Is it easier to submit to a man, rather than trying to be one?

evolved said:
So i have always said how proud I am of every man that has put to one side his pride, and followed his instinct. Whether that is just letting your wife fuck BBC's on the side or taking them yourselves, i think you are a real credit! I respect so much, guys who know when its right to put aside their silly masculinity and submit to a better man. But I do understand that giving up sex with females and taking BBC yourself can be hard for alot of men and many never admit to their desires.

However, i was recently talking to two guys I know that have submitted to being BBC sissies and they actually said it was easier now than before. Before they would worry all of the time about trying to impress women and then be petrified if they did end up going to bed with them because they were so inadequate in the cock department. They both said sex before was such a worry.

They both now submit their own mouths and asses to BBC weekly and say how much better it is in every way. They said it is so much nicer to lie there and let a powerful strong man make passionate love to you and you only have to lie there and let him take it from you, rather than having to orchestrate it yourself and knowing your partner isnt being fulfilled like it was when they used to date women. They both said that they would never go back and actually feel far more fulfilled as they are now, than when they tried to fuck their girlfriends.

I have obviously talked to them at length about their lifestyles and find they have alot of the same desires that i have for submitting to BBC and although i am bisexual and find women attractive, i would never want to fuck one and it seems that they are on their way to this way of thinking too.

So my question is this, is sex easier and more enjoyable now that you have submitted to being a sissy for BBC? Or is it more complicated and my friends are the exception?
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For me as a black man, I was a cuckold before bull. At the time I had never heard of the cuckold lifestyle. All I know is that my wife and I had talked about a MMF, with me having bi curious desires. So my wife brought in a guy she knew.

Pretty soon, I was on my knees sucking his cock, etc. Truthfully I rather enjoyed it, it turned me on. I would get very turned on whenever I was kneeling at this guy’s feet, sucking his while my wife would stand in his arms, rubbing and kissing his chest. Strangely, I was even more aroused after I found out the humiliating truth. The guy who’s cock I had been sucking and watching fuck my wife. The two of them had been having an affair for almost a month. I didn’t have a clue.

All I know is after learning about my wife and my acceptance of my role, I had no problem playing the submissive role of a Black Cock Sucking Cuckold. I have also sucked BWC also, I enjoy it as well. I’m totally secure with who I am as a man as well as my sexuality. I love sucking and at times riding BBC/BWC. For me, I love the challenge of making another man hard. The reward is a mouth full of some sweet cum, yummy!!! In my opinion Str8 Sex is Boring.
 

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KinkyDaddy said:
For me as a black man, I was a cuckold before bull. At the time I had never heard of the cuckold lifestyle. All I know is that my wife and I had talked about a MMF, with me having bi curious desires. So my wife brought in a guy she knew.

Pretty soon, I was on my knees sucking his cock, etc. Truthfully I rather enjoyed it, it turned me on. I would get very turned on whenever I was kneeling at this guy’s feet, sucking his while my wife would stand in his arms, rubbing and kissing his chest. Strangely, I was even more aroused after I found out the humiliating truth. The guy who’s cock I had been sucking and watching fuck my wife. The two of them had been having an affair for almost a month. I didn’t have a clue.

All I know is after learning about my wife and my acceptance of my role, I had no problem playing the submissive role of a Black Cock Sucking Cuckold. I have also sucked BWC also, I enjoy it as well. I’m totally secure with who I am as a man as well as my sexuality. I love sucking and at times riding BBC/BWC. For me, I love the challenge of making another man hard. The reward is a mouth full of some sweet cum, yummy!!! In my opinion Str8 Sex is Boring.
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Aw thats amazing! Thank you for this insight!

