Have you ever watched porn with him? No. I am not into it and he thinks porn "ruins the enjoyment of sex." Porn is just so fake that I can't ever get into it... it just makes me feel uncomfortable lol (I feel like can get more turned on by seeing a picture of someone I know and find attractive naked than I ever could by any porn on the internet)
Have you ever shared fantasies with him? When we first started dating I did a little (they were mostly about having sex in "crazy" places lol BUT he doesn't really want to do dirty talking and sex stuff because he wrestles with having sex and being sexual and thinking all of that stuff should be saved for marriage. But he WANTS that stuff... he just has better willpower and self-control than I do? So, he tends shut down fantasy or dirty talk... it might be okay during the random times we have sex but as soon as he gets his "post
clarity" he doesn't want to hear about anything.
I DO know that one of his fantasies was a threesome back when we first started dating and I am pretty comfortable in saying it still is one of his... we discussed it one time for like 30 minutes though and he made a compelling case for why he would only ever be into a threesome with two girls and never a girl and a guy lol.
BUT I told him I had experimented once with a my best (girl) friend growing up once and I am pretty sure he almost dumped me L O L. He is like "threesome where the girls both focus on me not where they do stuff to each other."
He is very particular about what he is into and can be obnoxiously hard headed.
Well I Just TMI'd more than I ever meant to do online so byyyeeeeee