Impotent

atlflirt said:
Depends. If you don't get erections, then it loses its elasticity causing it to shrink. I read this in an article on a medical website.
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When I first wore my cage for a little over 4 months with only one 5 minute release and no erections, I was smaller when I finally got out. I didn't measure before locking up, but I would estimate my first erection was about 1 1/2 inches shorter and about 3/4 of an inch thinner than normal. I was surprised at the difference, which was very noticeable. However, after about 10 days out of the cage with daily erections and much masturbating, I was back to my normal size.

I suspect when I'm finally permanently impotent, I will shrink a considerable amount and stay that way.
 
rocuck said:
I want to thank those who have responded but I am not sure if I made my question clear. When I speak of an impotent cuckold I mean someone who has the desire to have sex but is unable to perform. This could be because of a small size or an inability to erect. Assuming that frustration is part of the cuckold thing, this would be extreme frustration. This would also elevate the primary relationship of the white woman and black man and make it the only relationship in a sexual sense.

I have great respect for willsrvu and the point that he makes probably applies to many if not most. But I think that there must be some cuckolding couples who really want to make it more intense. This could be a chastity device or some medications to prevent erections or whatever. For a wife like that it would not damage her marriage, it would enhance it. I do not see how a sexual marriage necessarily means the husband and wife. It could mean the wife with others only. I also respect MacNfries and the point made of voluntary versus physical, etc. I would not mean that any of this would be anything but voluntary. But why not have voluntary AND physical. If possible it makes it a 24 hour cuckolding. It makes you a cuckold whether you want to be one or not. You cannot perform in that setting. A physical cuckold as well as a mental one. I think most cuckolds want their wives or girlfriends to cuckold them and I still think that many of them secretly desire the more extreme form of it-total chastity either by a device or other means. I am just curious if this degree of it is rare or more common than most think.

So getting back to my original questions. I am curious if there are cuckolds that would like this more extreme form? Are there black men out there that would like the white men to be soft? It makes more women available to you (as if that is really an issue for most of the guys out there). Are there white women who would like the white men to be impotent, assuming the desire remains.? It might eliminate an area of guilt and also open up areas of teasing and denial. Thanks to all who answer and I hope this post helps clarify things.
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Great post!
 
rocuck said:
I want to thank those who have responded but I am not sure if I made my question clear. When I speak of an impotent cuckold I mean someone who has the desire to have sex but is unable to perform. This could be because of a small size or an inability to erect. Assuming that frustration is part of the cuckold thing, this would be extreme frustration. This would also elevate the primary relationship of the white woman and black man and make it the only relationship in a sexual sense.

I have great respect for willsrvu and the point that he makes probably applies to many if not most. But I think that there must be some cuckolding couples who really want to make it more intense. This could be a chastity device or some medications to prevent erections or whatever. For a wife like that it would not damage her marriage, it would enhance it. I do not see how a sexual marriage necessarily means the husband and wife. It could mean the wife with others only. I also respect MacNfries and the point made of voluntary versus physical, etc. I would not mean that any of this would be anything but voluntary. But why not have voluntary AND physical. If possible it makes it a 24 hour cuckolding. It makes you a cuckold whether you want to be one or not. You cannot perform in that setting. A physical cuckold as well as a mental one. I think most cuckolds want their wives or girlfriends to cuckold them and I still think that many of them secretly desire the more extreme form of it-total chastity either by a device or other means. I am just curious if this degree of it is rare or more common than most think.