The last bit rang true with me alot, i just love to see men get hard for me and when i manage to make them cum just with me and my body i love it. Feeling them cum in my mouth or pussy is just so gratifying, its the best feeling in the world!
 
evolved said:
So i have always said how proud I am of every man that has put to one side his pride, and followed his instinct. Whether that is just letting your wife fuck BBC's on the side or taking them yourselves, i think you are a real credit! I respect so much, guys who know when its right to put aside their silly masculinity and submit to a better man. But I do understand that giving up sex with females and taking BBC yourself can be hard for alot of men and many never admit to their desires.

However, i was recently talking to two guys I know that have submitted to being BBC sissies and they actually said it was easier now than before. Before they would worry all of the time about trying to impress women and then be petrified if they did end up going to bed with them because they were so inadequate in the cock department. They both said sex before was such a worry.

They both now submit their own mouths and asses to BBC weekly and say how much better it is in every way. They said it is so much nicer to lie there and let a powerful strong man make passionate love to you and you only have to lie there and let him take it from you, rather than having to orchestrate it yourself and knowing your partner isnt being fulfilled like it was when they used to date women. They both said that they would never go back and actually feel far more fulfilled as they are now, than when they tried to fuck their girlfriends.

I have obviously talked to them at length about their lifestyles and find they have alot of the same desires that i have for submitting to BBC and although i am bisexual and find women attractive, i would never want to fuck one and it seems that they are on their way to this way of thinking too.

So my question is this, is sex easier and more enjoyable now that you have submitted to being a sissy for BBC? Or is it more complicated and my friends are the exception?
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Interesting conversation. You guys are so smart. Anyway to put it in easier to understand regular English understandable grammatical terms? I mean if this isn't a private conversation.
 
bnwoBeta said:
it's strange - most guys would wanna be in his place, right? but oddly enough for me - i feel more jealous of her. it's hard to visualize myself as the men in the videos anymore. they're all so big and hung and absolute studs, while i'm tiny. plus given i'm white and all i exclusively watch IR now, hard to relate as the black Alphas. my mind either deviates to being the cameramen, or even the women.

so yes, definitely imagine!
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I want to find a chick that crave blk cock and just nervous or just need a loving guy like me explaining why bbc is so good I'm white like I did with my last girlfriend and finally she asked me things like..you won't get mad or treat me different and I said no ill be happier and I told her anytime she wanted to try let's pick one and I told her I wanna see her have amazing sex and cuck me and tell me how much you love it while having her watch her own porn clips and I told her she was so sexy riding bbc then she asked how do I know thiz OK and I said I enjoy it more then our own sex cause the contrast of her white body with the dark and hung bbc..once she asked can I enjoy and moan I said plz moan plz cum and brag and fein for it and make me watch you fuck black guys the way I fantasize and yes make me clean up and keep me on cleanup I want her to know that I want to see her where bell bottum jeans and sexy big shirt and in her jeans I love to feel she told me know and said watch how good I look for bbc and I am seeking to be a cuk who enjoys sharing a slut white wife..help if single how to convince white girls I offer a rare freedom
 
evolved said:
Aw thats amazing! Thank you for this insight!

The last bit rang true with me alot, i just love to see men get hard for me and when i manage to make them cum just with me and my body i love it. Feeling them cum in my mouth or pussy is just so gratifying, its the best feeling in the world!
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You are a girl after my heart ! Best regards from Lars in Norway
 
Mein Ding ist so klein dass Sie sagt ich wäre gar kein richtiger Mann!!!
So geniesse ich die Rolle als Leckdiener,bin zum schlucken da,u.bin natürlich auch Fickbar!!
 
evolved said:
Yes I totally agree with you both! Thanks for your input and great to hear that more and more guys are accepting with way of living, it's just so much more natural for guys with small cocks to become betas and let the big cocked alphas take the females.

What's the furthest that you have gone so far in the lifestyle? So just letting your wife fuck other men? Watching? Taking part? Meeting guys on your own?
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It's wel said here: natural is the word. I'ts not jsut easier to submit, it is nour natural path. What we were made for, to some extent. To feel adequate and satisfy a woman...you have to be a man, a REAL one..and clearly it is impossible to measure up to black men for most white guys. We were always betas outside the bedroom and finally breaking the barrier and let real men use us as girls feels natural for us: your body makes you accept your inferiority.

