Speaking of diversity and the great "melting pot", I spent a number of years in the military and saw and experienced it first hand. I grew up in a small rural community in mid-America and we did not have a diverse society. There were two black ******* in our small school system and no other minority at all. Race was never an issue or even an after-thought. We not only lacked diversity, we also lacked jobs so after graduation I ended up in the military. There I experienced a little bit of everything. I got along well with everyone (I basically had no prejudice because it had never been an issue in my prior life and that served me well with my fellow soldiers). In those days we did not nave a sexually integrated military and therefore didn't have as many females as they have now but we did have women in some units and on all bases. What I did observe was that nearly every female, away from home and usually on her own for the first time, eventually slept with a black man or men. I was married to two different women while I served and while I didn't know it at the time, I later discovered that they had both had interracial affairs while I was married to them and I never knew it. I believe that many of my fellow black soldiers were masters of "hard-pursuit" seduction and that nearly all of the white females wanted to experience that type of a relationship at least once in their life. I saw it over and over. Resist, resist, resist and then surrender with total abandon and what appeared to be complete satisfaction, almost addiction. I think it must be part of their natural DNA to be pursued hard and to surrender - and it IS exciting to watch so it must be exciting to experience! If your S.O. keeps bringing it up, he's thinking about it, just as you are - now you just have to decide what to do about it.