Yeah, but its still just rubber/plastic and idk if I could mentally really get into that.
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Yeah, that's true it's nothing like a real guy. Would you consider hanging out with a black guy in a video call, like on snapchat? Just a flirty/sexy videocall
Possibly? but idk I feel like I would be really awkward talking to someone I don't know on one of those things lol
Have you ever watched porn with him? Have you ever shared fantasies with him? I think that every guy is turned on by watching his girl watching porn with him. Chances are pretty good that he will be into threesomes. After a few random videos make sure that you get to watch one about sharing the girl with another man (hopefully with a BBC) and let him know how hot it makes you. Show him how horny it makes you!
Why do you think you should tell him, if you haven't done anything? Because everyone in a relationship is going to have an eye wander once in a while.
Have you ever watched porn with him? No. I am not into it and he thinks porn "ruins the enjoyment of sex." Porn is just so fake that I can't ever get into it... it just makes me feel uncomfortable lol (I feel like can get more turned on by seeing a picture of someone I know and find attractive naked than I ever could by any porn on the internet)
Have you ever shared fantasies with him? When we first started dating I did a little (they were mostly about having sex in "crazy" places lol BUT he doesn't really want to do dirty talking and sex stuff because he wrestles with having sex and being sexual and thinking all of that stuff should be saved for marriage. But he WANTS that stuff... he just has better willpower and self-control than I do? So, he tends shut down fantasy or dirty talk... it might be okay during the random times we have sex but as soon as he gets his "post
clarity" he doesn't want to hear about anything.
I DO know that one of his fantasies was a threesome back when we first started dating and I am pretty comfortable in saying it still is one of his... we discussed it one time for like 30 minutes though and he made a compelling case for why he would only ever be into a threesome with two girls and never a girl and a guy lol.
BUT I told him I had experimented once with a my best (girl) friend growing up once and I am pretty sure he almost dumped me L O L. He is like "threesome where the girls both focus on me not where they do stuff to each other."
He is very particular about what he is into and can be obnoxiously hard headed.
Well I Just TMI'd more than I ever meant to do online so byyyeeeeee
Have you ever shared fantasies with him? When we first started dating I did a little (they were mostly about having sex in "crazy" places lol BUT he doesn't really want to do dirty talking and sex stuff because he wrestles with having sex and being sexual and thinking all of that stuff should be saved for marriage. But he WANTS that stuff... he just has better willpower and self-control than I do? So, he tends shut down fantasy or dirty talk... it might be okay during the random times we have sex but as soon as he gets his "post
clarity" he doesn't want to hear about anything. I DO know that one of his fantasies was a threesome back when we first started dating and I am pretty comfortable in saying it still is one of his... we discussed it one time for like 30 minutes though and he made a compelling case for why he would only ever be into a threesome with two girls and never a girl and a guy lol.
BUT I told him I had experimented once with a my best (girl) friend growing up once and I am pretty sure he almost dumped me L O L. He is like "threesome where the girls both focus on me not where they do stuff to each other."
He is very particular about what he is into and can be obnoxiously hard headed.
Well I Just TMI'd more than I ever meant to do online so byyyeeeeee
Why do I think I should tell him what?
About the fantasies you had recently. Just to be honest? Unless you're planning on pursuing them, why bother telling him? About those dreams etc.
I never said I was going to tell him. We don't talk about that stuff and I would definitely never tell him about any of the thoughts/dreams over the past month no matter what happens. (And I am not saying anything will!)
The willpower that you speak of is probably because he has taken care of himself by masterbating. The post nut clarity and him wanting a threesome with both girls focusing on just him is pure selfishness on his part. You said that you don't think that you have ever had an orgasm. That is not fair. He should see to it that you are satisfied too with his fingers, tongue, penis, and or toys too.Have you ever watched porn with him? No. I am not into it and he thinks porn "ruins the enjoyment of sex." Porn is just so fake that I can't ever get into it... it just makes me feel uncomfortable lol (I feel like can get more turned on by seeing a picture of someone I know and find attractive naked than I ever could by any porn on the internet)
Have you ever shared fantasies with him? When we first started dating I did a little (they were mostly about having sex in "crazy" places lol BUT he doesn't really want to do dirty talking and sex stuff because he wrestles with having sex and being sexual and thinking all of that stuff should be saved for marriage. But he WANTS that stuff... he just has better willpower and self-control than I do? So, he tends shut down fantasy or dirty talk... it might be okay during the random times we have sex but as soon as he gets his "post
I DO know that one of his fantasies was a threesome back when we first started dating and I am pretty comfortable in saying it still is one of his... we discussed it one time for like 30 minutes though and he made a compelling case for why he would only ever be into a threesome with two girls and never a girl and a guy lol.
BUT I told him I had experimented once with a my best (girl) friend growing up once and I am pretty sure he almost dumped me L O L. He is like "threesome where the girls both focus on me not where they do stuff to each other."
He is very particular about what he is into and can be obnoxiously hard headed.
Well I Just TMI'd more than I ever meant to do online so byyyeeeeee
It is natural sel, my dear 
your instincts are kicking in.
Your bf should be black and you look soo fucking hot
your instincts are kicking in.
Your bf should be black and you look soo fucking hot
oh yeah he masturbates like 3 times a day lol but i mean it isn't like i don't enjoy when we have sex I have just never had an orgasm how i have heard other women and friends describe them
where are you base?oh yeah he masturbates like 3 times a day lol but i mean it isn't like i don't enjoy when we have sex I have just never had an orgasm how i have heard other women and friends describe them
Some thing I haven't seen any one ask. Do you and BF live together? You both have talked of marriage according to your post. Your young my wife and I were married at 18. she missed out and a lot IMO. So in our mid to late 20's we had a couple of mfm 3 sums. it really helped us in the sex department.
Some thing we use to do when we were first married is read penthouse forum story's (this was way before the internet) you can now find erotic story's on line. i know a great site for those
my only advise is go with your feelings sounds to me that you need to experience great sex some times another mad can show that to you
Some thing we use to do when we were first married is read penthouse forum story's (this was way before the internet) you can now find erotic story's on line. i know a great site for those
my only advise is go with your feelings sounds to me that you need to experience great sex some times another mad can show that to you
We do not live together. He lives about an hour away from where I live with his family still. (To save $$ and work for his family's business) he has actually only been to my place once because his family has a HUGE house and a pool and amazing property and I have my own room when I stay so its just a way better setting than my little apartment.
We have discussed marriage but that is still a few years down the line.
Oh girl go out with the guy thats texting you see what its like . You don't have to have sex make him work for it
Well, my photographer friend is wanting to use that guy and a few other guys from the last 2 shoots and me (along with another girl) for 2 shoots this weekend so we will all be together again and they are wanting me to go out with them after (we are in a group chat now lol) and even my own bf is telling me I should go out and have a good weekend instead of being a boring recluse and staying at home like I usually do on weekends
But I am very hesitant to do ANY of that stuff.
