We were I think around 29/30 ( Me ) & 26/27 (Her ) , now in our mid ,late 70,s
How long did it take your wife to ******* with another man
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Siendo un hombre bisexual swinger siempre es un tema que tratar con mis parejas en mi caso cuando se trata de una persona que no es de nuestro estilo de vida siempre lo primero es ser bien cincero sobre mis gustos sexuales aclaro que si no les gusta la idea pues no lo tienen que hacer pero si veo que no les desagrada la idea pero no se siente segura empiezo con una serie de juegos sexuales con los que pueden ir probando algo de lo que les cuento por ejemplo empezar a tener relaciones integrando juguetes sexuales de menos a más darle dobles penetracion claro que ver pornos de trios y orgias juntos es una buena idea y siempre al tocar el tema de la primera vez dejarle saber que sería ella quien decide con cuál de los amigos tendría la primera vez
Yes, I am agree with a lot of what has been said. It took my wife probably 2 and 1/2 years to agree to go out and meet a possible lover. She was not in agreement for a long time. We vetted a lot of men. The funny thing was that my idea of a good "fit" for her was not what she eventually agreed to. I thought that the guy she chose was arrogant and self-centered. She saw him as confident and chivalrous.
As it turned out he was exactly what we both needed; patient, confident, knew what he was doing, and handled my wife just right.
What sealed the deal, I think, was her curiosity. It was always something in the back of her mind. She looked at interracial porn and was impressed with the size of some of the men. I think that some of the the pics and videos that I showed her of black men performing convinced her that she might be missing out on a good thing. Interracial sex, to her, was also supposedly forbidden, taboo, erotic because of her upbringing.
The other thing that was important is that we distinguished the difference between love-making and recreational sex. For us love-making was what we were comfortable with and enjoyed it.
Recreational sex with another man was something my wife had never considered before. She warmed up to the idea when our first bull told her that he was not into love-making; That he was interested solely into turning her into his whore. It worked. As things progressed with our bull, it occurred to me that my wife's lust and passion for good dark chocolate went through the roof. She became insatiable, submissive to the bull and could not get enough of his cock.
As it turned out he was exactly what we both needed; patient, confident, knew what he was doing, and handled my wife just right.
What sealed the deal, I think, was her curiosity. It was always something in the back of her mind. She looked at interracial porn and was impressed with the size of some of the men. I think that some of the the pics and videos that I showed her of black men performing convinced her that she might be missing out on a good thing. Interracial sex, to her, was also supposedly forbidden, taboo, erotic because of her upbringing.
The other thing that was important is that we distinguished the difference between love-making and recreational sex. For us love-making was what we were comfortable with and enjoyed it.
Recreational sex with another man was something my wife had never considered before. She warmed up to the idea when our first bull told her that he was not into love-making; That he was interested solely into turning her into his whore. It worked. As things progressed with our bull, it occurred to me that my wife's lust and passion for good dark chocolate went through the roof. She became insatiable, submissive to the bull and could not get enough of his cock.
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We were active in partner swapping from the ages 29 Her and 31 Me till the ages 62 Her and 65 me.Thank you for sharing your experiences and showing some interest even you are not active in this anymore.
But the question here is "How long did it take your wife...?" which is about the only thing you did not mention.Just sayin'
from the age I think 48 Her She was black cock only ,apart from Me that is
bigcockcucky
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Took mine about 5 years before she finally did it!!!
I think partner swapping/swinging/hotwifing whatever you wish to call it , I guess depending on what age you are.
With us I think it began with My own infidelity,My Wife was pregnant with our first baby, I got involved with a female work colleague.
My Wife found out about it, ( I actually confessed
).
She forgave Me, which led to why etc etc.
This led to further discussion on our life together, from which We decided to try partner swapping with friends.
We both enjoyed it, and more to the point loved talking about fucking other people, this definitely heightened our sex life together.
We realised that for us it was an enjoyable experience, I started to realise She was a sexual ******* once Her confidence in Her wonderful body was confirmed in Her own mind, and She started to believe what I had been telling Her.
Also,some of the Woman older than Her at the swingers events,gave Her advice also.
Once She realised what I and other people had been telling Her,was for real, was a turning point for Her.
She became,a very sexual person, and with my encouragement was never frightened to give an admiring guy the come on, always telling Me first what was going on.
I always,gave Her space by going to the toilet or the bar, etc.
