Husband doesn't seem interested in sex

[BBW1977]

The same

 

[hairybbc]

This happens to the majority of men as they age. Testosterone drops and can be increased through success, weight training, weight loss or attention from women but these are all small boosts. Black men have higher testosterone so the drop happens much later in life, but it happens. He needs weight training and possibly counseling. Many older men accept that it's done and focus on other tings. Im sorry.

 

[Limpcuck31]

Sort of. He did not give me much feedback.

Ask him if he minds if have a Lover.

 

[BDG69]

I am turning 45 tomorrow. He turns 45 in August

Happy Belated Birthday

 

[Mypete]

Have you made any progress with him? Is he willing to let you cuckold him yet?

 

[BBW1977]

Happy Belated Birthday

Thank you!

 

[BBW1977]

Have you made any progress with him? Is he willing to let you cuckold him yet?

He doesn't mind if I take a lover, I just cannot get anyone to commit. I was ghosted Friday night by a BBC.

 

[Mypete]

Thst sucks honey,but be patient the right guy will come along.I would love to hear that your needs are being tended too by the right black man.

 

[BBW1977]

I had a BBC that was kind of regular but lasts time I asked him to come service me he wanted gas money!

 

[Mypete]

That sucks,especially with the price of gas now! Just kidding. It might be worth a few bucks for gas to get what you need.

 

[BBW1977]

That sucks,especially with the price of gas now! Just kidding. It might be worth a few bucks for gas to get what you need.

I wouldn't mind but hubby will not have it. He said if he has to ask for gas money to get laid he can go somewhere else. LOL.

 

[Mypete]

I hear you! I wouldn't go there either! I would find a way to get there to get that fine ass of yours!

 

[xxx_couple]

I won’t cheat on him. I have had thoughts of it but I cannot bring myself to do that to him. Thank you so much for your insight and support. I will definitely keep all you said in mind!

I agree you don't want to cheat. However, divorce is a real option.

 

[BBW1977]

I agree you don't want to cheat. However, divorce is a real option.

I won’t divorce him for not fucking me. Especially when we’re swingers.

 

[Mypete]

I won’t divorce him for not fucking me. Especially when we’re swingers.

I agree,my wife went through the change and lost interest in sex with anyone,not her fault,I'm not divorcing her,we have been married more than 30 years,we have a life together.

 

[xxx_couple]

I won’t divorce him for not fucking me. Especially when we’re swingers.

Sounds like very little swinging going on. To call yourselves swingers, you actually have to fuck other people.

 

[BBW1977]

Sounds like very little swinging going on. To call yourselves swingers, you actually have to fuck other people.

Did you bother to read my original post?

 

[BBW1977]

Not the same as a live person, they do in a pinch though

 

[Mypete]

Take some time today and make yourself cum for us! And tell us about what you are thinking about when you cum! Sometimes you have to make time for yourself!

 

[BBW1977]

I’d agree to both of those points. Does you husband watch porn or jerk off?

No he really doesn't and even when we were more sexual didn't jerk off. He is odd. I know most men jerk at least once a day.