The further i have gone, and i have started a few months back, with my wife's approval is to meet black guys on my own. I've spend a full weekend with one and i had seen him again and there is definetly also a kind of intimacy building.
 
cuckiesub30 said:
It's wel said here: natural is the word. I'ts not jsut easier to submit, it is nour natural path. What we were made for, to some extent. To feel adequate and satisfy a woman...you have to be a man, a REAL one..and clearly it is impossible to measure up to black men for most white guys. We were always betas outside the bedroom and finally breaking the barrier and let real men use us as girls feels natural for us: your body makes you accept your inferiority.

The further i have gone, and i have started a few months back, with my wife's approval is to meet black guys on my own. I've spend a full weekend with one and i had seen him again and there is definetly also a kind of intimacy building.
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Love it also see would let me have a black guy to iam sure
 
evolved said:
So i have always said how proud I am of every man that has put to one side his pride, and followed his instinct. Whether that is just letting your wife fuck BBC's on the side or taking them yourselves, i think you are a real credit! I respect so much, guys who know when its right to put aside their silly masculinity and submit to a better man. But I do understand that giving up sex with females and taking BBC yourself can be hard for alot of men and many never admit to their desires.

However, i was recently talking to two guys I know that have submitted to being BBC sissies and they actually said it was easier now than before. Before they would worry all of the time about trying to impress women and then be petrified if they did end up going to bed with them because they were so inadequate in the cock department. They both said sex before was such a worry.

They both now submit their own mouths and asses to BBC weekly and say how much better it is in every way. They said it is so much nicer to lie there and let a powerful strong man make passionate love to you and you only have to lie there and let him take it from you, rather than having to orchestrate it yourself and knowing your partner isnt being fulfilled like it was when they used to date women. They both said that they would never go back and actually feel far more fulfilled as they are now, than when they tried to fuck their girlfriends.

I have obviously talked to them at length about their lifestyles and find they have alot of the same desires that i have for submitting to BBC and although i am bisexual and find women attractive, i would never want to fuck one and it seems that they are on their way to this way of thinking too.

So my question is this, is sex easier and more enjoyable now that you have submitted to being a sissy for BBC? Or is it more complicated and my friends are the exception?
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It is easier to be submissive, being in control is exhausting
 
I really like this thread, because I really think this gets to the core of what makes this interracial lifestyle so because, and it addresses an elephant in the room, that goes too often ignored completely.

To answer the question...

"Is it easier to submit to another MAN, rather than trying to be one?"

I'm going to say... if you're WHITE the answer is DEFINITELY YES!!!

There's no reason to not accept the biological reality of our racial differences, and celebrate them for what they are...

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Also, I don't think "easier" is the right characterization either. I think the right word would be "BETTER!"

MUCH BETTER!!!

It's so much better to do something that you're naturally good at! Being submissive and feminine is natural for whitebois. It is our intrinsic nature. Especially... when put with the stark contrast of a BLACK MAN! Their... natural, genuine masculinty makes whitebois instinctively feel more feminine and submissive. BLACK MASCULINTY by it's very nature... is emasculating to whites. Giving over to it immediately results in whites taking on female roles! Society conditions whitebois to resist this, at our own detriment, and it makes no sense.

We're white, we need to just accept that, and... BE WHITE! We're supposed to be this way, it's how we evolved. We're NOT supposed to be BLACK, we're NOT equiped to compete... we're equiped to submit! It is hard-wired into our DNA. Whites are the race of femininity, whiteness itself is inextricably linked with femininity... societal pressure throughout our lives attempts to make us into something we're not! This causes so much pent up anxiety, stress, and sexual unfulfillment.

