I would like to post what I think is a serious issue. Many of the couples on this site seem to use the cuckolding as a springboard for them to have sex. I am not sure this is cuckolding in the pure sense but everybody is different. Having said that, how many cuckolds do not WANT to have sex? This could be due to performance issues or submissive desires or a need to step aside for black men because it is the "right" thing to do. How many wives do not want to have sex with their cuckolds? What are thier motivations? Also. How many cuckolds are impotent? How many would like to be impotent? Are there any couples who have been able to make the cuckold impotent? Perhaps medicines or hormones--?. It seems to me that sex between a white cuckold and his wife or girlfriend detracts from the primary romantic/sexual relationship between the white woman and her blck lover. A totally impotent cuckold makes all of the conflicts go away--assuming the cuckold still has desire and frustration. Would it not be better for him to be unable to perform?? I appreciate all serious responses.