They make little pills for that kind of problem ... lolNot impotent, but I feel pressured when she wants to have sex at times. Like I have to perform.
They make little pills for that kind of problem ... lol
Yes, I think it would be much harder for an active bull to accept. My husband can cum without an erection if he chooses, and we may have penetrative sex every 4-6 weeks, but he has a need to masturbate daily, and has all his life. So not too sure how it would affect him,mentally it would be hard I guess for all men. But I guess celibate sucks would deal with it better. We have said if it happens to him, we will get an expensive custom made cock cage, and embrace it and capitalise on it, also opt for anal orgasms for him. We think the way we think is' if life give you lemons, make lemonade' type of thing.in my case, I have not had penetrative sex with my wife for years anyway. In reality when i became fully impotent it was not such a big thing physically. Mentally however it was. I still dream about being hard. Being able to feel my cock get hard. I know that even IF i could get hard I would never be allowed to have full sex with my wife anyway, but the thought that i will never get hard or actually cum is a difficult one to accept.
For a BULL it must be terrible
the anal option is of the cards for me as i had my prostate removed, hence impotency and unable to produce sperm.Yes, I think it would be much harder for an active bull to accept. My husband can cum without an erection if he chooses, and we may have penetrative sex every 4-6 weeks, but he has a need to masturbate daily, and has all his life. So not too sure how it would affect him,mentally it would be hard I guess for all men. But I guess celibate sucks would deal with it better. We have said if it happens to him, we will get an expensive custom made cock cage, and embrace it and capitalise on it, also opt for anal orgasms for him. We think the way we think is' if life give you lemons, make lemonade' type of thing.
Yes, this is the same road we'd go down as well. My hubby loves being humiliated for his lack of size and premature ejaculation issues. So if he were in your boat, we'd embrace to whole lack of ability for sex/ my pleasure as a way of dealing with it, which would help him and yourself to deal with it. I guess regular men without that kink would struggle quite a lot mentally with it. Those with good sexual appetites and abilities would struggle to have that taken away from them, whereas sexless cuckolds, who like my hubby masturbates with a soft cock at times and masturbates anally are somewhat conditioned to it.the anal option is of the cards for me as i had my prostate removed, hence impotency and unable to produce sperm.
I have embraced the whole impotency thing with open arms. I love my wife to humiliate me about this.
They make little pills for that kind of problem ... lol
It is certainly win/win for me. I have also found that I crave being more fem and want to dress and do girly thingsI think the different perspectives on impotency are interesting. Impotency in a black man is a serious problem and needs taken care of if at all possible. Luckily I sense this does not happen often. For white boys who have accepted some reality it can be positive. Very positive. It totally takes the pressure off of you to perform or try to have sex. You become very passive with women and they will sense that you are not a potential sexual partner. It makes the relationship between a black man and a white woman the only relationship that can work. White boys want to support this. I think even the fake macho white boys want this to happen deep down. When you cannot erect it becomes so much easier to be submissive. You may want to be feminized. You still can have a wonderful relationship with your wife or other women but it is non-sexual. This can spill over to other aspects of your relationship. You may do housework without shame. You are happy for your wife when she meets a new man. You defer to the black man or men in her life and she puts him and his needs first. That can be an actual turn on for the white boy. It just requires an acceptance of a submissive beta type status. What better way to get everyone to that point than to be impotent. So maybe this is something that is a win-win-win type of thing.
For some, cuckolding was sex-play; it was for us throughout our marriage. She had a lot of men, most of the time while I watched, which fed my voyeur desires. She had me orally service them, which fed my bi desires, and her voyeur fun. Quite frequently, after they left we had sex and she would tease me about getting sloppy seconds. However, we were in and out of that lifestyle over the years. As I got older my erections suffered as did my stamina; but during the same time, she got tired of other guys leaving her unsatisfied too. Sex with me would last a minute or two, so she was primarily getting some small orgasms from me orally. She was 50 when we met our first black man. One night with him changed everything. The sex marathon lasted 5 hours. She had her first ever multiple squirting orgasms, and so many she had no idea. Over the 3 nights, he had her submitting to him, begging him, deep-throating him (something she never liked), drinking his cum (again something she never liked), and her declaring her pussy is black-only. Although I had been a bi sub throughout our marriage, he took me deeper into that role. We had read the stories before trying black, but we thought it more hype then reality. Watching him fuck my wife into *******, was exciting but also intimidating. I was relieved when she said her pussy was black-only; I could never compete with him. And unlike some cucks, I did not want a mercy fuck. But I still was thinking my cuckolding was our game, our sex play. After a couple of months watching her hunger for black men take control of her, I was scared and asked her to stop. She emphatically said "NO" and for the first time I realized that I had become her cuckold. Other then intercourse we are very loving, affectionate, and caring. I adore licking her black-only pussy. And supervised masturbation in front of her and her boyfriend is intense.
We have been very fortunate. And her current boyfriend likes both of us, and uses both of us sexually for our mutual pleasure, so it works well.The crazy thing is I think you could only get to that place with a long term lover AND it's only something you can explore when you've all built that trust. This is probably what most cuckold couples desire but can't find because most guys just want to fuck and leave... Congrats!
Be sure you've investigated them all, chris ... some work on some, others work on others. If you've tried a few like Cialis and Viagra, let your doctor know what you have tried. Surprisingly, Viagra only works for approximately 35% who take them. There are a lot of oral products coming out all the time. The porn industry swears by them ... not sure what they use. But don't quit exploring.We have tried them.
We have been very fortunate. And her current boyfriend likes both of us, and uses both of us sexually for our mutual pleasure, so it works well.
Neither viagra or ciallis work for me. Only thing that has some effect are the injectionsBe sure you've investigated them all, chris ... some work on some, others work on others. If you've tried a few like Cialis and Viagra, let your doctor know what you have tried. Surprisingly, Viagra only works for approximately 35% who take them. There are a lot of oral products coming out all the time. The porn industry swears by them ... not sure what they use. But don't quit exploring.