versa. So very specifically what are those unreal expectations?
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Its industry by the end of the day.
Feelings and real passionate and intimate is something else
Feelings and real passionate and intimate is something else
indeed, seriously even if it's true that bbc exists, i mean something more than 20cm and if i'm gentle 18cm... there is white men that have a good packet too. And seriously with some parties i just seen once a bbc (22cm) all the others was average and the most of time ~13cm, with a quick ejaculation, not really skilled.
Sadly for me this time with the bbc i couldn't fuck, just sucked him. And almost all of the time on meeting platform guys was not really serious, one came and left immediatly because our house was not a palace... My man laugh in front of him, saying something like, man my wife is hot as a whore in mini dress and you are worrying about the house ? And it's not dirty or anything else, but it's a normal appartment.
I have the luck to have a dirty pervert at house, with a 20 cm dick and in shape, he is not a cuck like a lot here, it's a game between us ,and we play also with women. Then even if the third player shoot to quick, he is able to fuck me long time and strong, then hopefully each time guys came 3-4 times. I mean we are not here, me dressing and using make up, nice under... (lingerie en Français) to just have a quicky, this is at least two hours, if not it's not interesting. You don't travel 100km to stay 5 minutes in a rollercoaster.
Sadly for me this time with the bbc i couldn't fuck, just sucked him. And almost all of the time on meeting platform guys was not really serious, one came and left immediatly because our house was not a palace... My man laugh in front of him, saying something like, man my wife is hot as a whore in mini dress and you are worrying about the house ? And it's not dirty or anything else, but it's a normal appartment.
I have the luck to have a dirty pervert at house, with a 20 cm dick and in shape, he is not a cuck like a lot here, it's a game between us ,and we play also with women. Then even if the third player shoot to quick, he is able to fuck me long time and strong, then hopefully each time guys came 3-4 times. I mean we are not here, me dressing and using make up, nice under... (lingerie en Français) to just have a quicky, this is at least two hours, if not it's not interesting. You don't travel 100km to stay 5 minutes in a rollercoaster.
"my wife is hot as a whore in mini dress and you are worrying about the house ?"
LMAO!!!!!
People are very weird