Very rarely She has been known to get another couple interested, that after a while led to us swapping with them.
Now also I would point out, that I was blessed with not only a good looking wife , but also a reasonable size cock ( According to my Wife and other Woman ).
So,from around 31(ish/ Me ) We started going to Swingers clubs, in east London that were starting to become popular in our day ( Circa 1977/8).
She became a very popular lady, and I was starting to realise that She was a submissive exhibitionist, there was nothing She would not do,and never once minded being the centre of attention,and crowds watching Her in action.
especially if She knew it was turning Her Husband on.
Which more to the point led to great sex when on our own, I stated to encourage Her to go out on Her own, and from that She sometimes arranged for some of our swinger friends to have sex with me on their own.
So anyone reading this that the trust between us was a complete gift.
We were still,only white on white swingers, We had never had the opportunity for Her to experience a very well hung black guy.
By this time in our lives , the porn industry was growing and some very well hung black guys started to appear.
This started to make Her curious, and as we were both fucking other people, I said to Her would you like to try a BBC.
She agreed She would, So after a lot of searching and being messed about, We eventually found someone to come to our house ( We had my parents look after the *******).
The first time He was reasonably well endowed around 9 1/4 inches with a reasonable girth and bigger than me, He fucked Her in our lounge, She enjoyed it, They both came off together several times.
She said She loved it and He came back for more several times, but eventually moved back to France.
By now She,was,around 49/50 but still very fit and pretty good looking, We we’re both now confirmed in this way of life , but the ******* were growing up so We had to be very careful,and selective to what We done.
However She had a invite to a small swingers gathering that turned out to be be 4 white couples and a crowd of black guys at a place in Tottenham Nr London.
We decided to go, and when we got there there turned out to be about 5/6 guys for each girl.
She I remember had Her usual tailored suit and Sussies and suspenders, She was undressed pretty quickly by Her guys who soon spotted Her tatoo,s and clit piercing.
I remember someone asking what She wanted to which She replied “ Just fill me up “
This led immediately to Her taking 3 of them and making Her airtight.
I loved watching Her grind against their cocks and all the cum running out of Her.
She took many men that night and there were some massive cocks there.
At one point I remember bending down to watch the guys fuck Her looking down on the bedsheet there was a massive wet patch that had run out of Her arse and Pusey.
One of the guys pulled out of Her and another guy went straight inside Her , He bent down with me to watch and looked at me and ran His finger round the great big wet patch saying to me “ Boy She is good “.
Eventually We went home around 4 am.
I got to our car, I said to Her “ Wow you are something Else “She,said She was, a bit sore.
But still managed to wipe cum round my face as I drove Home.
She said She enjoyed it, but We never went back there.
A few months later She got a black guy who was seventeen years younger than Her, and He became Her regular black boy friend for about 10 years or so on and off.
He had the biggest cock I have ever seen, and She enjoyed sex with Him immensely.
We are now too old for the lifestyle, but are still together.
As She sometimes says “ You trainened Me Well “
I guess I did.
With us I think it began with My own infidelity,My Wife was pregnant with our first baby, I got involved with a female work colleague.
My Wife found out about it, ( I actually confessed
).She forgave Me, which led to why etc etc.
This led to further discussion on our life together, from which We decided to try partner swapping with friends.
We both enjoyed it, and more to the point loved talking about fucking other people, this definitely heightened our sex life together.
We realised that for us it was an enjoyable experience, I started to realise She was a sexual ******* once Her confidence in Her wonderful body was confirmed in Her own mind, and She started to believe what I had been telling Her.
Also,some of the Woman older than Her at the swingers events,gave Her advice also.
Once She realised what I and other people had been telling Her,was for real, was a turning point for Her.
She became,a very sexual person, and with my encouragement was never frightened to give an admiring guy the come on, always telling Me first what was going on.
I always,gave Her space by going to the toilet or the bar, etc.
Very rarely She has been known to get another couple interested, that after a while led to us swapping with them.
Now also I would point out, that I was blessed with not only a good looking wife , but also a reasonable size cock ( According to my Wife and other Woman ).
So,from around 31(ish/ Me ) We started going to Swingers clubs, in east London that were starting to become popular in our day ( Circa 1977/8).
She became a very popular lady, and I was starting to realise that She was a submissive exhibitionist, there was nothing She would not do,and never once minded being the centre of attention,and crowds watching Her in action.
especially if She knew it was turning Her Husband on.
