Same here. She was sucking BBC’s for a few years before I found out. I was hurt and slightly jealous but we reached an understanding and entered into this lifestyle 30 years ago.
Has your wife cheated before?
Wow! You both are fucking sexy hot. I would cheat to have sex with both of you.
That's a great story and it sounds like your marriage has turned into a wonderful marriage
I think maybe. Could be possibly now.
Thank you and yes it has. It’s not all easy but neither was monogamy. Sex is a very big part of my wife’s makeup and I fell woefully short. Not ok how she went about it but everything happens for a reason. If anything, knowing and seeing what I have of my wife makes her that much more attractive.
Fast Mitsubish
Male
Yes
Yes she has. Many times, it's how I became cuckold
Even after 20 yrs of cheating I got on board with sharing with a few common rules.
She would lye, make up false reasons. I was ner allowed to be even in the hookup in anyway, It had to be a private thing.
That was her undoing after seeing the real her in her in professional manor about sex acts, I played her to see her different personalities. After 27 years I released her back into the wild!!
Sorry to hear. It never happened to me, but I have to admit that since becoming a cuckold it has become an actual fantasy of mine.
Yes I'll tell you, when you never thought your wife would step outside the marriage, and then you find out about her sneaking around, it is quite a blow. It took a while to recover. But now that I know about her doing it, it wouldn't be as much of a surprise if it happened again, and also, I've just taken the approach that we both have license to do what we want. Not so much like an open marriage, but similar I guess.
When I was dating my wife, after it had gotten serious and we were supposed to be exclusive, I had stayed at her apartment one night. She had gotten up and went to work the next morning and I was getting up and around. I wanted to leave her a note so I got into her nightstand beside the bed to look of she had a pen and paper. I was moving stuff around and in the very back of the drawer I found a box of XXL Magnum condoms. It was a 12 pack box and only a couple were missing. I had been using condoms with her up until recently but I always brought my own. I just figured they were from a previous relationship and she had forgotten they were there. I didn't think much about it.
Anyway the next weekend I stayed over again. We fucked and we're getting ready to go out to the club so she was in the shower. The box of condoms came to mind so I got in her drawer to look at them, and this time there was only 4 left in the box. A significant amount of them had been used since last weekend when I checked. Till this day obe never told her I found them. I do know that she has cheated since we were dating and for the first several years of our marriage until we openly got in the lifestyle, which was her idea.
This was all confirmed to me by her best friend.
Anyway the next weekend I stayed over again. We fucked and we're getting ready to go out to the club so she was in the shower. The box of condoms came to mind so I got in her drawer to look at them, and this time there was only 4 left in the box. A significant amount of them had been used since last weekend when I checked. Till this day obe never told her I found them. I do know that she has cheated since we were dating and for the first several years of our marriage until we openly got in the lifestyle, which was her idea.
This was all confirmed to me by her best friend.
Fast Mitsubish
Male
She needed her BBC
Indeed she did. I later learned it was 2 different black guys she was working with.
I can sympathize with you on this. My wife and I were only married a little over a year; she was all lovey, dovey and kept telling me how happy she was to be married to me, but she was in the middle of a raging affair with a black lover. I trusted her when I should have been suspicious. She got pregnant by him, confessed and divorced me to go live with him. I was crushed and have found it the most traumatic event of my life.
He loaded her up huh? I'm surprised he's didn't bail on her.
My gf I know she still fuck her ex.....but can't say anything...I love her ......
Some women the word love means ownership, will say it to keep you blind, and use you. Thaks cool you're into it.
But You deserve respect for your love or you will lose self respect and confidence, next is no hard on.
But a lasting relationship is honesty, should be nothing can't be said between you including goodby.
Anything you wouldn't say or do that you wouldn't do in front of each other is cheating. Once a cheater always a cheater. thats gospel.
But as this thread says their are a few that got past it and have stronger bond, I'll bet honesty is big part if it.
Hate to be a Debie downer but I wish someone would have told me 45 years ago. probably wouldn't of listened.
These are Words of Earnest. Decide how you want to live. Happiness is the goal.
Ok back to perving, Colby say it's hotter if he knows such as he's in the room, house, come pick her up or knows but not up for it, as random cheatin, EX would shitcan you if you had 11 x 6 her goal. it had to be her secret in her mind, a stranger was best.
Have your feelings towards that initial cheating experience changed? I feel like those powerful emotions could lead to some interesting fantasies with cuckold angst, humiliation, and feelings of inferiority towards the sexually superior bull (at least that's how it would be for me).
Yes, the feelings have certainly changed. I accepted it, fully, and that's when I started to embrace the idea of her fucking black guys. It's obviously something she had missed from her past, and I obviously wasn't fulfilling her needs. It led us to where we are now, the hurt feeling have given way to understanding and excitement for us.
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