So getting back to my original questions. I am curious if there are cuckolds that would like this more extreme form? Are there black men out there that would like the white men to be soft? It makes more women available to you (as if that is really an issue for most of the guys out there). Are there white women who would like the white men to be impotent, assuming the desire remains.? It might eliminate an area of guilt and also open up areas of teasing and denial. Thanks to all who answer and I hope this post helps clarify things.
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I definitely have erection issues and it has gotten worse since I've been cuckolded. I do wish I could perform also. Id still want her to enjoy her bull but I would like to enjoy her sometimes as well, but physically it is challenging. I've tried Cialis and Viagra but they seem to flush me so bad, I feel like I am having a heart attack and that upset my wife so she says she has made me "pussy-free" so as not to worry about it. I am sure if I was able to get and maintain an erection however, that she would be willing to let me inside her again
 
rocuck said:
The responses are interesting. The question I still have is how many actually want the impotency. Speaking as a cuckold I will tell you that it is a mental turn on to be tiny and to stay soft. This makes it impossible for you to compete and sort of steers you to other options. I have to think the impotency is a blessing for a white wife. It seems to me that most white women want to be with the black men but they are reluctant and careful and have been told over and over how they should act. This is unnatural but breaking down the barriers is tough. If the white boy husband is impotent this may lead to some discussions. The husband must first convince his wife that his inability to get hard is not because she is unattractive. It is because he is less of a man than she deserves and needs. A loving husband will want his wife to have a good sex life. If he can get up the courage he can discuss his respect for black men. If he can convince his wife that he will remain supportive and loving despite her having sex with other men he has a chance. I personally think that it does not hurt to emphasize the racial part of this. I suspect most of the women want to be with black men but if this point is not emphasized she could get cold feet. Once she has her first encounter- and it is fully supported by her boy-cuckold--it will then take care of itself. She should and will continue. None of this should be about the white boy who cannot erect. It is about the woman and the black man or men in her life. These are the people that matter. I think it is more challenging to get to this point if you are a white boy who actually can get hard and wants sex. Those boys may need to masturbate more or use devices to accomplish the goal.

Many on this site will probably not agree with me on this. It seems to me that the best way for white woman and black men to get together is for white boys to take a supportive role and stay out of the sex competition business. A situation where they will lose. Using all of this to get more sex or kinkier sex for the white boy seems selfish. So again I wonder how many white cuckolds or potential cuckolds want the impotency and want to be small and inadequate? How many white women want them to be that way so as to achieve freedom to have a healthy sex life and to be black men only? How many black men like the idea of the white boys being unable to perform?
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I agree to what you are saying. I for one would choose the being small and soft path. At that point I’d be completely eliminated as a sexual option. The key is though I’d still want and desire to have sex but no longer consisted. Plus a women seeing a soft white dick next to her hung black bull makes the humiliation extreme. Do you think 24/7 chastity is also an option? I’ve heard over time you will lose size and hardness.
 
Afroute5 said:
I agree to what you are saying. I for one would choose the being small and soft path. At that point I’d be completely eliminated as a sexual option. The key is though I’d still want and desire to have sex but no longer consisted. Plus a women seeing a soft white dick next to her hung black bull makes the humiliation extreme. Do you think 24/7 chastity is also an option? I’ve heard over time you will lose size and hardness.
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I'm not having any erections without direct stimulation, and my wife made fun of my tiny dick just this morning. I'm always soft and I no longer masturbate, so I'm probably shrinking. I get one hand job every 2 months and it's enough for me. I still enjoy wearing my cage because it feels good. I like the weight of it and that I can't touch myself, while the cage touching me maintains a constant very low level of excitement.
 
Cuckloversissy said:
As a white guy, whenever you voluntarily bring a black man into your relationship, and offer up your sexy little white wife up to him on a silver platter, it removes you from the category of being a man. As a result, dont be surprised if your wife starts to lose attraction towards you, or you find yourself unable to perform the duties of a man.
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I agree fully with you. I'm a white husband that is not a cuckold yet (but closer then ever) I find it hard to be considered a real man while wanting this for my white wife and having a dominant black man fucking my white wife and controlling our bedroom with my encouragement and full support..
 
