To add on to what I said earlier, I'm about to expose a little secret about this site when it comes to the black guys here, and yes, I'm calling some of you out. The reason why a lot of guys are not on swinger sites is because they have no idea how to maneuver in that environment. They come here because the women are viewed as "easy pussy". That's why you see so many dick pics here. Guys don't know how else to present themselves. It kills me when I see guys posting pics from many different angles, like it's a Ferrari lol. I see the same behavior at parties. The guys who are comfortable within the lifestyle are walking around, engaging couples and hooking up with the women they approach. Whereas the other guys just sit on the sideline waiting. They may approach a woman or couple but if they get rejected one time they lose all confidence and return to the perimeter. Usually they'll wind up just waiting for a woman to go into true slut mode and they'll join the "conga line". So to my guys on this site, do yourself a favor and educate yourself on the actual lifestyle behind all of this. Trust me, you will definitely see the benefits. Like anything else in life, you have to study your craft and hone your skills.