If you could rewire your mind to not have a cuckold fetish, would you?

[hoburgh]

It's a tough call, because this fetish has been so hardwired into me for so long (leading to a lot of frustration and yearning, because I've never been able to convince my wife to actualize it). But it'd probably have made my life much simpler (and more productive!) had I never had this fetish. So, yeah, I'd probably have to say yes.

 

[subservant]

I'm not sure if it's because he's fighting it, I think he just feels a bit ashamed sometimes that he can't get an erection, or keep an erection, unless I've been with a black guy. Or when I tell him the things I've done, or a guys cum is still in me. I think he gets jealous about men who can get instant erections, and last a long time through 'normal' sexual activity.

Yes I can imagine his shame and embarrassment, I was the same until serving BBC then it made sense and I accepted it, this is just how we are naturally and we are like this to please and serve our beautiful women and their bulls, making that mental shift can be the hardest part. Have seen quite a few couples who start this as a bit of fun and then the wife realises it is how things should be and hubby has a very hard time accepting. Normally it is just understandable reluctance for hubby to admit to himself what he is and he fights it, he should spend more time on here to see it is a natural part of life.

 

[Ann4BBC]

....Ann, has your husband tried ED meds like Cialis or Viagra? Assuming he's getting erections by simply knowing you've been with another man, I feel fairly sure a simple dose of the ED meds would enable him to get erections without your being with other men as well. I guess my point is, he shouldn't have to rely on a certain event to happen to create a mental image that enables him to have erections IF he doesn't wish to.

....A fetish, such as this, is really no more than a pleasure button ... not too dissimilar to masturbation. One does it because it makes them "feel good", not because they have to do it in order to perform.

Thanx Mac, yes he uses Viagra when we have sex. Don't get me wrong, he still enjoys what we do. I think I'm slightly to blame because I've teased him and denied him as part of the 'game' of it all! I will have to get him 'working' again! X

 

[Irishboy81]

If you asked me when i was younger i might of said yes... Now im comfortable with it and when i finally found the love of my life and shared what i had been hiding for so long and realising i should of said it sooner because when i hear her say she has always dreamt of being with blackmen and describes what she would do while i watch her i know its meant to be...

 

[Hansjensen]

If you asked me when i was younger i might of said yes... Now im comfortable with it and when i finally found the love of my life and shared what i had been hiding for so long and realising i should of said it sooner because when i hear her say she has always dreamt of being with blackmen and describes what she would do while i watch her i know its meant to be...

I also feel that it was meant to be. I would certainly NOT want to give up our lifestyle. And because of our ******* we can never act as if my wife had never cucked me. Everyone can see clearly that she has.

 

[Jodaddyitsaboy]

Absolutely. Without hesitation.
If I could choose, I'd rather be a furry. Or into being very forcefully dominated. Or granny porn. Or be homosexual. Or almost anything else.

But nobody asked me what I wanted to turn me on.

If my neurologist could point out the area of my brain that controlled this I'd have him cut it out.
But it just is as I just am.

 

[MoFreakin85]

Yes I would, because my addiction is worse than being a ******* addict.

 

[Hansjensen]

Yes I would, because my addiction is worse than being a ******* addict.

I agree. ******* addiction can be cured, be cuckold is for life. I am glad that my wife cucks me, it has made my life much more interesting.

 

[kinkcouple77]

I think I would, I enjoy being a cuckold and life is certainly not dull but at times is can be stressful and a lot of hard work. I would probably change for a simpler life, however this was never meant for me, I have always had the urge before I even understood what that urge was.

 

[Hansjensen]

I think I would, I enjoy being a cuckold and life is certainly not dull but at times is can be stressful and a lot of hard work. I would probably change for a simpler life, however this was never meant for me, I have always had the urge before I even understood what that urge was.

We were meant to live as cuckolds. It's never going to change. That urge will be there forever.

Let's enjoy all the good things that cuckolding gives us! Most couples have a boring sex life after some years. We don't.

 

[MoFreakin85]

I agree. ******* addiction can be cured, be cuckold is for life. I am glad that my wife cucks me, it has made my life much more interesting.

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I have come to enjoy BBC orally as much as a woman does, love sharing a BBC or two with a willing and understanding female.

 

[Hansjensen]

I have come to enjoy BBC orally as much as a woman does, love sharing a BBC or two with a willing and understanding female.

That's great. I prefer to watch and eat Chris out after Chris and Michael are finished.

Watching is for me better than having an orgasm myself.