Intimacy?

[Seth1805]

It's a tricky tango when sexual chemistry & personas click. Sex buddy & Lovers are two different things and "Lovers" should be explored carefully. *(Especially if there is no room for a relationship.)

To me, sex by it's very nature involves some form intimacy when it comes to mutual consent, and this is more-so for a woman. The act of trust and submission is involved is it not? The majority of women just do not get into bed with man unless she has made some kind of connection, right? Correct me if I am wrong.
My wife and I have discussed this, and for her, she wants some chemistry before any physical contact. If the guy is charming or makes her laugh he is going to get a night with her that he will never forget.

 

[Seth1805]

I love watching them kiss slowly before and after they fuck!

That to me would tell me more than words. I am always concerned about my wife enjoying the moment and if she is doing any of this then there would be no doubt as to how she felt. My wife loves the act of kissing and is amazing at it so if she starts doing that I know he has her right where he wants her and I know mentally she is his.

 

[Seth1805]

THERE IS a lot of husbands and want to see black men fuck their wives over the half a population of America but the problem is you have there's too many fakes there's people on here posting fake pictures of white of white women getting fucked by black men then there's a lot of white men on here who lie and say they are a couple a lot of white men get on here and lie and say they are black men and of course what's really disgusting is the white women who wear fake Queen of Spades tattoos because either they're lying to Black new or they are trying to hide from society that they like black dick get real... I don't hide it I get my tattoos are 100% real and I don't give a ******* who knows it that I fuck black men who don't

I do not get what this has to do with this thread? Can you enlighten us?

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

To me, sex by it's very nature involves some form intimacy when it comes to mutual consent, and this is more-so for a woman. The act of trust and submission is involved is it not? The majority of women just do not get into bed with man unless she has made some kind of connection, right? Correct me if I am wrong.
My wife and I have discussed this, and for her, she wants some chemistry before any physical contact. If the guy is charming or makes her laugh he is going to get a night with her that he will never forget.

I would agree, mostly. But there's levels to this ******* and there are women that want the physical side & nothing more. It's not often but it's not as rare as it used to be.

Charming someone is one thing but becoming emotionally attached to someone's persona is what I'm saying to be careful about.

 

[beenblackened]

Intimacy is a must!
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[trustnoone]

Intimacy is a must!
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That’s so hot, I would love to trade places with the cuck!

 

[spin419]

I am horrible at picking topics for threads. I would have thought others would enjoy this topic about real issues rather than some vulgar things that get far more consideration and attention and are very far-fetched or purely fictional in nature as it relates to a couple who cares for each other and would never do a lot of the things that are described here.
Meh. What do I know?

You're definitely not horrible at picking topics for threads. This one is worthwhile. Be patient.

 

[Flcouple38]

I fantasy it is hot and has always promised coming home with me and that would never happen. Overall though it is hot to think she is crazy for it and missing the feeling and getting into like that but then after might have some feelings inside we would need to discuss for sure. But is hot to think about her doing it like that and being intimate and falling for the dick..

 

[NEHIGHLANDER]

There is more to a human being than their cock or vagina. Lovemaking involves 100% of a person's body and mind. Sure there are quickie sexual encounters where there is less chance of true intimacy but the longer the sex continues the couple cannot help but connect with each other both body wise and cerebrally and they turn into lovers. Witnessing this from the husband's point of view when sharing his wife with another, especially if it is a black man is a mind altering experience and since I've shared my wife with black men, I don't view her in the same way. Setting aside the experience of seeing her do things with them that she never did with you such as anal or rimming their asses, I find myself both disturbed and turned on when she kisses deeply and passionately.
When I first brought up the idea of sharing her with black men she was initially upset but when she finally came around and agreed to do it she told me:
"I am willing to do this for you but I want you to know that I will be planning on enjoying this as much as possible. I don't want you to turn into a jealous bastard to me if we go through with this. Sometimes reality is not the same as the fantasy and this could hurt our marriage. Remember that when I am making love to this man I am planning on doing everything I can to satisfy him and as far as I am concerned nothing is off limits, I consider myself a good lover and I will be giving myself to this black man completely, like I do to you, to fulfill his every desire. Would you have a problem with that?"
I agreed to this but when she did the deed, I was not ready to witness what I saw, heard and smelled. I'm not sure what I expected but I was shocked at how much she enjoyed herself and how enthusiastic she was. The intimacy was full and complete. It did change our marriage.