Which more to the point led to great sex when on our own, I stated to encourage Her to go out on Her own, and from that She sometimes arranged for some of our swinger friends to have sex with me on their own.
So anyone reading this that the trust between us was a complete gift.
We were still,only white on white swingers, We had never had the opportunity for Her to experience a very well hung black guy.
By this time in our lives , the porn industry was growing and some very well hung black guys started to appear.
This started to make Her curious, and as we were both fucking other people, I said to Her would you like to try a BBC.
She agreed She would, So after a lot of searching and being messed about, We eventually found someone to come to our house ( We had my parents look after the *******).
The first time He was reasonably well endowed around 9 1/4 inches with a reasonable girth and bigger than me, He fucked Her in our lounge, She enjoyed it, They both came off together several times.
She said She loved it and He came back for more several times, but eventually moved back to France.
By now She,was,around 49/50 but still very fit and pretty good looking, We we’re both now confirmed in this way of life , but the ******* were growing up so We had to be very careful,and selective to what We done.
However She had a invite to a small swingers gathering that turned out to be be 4 white couples and a crowd of black guys at a place in Tottenham Nr London.
We decided to go, and when we got there there turned out to be about 5/6 guys for each girl.
She I remember had Her usual tailored suit and Sussies and suspenders, She was undressed pretty quickly by Her guys who soon spotted Her tatoo,s and clit piercing.
I remember someone asking what She wanted to which She replied “ Just fill me up “
This led immediately to Her taking 3 of them and making Her airtight.
I loved watching Her grind against their cocks and all the cum running out of Her.
She took many men that night and there were some massive cocks there.
At one point I remember bending down to watch the guys fuck Her looking down on the bedsheet there was a massive wet patch that had run out of Her arse and Pusey.
One of the guys pulled out of Her and another guy went straight inside Her , He bent down with me to watch and looked at me and ran His finger round the great big wet patch saying to me “ Boy She is good “.
Eventually We went home around 4 am.
I got to our car, I said to Her “ Wow you are something Else “She,said She was, a bit sore.
But still managed to wipe cum round my face as I drove Home.
She said She enjoyed it, but We never went back there.
A few months later She got a black guy who was seventeen years younger than Her, and He became Her regular black boy friend for about 10 years or so on and off.
He had the biggest cock I have ever seen, and She enjoyed sex with Him immensely.
We are now too old for the lifestyle, but are still together.
As She sometimes says “ You trainened Me Well “
I guess I did.
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2cruzinforvull
Couple
It took me 7-8 years to convince her. I pretty much pressured her to do it. Then she did it for around 9 months. When he moved on. She would never do it again.
Why?
atlhotwifecpl
Couple
Early on in our dating relationship, I told my then girlfriend (now wife) about some of my kinks...specifically that I thought it would be hot if she was open to other people. We discussed the topic over several months and then finally decided to hit a swingers club and see what it was all about (Trapeze in Atlanta). From the first trip, we both were hooked. She has the freedom to be with whoever she wants but I am not allowed to touch anyone else, including any of her lovers. Before we got married, she had several other men...and since we have been married (5+ years now), she has been on numerous dates and currently has a boyfriend of 2+ years. Things have worked out great for us so far...but in fairness, it was both of our second marriages and we knew going in to be open and honest with each other and not try to hide things.
2cruzinforvull
Couple
Not 100% sure. Our Bull disappeared on us with no real goodby. You can read those details on other threads. But she was hurt by that for quite awhile. I think she was really smitten with him. When I suggested we find another, she kept saying not right now. That drifted into, “I am not into that lifestyle, I only did it for you.” To now she won’t even discuss the fun times we had. She says it was one of her worst mistakes. As you can read on other threads though, she suggested play dates, new things to try, even stayed at his place alone by her request. my best guess is once she was over the hurt and depression, she was scared at how much she came to care about him. Maybe she doesn’t want to get too attached where she would consider leaving me? Just a guess because she has never said clearly why.
chrisritika
Couple
15 years for us …two failed attempts in 2010 and 2015 while away from home…finally took plunge 2019…sat out pandemic , retuned to it in 2021…blsck only since
When we met, we both already had lifestyle/ swinger experience, so seeing her with another man wasn't a big deal. We would occasionally host house parties, and we were both free to play with whomever. We're still free to play solo, but age and health have slowed us (mostly her) down. If anything, nowadays my favorite is to have MFM(+) with her.
