Seeking BBC help/advice

[johnsonsteve80]

So here is the situation…

I am 49, and my GF is 25. I am the only man she has EVER been with in ANY way (I was even her first kiss).
We have been a couple for 5 full years, and during that time, every time we had sex, she has NEVER ONCE allowed me to cum inside her, even WITH wearing a condom. She has that big of a fear of pregnancy, that she will simply NOT allow it, under any circumstance, no matter what level of protection I use. We DO watch IR porn together, and she admits that she does secretly desire BBC.

Should I explore sharing her with a BBC, even though it may very well mean someone else getting something that I have been unable to get in 5 years? It would be so tough to watch a BBC do something that I never have been allowed to, while at the same time, the thought of that turns me on greatly.

 

[Black9]

So here is the situation…

I am 49, and my GF is 25. I am the only man she has EVER been with in ANY way (I was even her first kiss).
We have been a couple for 5 full years, and during that time, every time we had sex, she has NEVER ONCE allowed me to cum inside her, even WITH wearing a condom. She has that big of a fear of pregnancy, that she will simply NOT allow it, under any circumstance, no matter what level of protection I use. We DO watch IR porn together, and she admits that she does secretly desire BBC.

Should I explore sharing her with a BBC, even though it may very well mean someone else getting something that I have been unable to get in 5 years? It would be so tough to watch a BBC do something that I never have been allowed to, while at the same time, the thought of that turns me on

 

[Black9]

Let it happen a bull may not give her the choice of using protection and then she might let you do it as well.

 

[Budda623]

So here is the situation…

I am 49, and my GF is 25. I am the only man she has EVER been with in ANY way (I was even her first kiss).
We have been a couple for 5 full years, and during that time, every time we had sex, she has NEVER ONCE allowed me to cum inside her, even WITH wearing a condom. She has that big of a fear of pregnancy, that she will simply NOT allow it, under any circumstance, no matter what level of protection I use. We DO watch IR porn together, and she admits that she does secretly desire BBC.

Should I explore sharing her with a BBC, even though it may very well mean someone else getting something that I have been unable to get in 5 years? It would be so tough to watch a BBC do something that I never have been allowed to, while at the same time, the thought of that turns me on greatly.

Soo. The fact that it turns you on is a great start my friend. And I don’t think its the “black dude” that’ll be tough to watch but. I think it’s watching any guy please your lady that seems unnatural for any man. So you’d think. But when it happens you’ll love it and she will as well. And the plus is I’m sure it’ll open her up to be more free with you sexually. So go for it

 

[jaughn7070]

I think you need to see a counselor/mental health professional and work through this mental block she has about YOU cumming in her first. That's not normal.

If you don't have your own house in order, bringing others into the mix won't make it better. Let's say the first BBC you find ejaculates in her. How exciting! But...now something has been stolen from you that can't ever be undone. As turned on as you may be in the moment, resentment will creep in. And since you have to be "cool" about everything, your resentment will come out in small, petty actions such as the way you talk to her and treat her. It becomes corrosive to your relationship. It's no good.

Go talk to a professional together and sort out this pregnancy phobia, THEN go get your freak on w/a BBC and have fun, AFTER you get to ejaculate in her first.

Unless this is all BS and we are just supposed to be cheerleaders for your fantasy in which case, sure! Engage a big black cock to flood her pussy with cum! That will fix everything AND be hot and fun. What could possibly go wrong?

 

[BBC-Chocolate]

The first you might know is in the first moment that a black man touched her she will never come back to you in experience in satisfaction or in relationship, it will grow a big distance between you. I recommend the same than Jaughn7070 first you have someone at home like a castle, don't bring cheat to your door, it will never bring a good profit. Probably her mom (usually) told her do not get pregnant so young. You guys need professional help. Regarding porno; this is the shorter way to get unsatisfaction in one couples, she is younger than you and she have a lot to live regarding sex and fantasy. Change the point of view and life will change, porno and cockhold are not the best option for fix this kind issue. Good luck.