White on white sex is basically lesbian sex, because there's no MAN involved! The pressure on a whiteboi to sexually satisfy a woman sexually is just unrealistic! Maybe he can develop some fun foreplay, and a good tongue game, but... there's no MAIN EVENT! To truly satisfy a woman sexually, a MAN is needed! That's why this lifestyle exists!!!

Because that MAN needs to be BLACK, or he's not really a MAN!!!

I always say that mom Nature color coded us. It should be no surprise... mom Nature is a woman after all! mom Nature color coded us all, giving us uniforms we can't take off... our bare naked skin! She put MEN in BLACK... EXCLUSIVELY, and put women in WHITE... just like a Bride and Groom!

The fact is that being a MAN is effortless for BLACK MEN!!! It is who and what they are!!! They couldn't be anything else!

For whitebois... we just simply aren't cut out for it! Whitebois are NOT cut out for sexually satisfying women, but MOST EXCEL at sexually satisfying BLACK COCK as women!

The simple fact is that whitebois belong at the "other end" of the DICK... you know... the "girl end!" The BEST sex a whiteboi will ever experience is getting that lilly white ass SMACKED and BLACKED RAW!!! No exceptions! Having sex as a woman with BLACK MEN is where whitebois excel!

I will NEVER forget when it first happened to me!!! It was like a supernatural... religious experience that was powerfully transformative on every conceivable level... mind, body, and soul!!! I could never go back!!! Getting BLACKED has a special permanence about it! That's why it's called getting "BLACKED," the valid insinuation being that you've been forever changed!

I honestly think that every whiteboi owes it to themselves to have sex as a woman with BLACK MEN, and once they do... they probably will want to completely become one... and, they really SHOULD!!!

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The sun is setting on white masculinty... like the dinosaurs, it is headed for extinction! The future is female for the white race, and white femininization is the best way forward!

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The difference between whitebois and white girls in this lifestyle is becoming increasingly more and more irrelevant! White couples and white marriages should also embrace white submission, and serve BLACKS together as women, providing a unified feminine front for BLACK MEN...

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If you're white... just BE WHITE!!!
 
Due to the nature of how my life just is….

During the day, maybe we should just say in my normal every day life…. I present myself as, and honestly I very much am a masculine man. I have a family, and it’s just what’s needed and required. With that being said, make no mistake about it…. If my wife’s bull, or any sexy alpha male that peaked my interest came across me in public and wanted to stake his claim to my holes…and made me drop my pants and remove my shirt…. He would find at a minimum panties, stockings or pantyhose, and most other times a womens thong bodysuit and thigh highs.

But, once I get to “unplug” from my every day life…. I take that plug and put it in the Submissive BBC Sissy Faggot outlet. And I spend my time as feminine as I can be for the environment.

so, I get what I call the benefit of navigating both of your described scenarios. Learning truly how to balance the two, when a shift back and forth is required, and even sometimes blending the two … has become quite an insightful experience.

I no longer find myself struggling trying to be a man, because the night prior I was able to dump all that dress and anxiety out the window find peace in submitting. Even if an alpha black man’s cock wasnt what I was submitting to, simply submitting to your feminine side, accepting your feminine traits, and just allowing yourself to exist for 7-9 hours in a total feminine capacity…. It simply just works for me.

It gives me understanding and perspective on each of the roles….FROM THE OPPOSITE ROLE as well.

It truly is incrdible
 
ya know, I don't actually think It is easier and that for sure not what I am looking for. I submit very enthusiastically, NOT a lazy bottom ever. I was just born to be a horned up cock slut. Knowing a man has cum because of how I work my ass or mouth really does it for me, when it does it for them!
 
I get so much sexual relief and gratification knowing that I don’t need to compete with other women. I can just let my black boyfriend (hypothetical one for now) enjoy fucking snow bunnies. No expectations for me to be attractive. Just put my pride aside and let them enjoy each other.
 
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