 

[Rodgersmith1]

The one thing I have found out in this lifestyle is if the wife is really going to experience the true pleasure of it....its when she is all alone with him. They can make love to each other rather than preform a sex act for the husband....everyone can have a OK time all together but for her to feel absolute heaven of this.....it is for her to be in a bed with a darker stronger good looking lover all alone with nothing between them. The moment he releases his seed deep inside her all alone....and only them sharing that exact moment.....is where that intimacy comes in between just them.....Thats the very feeling of absolute ******* for her.

All Alone.

 

[ModernMarriage]

I read a lot of things I consider extreme here so my question is are there husbands like me out there that want to watch a black man make love to their wife and watch her experience some very intimate moments with him? I mean in the middle of everything that is happening your wife has authentic feelings of a connection with him because of the way he makes her feel as a woman in bed to the extent she is overcome by her emotions because of his race, his dominance over her and his size as a man.

I look at this from my wife's point of view and she is the type of woman who gets caught up in moments and I can see where the situation could very easily transition from her having "sex" to the realization she finds herself captivated with the man she is with and drawn to him in ways she never expected.

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[Seth1805]

I would agree, mostly. But there's levels of to this ******* and there are women that want the physical side & nothing more. It's not often but it's not as rare as it used to be.

Charming someone is one thing but becoming emotionally attached to someone's persona is what I'm saying to be careful about.

No argument here. Every couple is different and certainly every wife is different in this. I only know my wife and the way she is and the mindset she has towards sex and intimacy. I think she is prone to giving in to her emotional side because she tends to be amorous when she receives any sort of affection.
I am not saying she is getting attached to anyone in the long term but that as she is making love to a well endowed black man she has a flood of emotions that surge through her that makes her feel connected to him. I guess I want her to feel this intense moment of rapture because the experience of a black man making love to her is overwhelming.

 

[Seth1805]

There is more to a human being than their cock or vagina. Lovemaking involves 100% of a person's body and mind. Sure there are quickie sexual encounters where there is less chance of true intimacy but the longer the sex continues the couple cannot help but connect with each other both body wise and cerebrally and they turn into lovers. Witnessing this from the husband's point of view when sharing his wife with another, especially if it is a black man is a mind altering experience and since I've shared my wife with black men, I don't view her in the same way. Setting aside the experience of seeing her do things with them that she never did with you such as anal or rimming their asses, I find myself both disturbed and turned on when she kisses deeply and passionately.
When I first brought up the idea of sharing her with black men she was initially upset but when she finally came around and agreed to do it she told me:
"I am willing to do this for you but I want you to know that I will be planning on enjoying this as much as possible. I don't want you to turn into a jealous bastard to me if we go through with this. Sometimes reality is not the same as the fantasy and this could hurt our marriage. Remember that when I am making love to this man I am planning on doing everything I can to satisfy him and as far as I am concerned nothing is off limits, I consider myself a good lover and I will be giving myself to this black man completely, like I do to you, to fulfill his every desire. Would you have a problem with that?"
I agreed to this but when she did the deed, I was not ready to witness what I saw, heard and smelled. I'm not sure what I expected but I was shocked at how much she enjoyed herself and how enthusiastic she was. The intimacy was full and complete. It did change our marriage.

Could not agree more with some of the things in this post.

1. If my wife is in bed with a man he is going to get all of her. My wife does not play games in any aspect of her life. If she is with him I know it is 100%.
2. The more times she is with one guy the stronger the connection and the more she will reflect on him as a man. My wife worked with this black guy named Isaac at her casino and they spent a lot of time together because he was security and would ******* her when she had cash in hand for slots. She said they had built up quite a rapport and that she found herself actually attracted to him. This was before we ever discussed any of this so she obviously never acted on anything. My point being is my wife made a mental connection over a period of time with him and she is candid that he did a lot for her ego and that she enjoyed his company.
3. My wife said the same thing to me as yours did to you. She told me I could not get jealous of them and that afterwards I could not get mad and carry a grudge if I was envious of him.

