Secretwishes
Male
An interesting question
If you could rewire your mind to not have a cuckold fetish, would you?
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No I enjoy the lifestyle. Enjoy watching my wife with other men.
bound2bmine
Male
Great question. Maybe I would if it would have kept my marriage together. But I love the lifestyle so not sure.
I've asked hubby this question, I think he would have changed if he could. He does enjoy what we do, but it has got him down sometimes knowing he mainly gets turned on by me being with black guys, doing stuff with other men. Especially the naughtier stuff that me and him simply just don't do.
I have had few hiccups so i would do few things differently if i can go to past but i have enjoyed cuckolding to its core
Yes, I would change it in a second. I am ashamed by it.
Wouldn't want to change. It needs strong relationship as foundation to deal with full range of emotions encountered. Only regrets are not starting sooner and not having enough opportunities to meet more regularly with with bulls
Is that because he is fighting it mentally? I used to try and repress it and ignore it but always came back to it and then experienced BBC and finally accepted it is what I am, I don't really know if I would change anything because this is what I am
hard luck then as it is the real you
....The shame only fuels your fixation bro.......you need to move on to acceptance now.!...you can't fight it.....its TOO STRONG......BBC.
with us it has never been about me it is about her having a great sex life and I have had great benefits from it also our marriage has become so much better we are now closer then ever I am a fair bit older then she is and everything worked well when we married but the last couple years with health issues I no longer could take care of her like I should and we met a friend on line and met him for dinner and things took off he is my best friend now and lives with us on weekends and we are a very happy couple now 24/7.
I'm not sure if it's because he's fighting it, I think he just feels a bit ashamed sometimes that he can't get an erection, or keep an erection, unless I've been with a black guy. Or when I tell him the things I've done, or a guys cum is still in me. I think he gets jealous about men who can get instant erections, and last a long time through 'normal' sexual activity.
I know how he feels, we have been doing it now for 29 years, I love her coming home 3/4 nights week with her cunt well fucked and cant recall when I didn't fuck it unless it had already been fucked, I still find it so exciting nearly as exciting as it was in the beginning
....Ann, has your husband tried ED meds like Cialis or Viagra? Assuming he's getting erections by simply knowing you've been with another man, I feel fairly sure a simple dose of the ED meds would enable him to get erections without your being with other men as well. I guess my point is, he shouldn't have to rely on a certain event to happen to create a mental image that enables him to have erections IF he doesn't wish to.
....A fetish, such as this, is really no more than a pleasure button ... not too dissimilar to masturbation. One does it because it makes them "feel good", not because they have to do it in order to perform.
lisasparrows
Couple
What a great answer!
lisasparrows
Couple
I have to say, this is one of the best questions I've ever seen posted on this site.
I can't answer it, but I just wanted to give you some credit. You just inspired me to ask a similar question.
I can't answer it, but I just wanted to give you some credit. You just inspired me to ask a similar question.
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