Ladies: Favorite Toy?

#1
I want to get my wife a new vibe for X-Mas. I don't want to get a King Kong dong and scare the hell out of her before I can even get her into the lifestyle, so BBC dildos likely won't happen.

In the past she's preferred the standard (stick) vibrators. I was leaning toward rabbit or one of those wand vibes.

Ladies, what are your favorite vibrators?
 

beenblackened

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#4
I want to get my wife a new vibe for X-Mas. I don't want to get a King Kong dong and scare the hell out of her before I can even get her into the lifestyle, so BBC dildos likely won't happen.

In the past she's preferred the standard (stick) vibrators. I was leaning toward rabbit or one of those wand vibes.

Ladies, what are your favorite vibrators?
If you check in my media album you'll see my favorite I think she would like it.
 
#5
Thank you, ladies.

She isn't in the lifestyle (yet) - so the real thing isn't really an option - in fact, I'm hoping a toy will help boost her libido a bit, which will result in more sex, leading to more opportunities to watch IR porn, and down the rabbit hole we go...

So, any actual toys you'd recommend?
 

QUEEN4BBC

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#6
Thank you, ladies.

She isn't in the lifestyle (yet) - so the real thing isn't really an option - in fact, I'm hoping a toy will help boost her libido a bit, which will result in more sex, leading to more opportunities to watch IR porn, and down the rabbit hole we go...

So, any actual toys you'd recommend?
Always buy her Real Life Like Black Dildos.........they have them in different sizes so I recommend you go with 7" first then buy her bigger ones like 8" ,9" and 10" this way you familiarise her with Black Cock Color and Skin Texture and also adjust her pussy and prepare it for taking a Bigger BBC Cock.
 
#10
Nothing better than the real thing!!
i would say so too. Second best answer is...
Always buy her Real Life Like Black Dildos.........they have them in different sizes so I recommend you go with 7" first then buy her bigger ones like 8" ,9" and 10" this way you familiarise her with Black Cock Color and Skin Texture and also adjust her pussy and prepare it for taking a Bigger BBC Cock.
Size is yet another aspect after color, too. It is not important that it is a monster size dildo - might even scare her off. But you should make sure it`s at least somewhat bigger than you(rs). My answer is:

1. black/dark
2. realistic look and feel
3. bigger than yours, especially concerning girth
4. preferrably rideable (= with suction cap)
5. optionally with a harness girdle, so you can ride her doggy-style with it while she is bent over forewards and watching an ir-porn-clip of a black guy and a woman that reassembles some of her visual traits doing doggy. ;)

Don`t be reluctant to buying a realistic looking black toy - it is just a toy after all!

She won`t be upset about it provided she wouldn`t, if it was any other sex toy. But maybe she will be curious about your choice - a good opportunity for bringing up the topic. Anyway, rather not do it bluntly right from the start.

Some possible initial conversations:

She: Oh my... I think I don`t want to use this!
you: You don`t have to, but now that you have it... let`s see, if the both of us will enjoy it. If not then at least we`ve tried. We won`t know, if we don`t try, right? But i do well imagine that we both will enjoy it and like to use it on you in our sexual play, sometimes.

She: Why do you give me a sex toy? (Isn`t our sex good enough for you the way it is now?)
you: Our sex life is plain great as you are the most beautiful/erotic/sexy woman i know. That`s why i will always give my best to sexually entertain you and give you pleasure - because i love you and you deserve it! By the way, i will love to see you get off on it. Seeing you get off makes me always hot as hell, maybe even more than you. Plus, i am satisfied when you are satisfied. So i am pretty sure we both will like it!

She: Thank you, but I had preferred a cute discreet looking pink model and not an ugly ungainly dark thing.
you: i wanted to buy you a smaller pink vibrating toy first, but then i heard that many women suffer from decreasing pleasure from natural vaginal sex once they are using vibrators and get used to cumming from vibration, and i don`t want this to happen to you! So i thought, in order to not disaccustom you from the pleasures of having natural sex, a dildo with the most realistic look and feel will be the best choice.

She: Why such a big one? I don`t think it will feel comfortable to use it.
you: It is not that big at all, just slightly bigger than m(in)e. That`s why i am pretty sure you will be able to take and enjoy it. After all, it wouldn`t be an advantage, if it was same size or even smaller than m(in)e - that`s what you can have from me anytime anyway. ImO a bigger size provides more pleasure, don`t you think? And i get sooo excited and aroused when i see you well-pleasured. That adds to my own pleasure too. So, i am pretty sure we both will enjoy very much to use it on you!

She: I don`t think I will like to use this. It is like a real dick and I don`t want a differnt dick - I want yours only!
you: That`s funny! i mean, come on, it`s but a toy - nothing more, nothing less. (giggles) Let`s just try it first and decide afterwards if we like to go on using it or not, okay? Anyway, you don`t have to look at it when i use it on you.

