Impotent
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Not impotent, but I feel pressured when she wants to have sex at times. Like I have to perform.
They make little pills for that kind of problem ... lol
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mmmm Yes they do...Yes they do indeed !
My husband has moderate erectile dysfunction, for which he was taking Cialis. However, we have stopped having penetrative sex for about six months. We still make love in other ways, including BBC dildos, and I have been giving him handjobs. I still get a lot of cock from other men. About three months ago, we decided that he should stop taking Cialis. He can still masturbate with some difficulty, but it is almost impossible for me to give him a handjob to orgasm. Now, physical penetration cannot happen even if we are tempted, and his orgasms are few and far in between. This situation is working well for us.
I have always wondered, psychologically, when a man is permanently impotent for disease, diabetes etc. does it affect the bulls more mentally than the cuckolds. Most cucks don't get a lot of pussy anyway, and most sex for them is masturbating..but bulls usually get a lot, so when it does happen I would guess its much, much harder for a bull to accept the new reality. Would love to know what others think.
in my case, I have not had penetrative sex with my wife for years anyway. In reality when i became fully impotent it was not such a big thing physically. Mentally however it was. I still dream about being hard. Being able to feel my cock get hard. I know that even IF i could get hard I would never be allowed to have full sex with my wife anyway, but the thought that i will never get hard or actually cum is a difficult one to accept.
For a BULL it must be terrible
For a BULL it must be terrible
Yes, I think it would be much harder for an active bull to accept. My husband can cum without an erection if he chooses, and we may have penetrative sex every 4-6 weeks, but he has a need to masturbate daily, and has all his life. So not too sure how it would affect him,mentally it would be hard I guess for all men. But I guess celibate sucks would deal with it better. We have said if it happens to him, we will get an expensive custom made cock cage, and embrace it and capitalise on it, also opt for anal orgasms for him. We think the way we think is' if life give you lemons, make lemonade' type of thing.
the anal option is of the cards for me as i had my prostate removed, hence impotency and unable to produce sperm.
I have embraced the whole impotency thing with open arms. I love my wife to humiliate me about this.
Yes, this is the same road we'd go down as well. My hubby loves being humiliated for his lack of size and premature ejaculation issues. So if he were in your boat, we'd embrace to whole lack of ability for sex/ my pleasure as a way of dealing with it, which would help him and yourself to deal with it. I guess regular men without that kink would struggle quite a lot mentally with it. Those with good sexual appetites and abilities would struggle to have that taken away from them, whereas sexless cuckolds, who like my hubby masturbates with a soft cock at times and masturbates anally are somewhat conditioned to it.
Can I are you still able to orgasm masturbating/ playing with your soft cock or being pleasured anally?
Anally I enjoy because I simply enjoy being used and because the pleasure partners get from using my hole. I cannot cum anally.
I am limp and masturbate to completion but of course there is no mess to clean up. But I do get all the sensations and pleasure when i cum.
I am limp and masturbate to completion but of course there is no mess to clean up. But I do get all the sensations and pleasure when i cum.
We have tried them.
I think the different perspectives on impotency are interesting. Impotency in a black man is a serious problem and needs taken care of if at all possible. Luckily I sense this does not happen often. For white boys who have accepted some reality it can be positive. Very positive. It totally takes the pressure off of you to perform or try to have sex. You become very passive with women and they will sense that you are not a potential sexual partner. It makes the relationship between a black man and a white woman the only relationship that can work. White boys want to support this. I think even the fake macho white boys want this to happen deep down. When you cannot erect it becomes so much easier to be submissive. You may want to be feminized. You still can have a wonderful relationship with your wife or other women but it is non-sexual. This can spill over to other aspects of your relationship. You may do housework without shame. You are happy for your wife when she meets a new man. You defer to the black man or men in her life and she puts him and his needs first. That can be an actual turn on for the white boy. It just requires an acceptance of a submissive beta type status. What better way to get everyone to that point than to be impotent. So maybe this is something that is a win-win-win type of thing.
It is certainly win/win for me. I have also found that I crave being more fem and want to dress and do girly things
For some, cuckolding was sex-play; it was for us throughout our marriage. She had a lot of men, most of the time while I watched, which fed my voyeur desires. She had me orally service them, which fed my bi desires, and her voyeur fun. Quite frequently, after they left we had sex and she would tease me about getting sloppy seconds. However, we were in and out of that lifestyle over the years. As I got older my erections suffered as did my stamina; but during the same time, she got tired of other guys leaving her unsatisfied too. Sex with me would last a minute or two, so she was primarily getting some small orgasms from me orally. She was 50 when we met our first black man. One night with him changed everything. The sex marathon lasted 5 hours. She had her first ever multiple squirting orgasms, and so many she had no idea. Over the 3 nights, he had her submitting to him, begging him, deep-throating him (something she never liked), drinking his cum (again something she never liked), and her declaring her pussy is black-only. Although I had been a bi sub throughout our marriage, he took me deeper into that role. We had read the stories before trying black, but we thought it more hype then reality. Watching him fuck my wife into *******, was exciting but also intimidating. I was relieved when she said her pussy was black-only; I could never compete with him. And unlike some cucks, I did not want a mercy fuck. But I still was thinking my cuckolding was our game, our sex play. After a couple of months watching her hunger for black men take control of her, I was scared and asked her to stop. She emphatically said "NO" and for the first time I realized that I had become her cuckold. Other then intercourse we are very loving, affectionate, and caring. I adore licking her black-only pussy. And supervised masturbation in front of her and her boyfriend is intense.
The crazy thing is I think you could only get to that place with a long term lover AND it's only something you can explore when you've all built that trust. This is probably what most cuckold couples desire but can't find because most guys just want to fuck and leave... Congrats!
We have been very fortunate. And her current boyfriend likes both of us, and uses both of us sexually for our mutual pleasure, so it works well.
Be sure you've investigated them all, chris ... some work on some, others work on others. If you've tried a few like Cialis and Viagra, let your doctor know what you have tried. Surprisingly, Viagra only works for approximately 35% who take them. There are a lot of oral products coming out all the time. The porn industry swears by them ... not sure what they use. But don't quit exploring.
Neither viagra or ciallis work for me. Only thing that has some effect are the injections
