Of the adult forums and websites I find myself a member of, would you believe I've had a 0% success rate for a face to face meeting with another B&W member(s)?
Ok. Disclaimer. There are those I've met in other venues whom I recently discovered are members of this site. Hell, I even recommend the site to people I know with "Mutual Interests"
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Don't get me wrong. I have made the digital acquaintance of those who I KNOW for a fact are genuine, exactly who they claim to be, and yet for *reasons* we have been unable to, or have yet to meet. For all the BBC digital daydream sycophants, for all the Horny Henry's who falsely claim to be a Hot Henrietta, and for all those who don't quite seem to grasp the concepts of Time-Space-Distance: Me this part of
, You that part of
. I am not a Billionaire, with inexhaustible amounts of $ to travel, I do not have access to future technologies of atomic disintegration and reintegration [think Star Trek Transporters], nor do I have the time of the Vampire Lestat where a day, week, month, year spent wandering is meaningless in application. Normal guy. Doing normal things. Making the best of (or making) normal opportunities. The things that bring me to B&W isn't my sole purpose for being; it's part of things I enjoy doing.
All that said, it's a pretty good site.
Could I do without those who attempt to waste my time with sheer and utter
?
YES.
Would I like to meet people who are across the Globe or a meer few hours down the road?
YES (Daily life takes precedence so I don't stress about it one iota. If it's not "conveniently feasible", it probably ain't gonna happen. Can't miss what I've never had
)
Do I think some fine day those authentic people whom I met here (or have yet to meet), and myself will enjoy IRL shared time?
When and if it's meant to be, YES.
I see a lot of angst and frustration in the forums:
-HE SHE THEY are "FAKE"
-I can't find anyone in my area
-I haven't found the correct match to live out my/our HotWife, cuckold, Bull dreams
Patience is a virtue.
There will be times of famine and feast.
It is what it is.
It'll happen.
Overall, I enjoy the site and its content. From the conversations that are unbelievable to the point of ludicrous, the random conversation with Good,Sexy, Curious humans i may never get to meet, the pics and videos, to the forum and member commentary that can be thoughtful, inspiring and sometimes worthy of a good ol' fashioned head scratching in awe (both good and bad).
The site is entertaining.
The site has potential as a springboard concerning future adventures.
The site reinforces to me, that if one is living in the lifestyle, best not to put all the eggs in one basket.
0% success rate thus far meeting members (not previously known) in the BtoW community and I'm still sticking around. For those of you having shared this experience of "Not Yet", keep the faith. The best things in life are worth waiting for (and until then, be sure to exercise options
)
) Next month I have plan go to Berlin alone.. so why not another month somwhere close to you
and finally it can happen to both of us, hehehe
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