She: Why a black one?
you, lil liar: i really didn`t think much about color. By the way, it was the only color they had in stock.

you: Here`s a little intimate present for you. From me.
She, after opening the package: Wow! Gimme that big black dick! That`s exactly what i`ve always wanted. Only... the version with a man attached is better. (giggles)
:D

But seriously...
Make sure not to be too obvious right from the start. Use "harmless" expressions, like "the toy", first and don`t say things like "big black cock" right away and go more graphic only gradually (e.g. from "the toy" to "the pleasuremaker" to "your pleasuremaker" to "the (other) dick" to "your other dick" to "your dick" to "the/your big dick" to "the black dick" to "your black dick" to "the big black dick" and finally "your big black dick"). Always observe your woman`s reactions and don`t push it too much/far.

And again: Don`t be reluctant to buying a realistic looking black toy!!!

Good luck, make a good choice and have alot of fun with your woman!
Kind regards.
 

Italianbbcvirgin

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#11
i would say so too. Second best answer is...
Size is yet another aspect after color, too. It is not important that it is a monster size dildo - might even scare her off. But you should make sure it`s at least somewhat bigger than you(rs). My answer is:

1. black/dark
2. realistic look and feel
3. bigger than yours, especially concerning girth
4. preferrably rideable (= with suction cap)
5. optionally with a harness girdle, so you can ride her doggy-style with it while she is bent over forewards and watching an ir-porn-clip of a black guy and a woman that reassembles some of her visual traits doing doggy. ;)

Don`t be reluctant to buying a realistic looking black toy - it is just a toy after all!

She won`t be upset about it provided she wouldn`t, if it was any other sex toy. But maybe she will be curious about your choice - a good opportunity for bringing up the topic. Anyway, rather not do it bluntly right from the start.

Some possible initial conversations:

She: Oh my... I think I don`t want to use this!
you: You don`t have to, but now that you have it... let`s see, if the both of us will enjoy it. If not then at least we`ve tried. We won`t know, if we don`t try, right? But i do well imagine that we both will enjoy it and like to use it on you in our sexual play, sometimes.

She: Why do you give me a sex toy? (Isn`t our sex good enough for you the way it is now?)
you: Our sex life is plain great as you are the most beautiful/erotic/sexy woman i know. That`s why i will always give my best to sexually entertain you and give you pleasure - because i love you and you deserve it! By the way, i will love to see you get off on it. Seeing you get off makes me always hot as hell, maybe even more than you. Plus, i am satisfied when you are satisfied. So i am pretty sure we both will like it!

She: Thank you, but I had preferred a cute discreet looking pink model and not an ugly ungainly dark thing.
you: i wanted to buy you a smaller pink vibrating toy first, but then i heard that many women suffer from decreasing pleasure from natural vaginal sex once they are using vibrators and get used to cumming from vibration, and i don`t want this to happen to you! So i thought, in order to not disaccustom you from the pleasures of having natural sex, a dildo with the most realistic look and feel will be the best choice.

She: Why such a big one? I don`t think it will feel comfortable to use it.
you: It is not that big at all, just slightly bigger than m(in)e. That`s why i am pretty sure you will be able to take and enjoy it. After all, it wouldn`t be an advantage, if it was same size or even smaller than m(in)e - that`s what you can have from me anytime anyway. ImO a bigger size provides more pleasure, don`t you think? And i get sooo excited and aroused when i see you well-pleasured. That adds to my own pleasure too. So, i am pretty sure we both will enjoy very much to use it on you!

She: I don`t think I will like to use this. It is like a real dick and I don`t want a differnt dick - I want yours only!
you: That`s funny! i mean, come on, it`s but a toy - nothing more, nothing less. (giggles) Let`s just try it first and decide afterwards if we like to go on using it or not, okay? Anyway, you don`t have to look at it when i use it on you.

She: Why a black one?
you, lil liar: i really didn`t think much about color. By the way, it was the only color they had in stock.

you: Here`s a little intimate present for you. From me.
She, after opening the package: Wow! Gimme that big black dick! That`s exactly what i`ve always wanted. Only... the version with a man attached is better. (giggles)
:D

But seriously...
Make sure not to be too obvious right from the start. Use "harmless" expressions, like "the toy", first and don`t say things like "big black cock" right away and go more graphic only gradually (e.g. from "the toy" to "the pleasuremaker" to "your pleasuremaker" to "the (other) dick" to "your other dick" to "your dick" to "the/your big dick" to "the black dick" to "your black dick" to "the big black dick" and finally "your big black dick"). Always observe your woman`s reactions and don`t push it too much/far.

And again: Don`t be reluctant to buying a realistic looking black toy!!!

Good luck, make a good choice and have alot of fun with your woman!
Kind regards.
and lube, lots of lube, esp if she is having decreased desire. contrary to porn, lube is a woman's best friend
 
#12
and lube, lots of lube, esp if she is having decreased desire. contrary to porn, lube is a woman's best friend
Contrary to your statement i have never met a woman with no juices flowing like a waterfall after the good ole game of seduction and foreplay... you don`t have to squeeze it in right away!

Whisper some nice dirty words in her ear; kiss her neck while touching her breasts and inner thighs, moving up closer to her sanctuary; make her feel the bulge in your trowsers on her back thru her blouse... and she`ll be dying to be impaled - no lube needed. (ImE)

No, a woman`s best friend is not lube - it`s foreplay and someone who knows how to handle her rightly.

But then again... there are other factors too, like hormonal balance and levels, and yet the phases of the moon. ;)
 
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