Strange post. I've never felt like I'm competing with younger women, that's never entered my mind. I'm a realist, I know guys know I'm a middle aged housewife who is up for a bit of fun and not a 19 year old beauty.
Of course I would never cheerlead the break up of a marriage, but from the opening post on here, it appears the relationship wasn't great anyway.
Me and my hubby were happily married when we started swinging and he's more than enjoyed all this sex and bits of humiliation for him. The only reason we've fell out now is because he wasn't sympathetic with a health condition which I got as a direct result from this lifestyle. And the fact I'm now seeing an ex bf and just had my bf name tattooed on me which my hubby hates!
But we are more or less as strong as before, and will be together when we are older looking back on some sexy thrills.