 

[trustnoone]

Could not agree more with some of the things in this post.

1. If my wife is in bed with a man he is going to get all of her. My wife does not play games in any aspect of her life. If she is with him I know it is 100%.
2. The more times she is with one guy the stronger the connection and the more she will reflect on him as a man. My wife worked with this black guy named Isaac at her casino and they spent a lot of time together because he was security and would ******* her when she had cash in hand for slots. She said they had built up quite a rapport and that she found herself actually attracted to him. This was before we ever discussed any of this so she obviously never acted on anything. My point being is my wife made a mental connection over a period of time with him and she is candid that he did a lot for her ego and that she enjoyed his company.
3. My wife said the same thing to me as yours did to you. She told me I could not get jealous of them and that afterwards I could not get mad and carry a grudge if I was envious of him.

Hot! Did she ever get with Issac?

 

[WillandSusn]

This whole thing is tricky for us lol. It is about boundaries and respect. I think we all can achieve what we want in this with clearly stated roles for each party involved.

. Given broad spectrum of sexual activities in this lifestyle , one of the experiences you might expect or perhaps want for the wife is to experience sexual intimacy with a black man vs just the physical sex. Intimacy takes sex into a different place beyond just the physical and the orgasms. She opens yet another door into her soul and yet more boundaries and barriers are crossed. The take away from the experience is different too and perhaps more valuable as she "comes home" and returns to hubby after and the feelings are not just all lust and passion. She will carry the "mark" of that black man far longer than any QOS tattoo she might wear on her breast

 

[Seth1805]

Hot! Did she ever get with Issac?

No, and it is only because he quit before we discussed any of this. According to rumors, he works at a different casino but we can't find him. he has a Facebook page but does not use it at all. My wife says he is perfect for this, said he is huge like 6' 2" 225 and that she heard others talk about him being very "big." She says she has seen his bulge on days that got to wear jeans and said he looked huge. One of two pictures on his Facebook page we "stole."

 

[Seth1805]

. Given broad spectrum of sexual activities in this lifestyle , one of the experiences you might expect or perhaps want for the wife is to experience sexual intimacy with a black man vs just the physical sex. Intimacy takes sex into a different place beyond just the physical and the orgasms. She opens yet another door into her soul and yet more boundaries and barriers are crossed. The take away from the experience is different too and perhaps more valuable as she "comes home" and returns to hubby after and the feelings are not just all lust and passion. She will carry the "mark" of that black man far longer than any QOS tattoo she might wear on her breast

I think you repeated what I already said. I do not know what the term "mark" means to you.

 

[trustnoone]

No, and it is only because he quit before we discussed any of this. According to rumors, he works at a different casino but we can't find him. he has a Facebook page but does not use it at all. My wife says he is perfect for this, said he is huge like 6' 2" 225 and that she heard others talk about him being very "big." She says she has seen his bulge on days that got to wear jeans and said he looked huge. One of two pictures on his Facebook page we "stole."
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Looks like he is definitely worth pursuing! I hope you find him because it sounds like the emotional and physical attractions remain strong.

 

[Seth1805]

Looks like he is definitely worth pursuing! I hope you find him because it sounds like the emotional and physical attractions remain strong.

We are still trying to locate him. My wife speaks highly of him and says if there was any black man out there that she would do anything for it is him. It gets weird at times because she will go on and on about how good looking he is and how big his muscles are, she gets very animated talking about him. She says they flirted with each other all the time.

 

[WillandSusn]

To me, sex by it's very nature involves some form intimacy when it comes to mutual consent, and this is more-so for a woman. The act of trust and submission is involved is it not? The majority of women just do not get into bed with man unless she has made some kind of connection, right? Correct me if I am wrong.
My wife and I have discussed this, and for her, she wants some chemistry before any physical contact. If the guy is charming or makes her laugh he is going to get a night with her that he will never forget.

. Talking about one on one sex , perhaps she has a point but there are women who prefer the sexual heat from multiple men and the personal intimacy is secondary to them. They want the passion , and the lust , and hours of orgasms with BBC inside them. Then they go back to their "white" life and pretend it never happened. Much like what happens in vegas stays in Vegas.