We were married over 20 yrs when she had her first date. I worked on her for over 5 years to date or have sex with other men and went through most of the steps/issues couples have-religion/public humiliation/changes to our marriage/STI/respect. etc. When she finally agreed to do it "One time to get you off my back about it" she said my fantasy had to be with hers--a young black man. I felt like I had won a lottery as I had not had the nerve to even mention black men. We met some guys from Craigslist in another city, she chose one and had one spectacular night of orgasms with him and has never stopped since. I love her so much and am so damn proud and happy for her. That was a long time and lots of guys ago but it never gets old.
We started talking about it heavily about this time last year. I sent her a podcast to listen to about “finding Cuckolding on his phone” from Venus. Naturally her first thought was that I wanted someone else which wasn’t the case. It took her a good bit of listening and doing her own research to agree to entertain the idea at all. We would listen to podcasts and talk and role play and talk nasty. About maybe August she started sexting with a guy a good bit and it took me some time to really adjust to that. I don’t think it was that I was jealous about what they talked about, but about how much time he had to do it. Then around September after talking to our first cuckold couple friends we decided to make an AFF account. Maybe this is September or early October. We talked to several. As some have said, a lot of creepy ones, many that deactivated, one or two no shows, and then we finally hit on an older gentleman that she liked. One thing I realized is that she wants to talk back and forth a little bit and then try to meet in person. She says ans I agree, If you talk long enough, their personality will come out for good or bad, and several disqualified themselves just by this alone. One or two very dismissive to me. One or two that couldn’t really carry on a conversation about anything other than sex. Some have said that AFF isn’t really the right place for a cuckold couple to be looking and maybe it isn’t. But we finally had our first play date in January so about 9 months maybe? I think patience is key. I think talking is key. I think had we of rushed it, it wouldn’t have been as good as I think had we of picked the wrong guy, I might not have liked it as much. I think had we of rushed it I might have reacted differently too. I think there was a period where I was maybe not as ready as I thought. I think my wife sensed this and led us in this and it happened when she knew we were solid and she knew it wouldn’t negatively impact us as a couple.
I guess for the guys or bulls reading this. I know it has to be a pain for the whole “courting” process to take this long, like ours, and you can’t help but wonder if you’re just being catfished and I’m sure many times you are, but with us, we have such a limited opportunity to play, so we have to be sure it’s right, and than the chemistry is there, and we try to figure out how to strike the balance of talking and showing interest and not making someone feel like they’re just being led along. Like with us, it happened in January, then they got a chance to play a couple weeks ago when she went for a business meeting, and that’s been it. We’ve been talking to another guy and working to meet him, but it’s tough making schedules all come together.
I guess for the guys or bulls reading this. I know it has to be a pain for the whole “courting” process to take this long, like ours, and you can’t help but wonder if you’re just being catfished and I’m sure many times you are, but with us, we have such a limited opportunity to play, so we have to be sure it’s right, and than the chemistry is there, and we try to figure out how to strike the balance of talking and showing interest and not making someone feel like they’re just being led along. Like with us, it happened in January, then they got a chance to play a couple weeks ago when she went for a business meeting, and that’s been it. We’ve been talking to another guy and working to meet him, but it’s tough making schedules all come together.
We exchanged wedding vows around 4:00 PM on June 11, 1972. About 24 hours later, on June 12, 1972, in our hotel room on the island of Barbados, my bride not only took one Black stranger's cock in her recently married pussy, but five of them. Along with millions of Black baby-makers. The interracial fucking and breeding continued during the remaining six days of our honeymoon. As she had planned and calculated, she began to ovulate on the second day of the honeymoon. Her desire to be Black impregnated was confirmed six weeks after our return from the honeymoon, with conception calculated to have occurred during the seven days of our honeymoon. Nine months after the honeymoon, she gave birth to the first of her seven dark-skinned, interracial babies.
It should be noted that during our 51-year NBWO marriage, neither my tiny white dick (1.5") nor a single drop of my weak, watery white sperm has entered my wife's pussy/womb.
It should be noted that during our 51-year NBWO marriage, neither my tiny white dick (1.5") nor a single drop of my weak, watery white sperm has entered my wife's pussy/womb.
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That sounds bad. i feel for you two.
wildmarvin
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