My latina wife works for a school district. A older black man started working there,they both work in the same work room. She is always running into him. He has talked to her about his life. He is retired, and married to a 32 year old puerto rican, he is around 60, my wife says he looks 40. He calls her beautiful. I'm sure he tells her more complamints. She says she is starting to avoid him, says she does not want him to think she is that kind of girl. My wife is real friendly. Has any one been through an experience like this?