How to catch a fraud/fake........

This site is purely for fantasy of the interracial lifestyle , there are a lot of people with odd behavior, fake , flakes and fantasy seekers... don’t take things too personal, after all it’s just a lifestyle
Yup. Gotta love the comments from wanna be cucks with no wife in sight telling us not to use condoms when fucking a complete stranger...
 
We’ve had plenty of verified members no call/no show. What’s better is a search finding threads where people have actually met with them and can verify they actually intend to meet with others and not live out an online fantasy
 
We’ve had plenty of verified members no call/no show. What’s better is a search finding threads where people have actually met with them and can verify they actually intend to meet with others and not live out an online fantasy
Sorry to hear but again comes with the territory, you meet all types of people in this lifestyle. Never take it personal, just move on and ignore them. That’s what I always do and I find out in the long run, you dodged a bullet in the process
 
We’ve had plenty of verified members no call/no show. What’s better is a search finding threads where people have actually met with them and can verify they actually intend to meet with others and not live out an online fantasy
We do have such a thread. It's in the verified members only section. Members who have met each other share their experiences and refer to each other
 
To add on to what I said earlier, I'm about to expose a little secret about this site when it comes to the black guys here, and yes, I'm calling some of you out. The reason why a lot of guys are not on swinger sites is because they have no idea how to maneuver in that environment. They come here because the women are viewed as "easy pussy". That's why you see so many dick pics here. Guys don't know how else to present themselves. It kills me when I see guys posting pics from many different angles, like it's a Ferrari lol. I see the same behavior at parties. The guys who are comfortable within the lifestyle are walking around, engaging couples and hooking up with the women they approach. Whereas the other guys just sit on the sideline waiting. They may approach a woman or couple but if they get rejected one time they lose all confidence and return to the perimeter. Usually they'll wind up just waiting for a woman to go into true slut mode and they'll join the "conga line". So to my guys on this site, do yourself a favor and educate yourself on the actual lifestyle behind all of this. Trust me, you will definitely see the benefits. Like anything else in life, you have to study your craft and hone your skills.

If you’re a man and you cannot face rejection then end your life now!! You should have faced rejection in high asking girls to dances!! smh I find that statement hard to believe.
 
To add on to what I said earlier, I'm about to expose a little secret about this site when it comes to the black guys here, and yes, I'm calling some of you out. The reason why a lot of guys are not on swinger sites is because they have no idea how to maneuver in that environment. They come here because the women are viewed as "easy pussy". That's why you see so many dick pics here. Guys don't know how else to present themselves. It kills me when I see guys posting pics from many different angles, like it's a Ferrari lol. I see the same behavior at parties. The guys who are comfortable within the lifestyle are walking around, engaging couples and hooking up with the women they approach. Whereas the other guys just sit on the sideline waiting. They may approach a woman or couple but if they get rejected one time they lose all confidence and return to the perimeter. Usually they'll wind up just waiting for a woman to go into true slut mode and they'll join the "conga line". So to my guys on this site, do yourself a favor and educate yourself on the actual lifestyle behind all of this. Trust me, you will definitely see the benefits. Like anything else in life, you have to study your craft and hone your skills.
Amen. I've been saying similar things for years here. Porn and watching us who are very sucessful in this lifesyle have made way too many dudes think it's just a bunch of "easy pussy". There's levels to this. And you only get there with time, patience, and skill.
 
Amen. I've been saying similar things for years here. Porn and watching us who are very sucessful in this lifesyle have made way too many dudes think it's just a bunch of "easy pussy". There's levels to this. And you only get there with time, patience, and skill.
Again this is just a fantasy website... let the people have their fantasy. The serious action happens on the swinger sites which this site wouldnt be classified as one. Its good to read the threads and watch and shake your head at human behavior...alot of fascinating characters both male and female
 
Again this is just a fantasy website... let the people have their fantasy. The serious action happens on the swinger sites which this site wouldnt be classified as one. Its good to read the threads and watch and shake your head at human behavior...alot of fascinating characters both male and female

Agree ?
 
Again this is just a fantasy website... let the people have their fantasy. The serious action happens on the swinger sites which this site wouldnt be classified as one. Its good to read the threads and watch and shake your head at human behavior...alot of fascinating characters both male and female

I've said the fantasy thing as well. True that. BUT....I have met some couples from here. And I know a lot of lifestyle folks from SLS and SDC who are on here as well.
 
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I've said the fantasy thing as well. True that. BUT....I have met some couples from here. And I know a lot of lifestyle from SLS and SDC who are on here as well.
Yes, same here however this site isnt a swinger site nor do I think that it say it is.
 
Amen. I've been saying similar things for years here. Porn and watching us who are very sucessful in this lifesyle have made way too many dudes think it's just a bunch of "easy pussy". There's levels to this. And you only get there with time, patience, and skill.
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Its like the iceberg analogy, they only see the Tip of our success.
They don't see all the background work we put in. The many texts messages, flirting, pics exchange, scheduling and arrangements, driving, flakes, etc...
 
Yes, same here however this site isnt a swinger site nor do I think that it say it is.
this is just a fantasy site that happens to have a dating part of it if you get lucky. We all here for different reasons. Ive been doing this ******* without a site and a title for years. Meeting someone off here and talking about it here is the fun part. The bullshit part of the fakes lowers the integrity of the site.
 
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Its like the iceberg analogy, they only see the Tip of our success.
They don't see all the background work we put in. The many texts messages, flirting, pics exchange, scheduling and arrangements, driving, flakes, etc...
i Have been in this lifestyle off and on since college and yes it takes due diligence and effort to find a lasting couple relationship however I don’t like to call it work...more like both parties put in the effort and see the value of a friendship with benefits or just benefits. Some people just want to hit it once and treat you like meat, these are the people you should avoid like the plague however the same can be said of guys that approach these couples and see them as free pussy as well.
 
this is just a fantasy site that happens to have a dating part of it if you get lucky. We all here for different reasons. Ive been doing this ******* without a site and a title for years. Meeting someone off here and talking about it here is the fun part. The bullshit part of the fakes lowers the integrity of the site.
Right, a lot of us guys here we were doing this way before these websites existed. Had to have REAL LIFE GAME to be successful, only thing the internet did was expand our options lol
 
Right, a lot of us guys here we were doing this way before these websites existed. Had to have REAL LIFE GAME to be successful, only thing the internet did was expand our options lol
I need to start a thread for the guys that put in the effort..l.has this lifestyle ruined vanilla dating for you.....Hahhaa for me it has indeed ha
i don’t enjoy fucking normal chicks ..they have to be attached for it to be real fun
 
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