Husband doesn't seem interested in sex

BBW1977 said:
Lately, my 44 year old husband seems to have no interest in sex. He had surgery on his shoulder almost a year ago. He claims pain is the reason but it's been 11 months since the surgery. He does work kind of long hours but even after a 2-3 hour "nap" he is not energized for sex. We have had many kid free weekends and all we do is sit around. He used to say to me "find us someone to fuck." Not anymore. I am horny, all the time lately. There are some days all I can think about is a fat cock in my wet pussy and I even tell him straight up I am horny, yet he comes home, has dinner and promptly falls asleep on the couch. I thought maybe he was cheating but his routine has not changed, and his nephew now works with him so cheating would not be an option as they carpool together. I am frustrated and don't know what to do. I feel guilty asking to have a playdate instead of trying to entice him to fuck me but I am getting tired of always initiating things just to be turned down. I am too young to give sex up. I almost feel like cheating but I do not want the guilt. He is a good man. I just don't know how much more patience I can have for this situation.
Also, yes, I have talked to him about this, and he uses pain as his excuse or "You don't come to bed with me." He goes to bed very early and while that is true, there are many nights I go to bed with him, and nothing happens.
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I would either tell him to go to the doctor and get ******* work done to check his testosterone levels and get him on testosterone replacement therapy and viagra lol! If he still not pounding your pussy straight up tell him. I love you I don’t want to change our situation but I need to have sex and want to start cuckolding you and fucking BBCs. Tell him you will film let him watch etc. to keep him in loop but you need sex.
 
austingirl said:
For how long?
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I really don't know but it has been many years. We have sex like 2 times a year and she doesn't give me oral sex and she refused to watch porn. However she has vulvadynia which women can get in which vaginal sex can be painful during or after or both that can last for days or weeks. The problem is because she doesn't want sex she won't even give me oral or jerk me off and we never did anal because she never wanted to. I understand her not wanting vaginal sex because it's painful to her but I don't understand why she can't do the other sexual acts on me. I'm so frustrated and so horny.
 
Have you ever thought it's maybe because of yourself? He may not say it outright but he may think you are not what you used to be when you two fell in love. And if you want ******* honesty from a complete stranger who happens to be a young guy? You aren't that attractive, if the profile picture is indeed you. Maybe he sees that way, too. I wouldn't find joy in being with my girlfriend if I did not find her attractive (not only looks-wise, mind you), and it would result in less sex or similar interactions in general.

Sometimes it's better to just divorce for you two to grow, and find joy in your life again. It boggles my mind when people are in a relationship they don't want joy in, and expect things to change (may it be delusional or naive) when in reality they aren't going to change.
 
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Sakuu said:
Have you ever thought it's maybe because of yourself? He may not say it outright but he may think you are not what you used to be when you two fell in love. And if you want ******* honesty from a complete stranger who happens to be a young guy? You aren't that attractive, if the profile picture is indeed you. Maybe he sees that way, too. I wouldn't find joy in being with my girlfriend if I did not find her attractive (not only looks-wise, mind you), and it would result in less sex or similar interactions in general.

Sometimes it's better to just divorce for you two to grow, and find joy in your life again. It boggles my mind when people are in a relationship they don't want joy in, and expect things to change (may it be delusional or naive) when in reality they aren't going to change.
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I don’t know if you are referring to my profile picture or BBC1977. But it doesn’t matter to whom you are referring. For the following reasons:
1) As you yourself said, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
2) To whomever your insults were directed toward, you know not the function of our mind , personality , nor sensitivities.
3) I am unclear as to how you became the authority on beauty
4) Were you not raised with the age old adage “if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all” ?
 
austingirl said:
I don’t know if you are referring to my profile picture or BBC1977. But it doesn’t matter to whom you are referring. For the following reasons:
1) As you yourself said, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
2) To whomever your insults were directed toward, you know not the function of our mind , personality , nor sensitivities.
3) I am unclear as to how you became the authority on beauty
4) Were you not raised with the age old adage “if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all” ?
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Noted. I stand behind what I said.
 
austingirl said:
I don’t know if you are referring to my profile picture or BBC1977. But it doesn’t matter to whom you are referring. For the following reasons:
1) As you yourself said, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
2) To whomever your insults were directed toward, you know not the function of our mind , personality , nor sensitivities.
3) I am unclear as to how you became the authority on beauty
4) Were you not raised with the age old adage “if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all” ?
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Seriously fuck you sir. Austingirl is worthy of serious respect. Your momma raised you better than this I hope. Sorry but damn rude as hell
 
I’ll add a little contribution here despite what many others are saying.. from a man’s perspective.. the last thing you need to be doing right now is making him watch you fuck someone else.
 
Hyperxxxguy said:
I really don't know but it has been many years. We have sex like 2 times a year and she doesn't give me oral sex and she refused to watch porn. However she has vulvadynia which women can get in which vaginal sex can be painful during or after or both that can last for days or weeks. The problem is because she doesn't want sex she won't even give me oral or jerk me off and we never did anal because she never wanted to. I understand her not wanting vaginal sex because it's painful to her but I don't understand why she can't do the other sexual acts on me. I'm so frustrated and so horny.
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I understand the frustration, mentally as well as physically. May I PM you as I have a few questions?
 
BBW1977 said:
Lately, my 44 year old husband seems to have no interest in sex. He had surgery on his shoulder almost a year ago. He claims pain is the reason but it's been 11 months since the surgery. He does work kind of long hours but even after a 2-3 hour "nap" he is not energized for sex. We have had many kid free weekends and all we do is sit around. He used to say to me "find us someone to fuck." Not anymore. I am horny, all the time lately. There are some days all I can think about is a fat cock in my wet pussy and I even tell him straight up I am horny, yet he comes home, has dinner and promptly falls asleep on the couch. I thought maybe he was cheating but his routine has not changed, and his nephew now works with him so cheating would not be an option as they carpool together. I am frustrated and don't know what to do. I feel guilty asking to have a playdate instead of trying to entice him to fuck me but I am getting tired of always initiating things just to be turned down. I am too young to give sex up. I almost feel like cheating but I do not want the guilt. He is a good man. I just don't know how much more patience I can have for this situation.
Also, yes, I have talked to him about this, and he uses pain as his excuse or "You don't come to bed with me." He goes to bed very early and while that is true, there are many nights I go to bed with him, and nothing happens.
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The fact that you are on here is that you are or are considering making your husband a cuckold. If I were your husband I would love for you to have sex with other men and feminize me so I would be a true sissy cuckold!
 

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Sakuu said:
Have you ever thought it's maybe because of yourself? He may not say it outright but he may think you are not what you used to be when you two fell in love. And if you want ******* honesty from a complete stranger who happens to be a young guy? You aren't that attractive, if the profile picture is indeed you. Maybe he sees that way, too. I wouldn't find joy in being with my girlfriend if I did not find her attractive (not only looks-wise, mind you), and it would result in less sex or similar interactions in general.

Sometimes it's better to just divorce for you two to grow, and find joy in your life again. It boggles my mind when people are in a relationship they don't want joy in, and expect things to change (may it be delusional or naive) when in reality they aren't going to change.
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A true Asshat indeed. You should be ashamed you arrogant jerk.
 
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