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My husband and I have talked about this a lot. My husband once could get very hard. He’s still healthy with good ******* flow but he has psychologically lost the ability to get hard unless I’m fucking my bull. There was a point where he would try to have sex with me but lose his erection when I would just lay there feeling zero pleasure and just waiting for him to be done. He realized a long time ago his arrousal is linked to my pleasure. He gets hard occasionally if I whisper in his ear about how good my bull fucks me or if he watches us. Lately, even those erections have gone down. He can and almost always does cum soft. I’ve read this is because of my arrousal at his humiliation. Now it’s muscle memory. He’s most turned on when his cock is soft and small. He used to jack off with his hand now it’s two fingers pinching himself. He was once over 6” hard but now his cock can’t get past 4 on a good day. This is absolutely perfect for us. He feels no pressure or frustration anymore with not getting pussy because he can’t. Impotence is a blessing for a cuckold.
 
Being impotent and unable to produce sperm really is a blessing for us cucks. If I'm honest I still miss not being able to spurt my useless, inadequate jizz as I always used to eat my own, mostly from my hand or sometimes, on a very special occasion, from my lovely wife's hand.
I have embraced impotency and in a perverse way, now like This fact.
 
Idahoqueen said:
My husband and I have talked about this a lot. My husband once could get very hard. He’s still healthy with good ******* flow but he has psychologically lost the ability to get hard unless I’m fucking my bull. There was a point where he would try to have sex with me but lose his erection when I would just lay there feeling zero pleasure and just waiting for him to be done. He realized a long time ago his arrousal is linked to my pleasure. He gets hard occasionally if I whisper in his ear about how good my bull fucks me or if he watches us. Lately, even those erections have gone down. He can and almost always does cum soft. I’ve read this is because of my arrousal at his humiliation. Now it’s muscle memory. He’s most turned on when his cock is soft and small. He used to jack off with his hand now it’s two fingers pinching himself. He was once over 6” hard but now his cock can’t get past 4 on a good day. This is absolutely perfect for us. He feels no pressure or frustration anymore with not getting pussy because he can’t. Impotence is a blessing for a cuckold.
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WOW that sounds a lot like us !!!
 
Idahoqueen said:
My husband and I have talked about this a lot. My husband once could get very hard. He’s still healthy with good ******* flow but he has psychologically lost the ability to get hard unless I’m fucking my bull. There was a point where he would try to have sex with me but lose his erection when I would just lay there feeling zero pleasure and just waiting for him to be done. He realized a long time ago his arrousal is linked to my pleasure. He gets hard occasionally if I whisper in his ear about how good my bull fucks me or if he watches us. Lately, even those erections have gone down. He can and almost always does cum soft. I’ve read this is because of my arrousal at his humiliation. Now it’s muscle memory. He’s most turned on when his cock is soft and small. He used to jack off with his hand now it’s two fingers pinching himself. He was once over 6” hard but now his cock can’t get past 4 on a good day. This is absolutely perfect for us. He feels no pressure or frustration anymore with not getting pussy because he can’t. Impotence is a blessing for a cuckold.
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Yeah
 
Idahoqueen said:
My husband and I have talked about this a lot. My husband once could get very hard. He’s still healthy with good ******* flow but he has psychologically lost the ability to get hard unless I’m fucking my bull. There was a point where he would try to have sex with me but lose his erection when I would just lay there feeling zero pleasure and just waiting for him to be done. He realized a long time ago his arrousal is linked to my pleasure. He gets hard occasionally if I whisper in his ear about how good my bull fucks me or if he watches us. Lately, even those erections have gone down. He can and almost always does cum soft. I’ve read this is because of my arrousal at his humiliation. Now it’s muscle memory. He’s most turned on when his cock is soft and small. He used to jack off with his hand now it’s two fingers pinching himself. He was once over 6” hard but now his cock can’t get past 4 on a good day. This is absolutely perfect for us. He feels no pressure or frustration anymore with not getting pussy because he can’t. Impotence is a blessing for a cuckold.
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This describes my husband exactly! Except he was NEVER over 6"! He actually says that his best orgasms are all tied to watching me with my Black Lover. I know ALL my best orgasms are with my black BF! :)
 
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