My wife cheated from start some 15 years ago. When i first caught her (with her second lover i leaned later) i was very angry at first, had a big fight. I the evening we had make up sex, was amazing all i thought about was her and him. ( saw photos they send to each other). She promised not to do it again but she did, and i confronted her about it.
She stopped seeing him but i was always suspiscous, was worse being lied to then cheated on. I read her phon in secret andknew she had lovers, long term mostly. I knew about most of them, but didnt confront her content reading messages in secret. She had a lover before we got our fist kid i know she met him after as well. But after the calmed down she had a period fo about 6-7 years she didnt cheat what i know about.
For about 2,5 hal yea ago she started again, i caught her early talking in the phone with him, a friend of ours. I noticed and she admitted she had cheated again. I demnaded to be apart of it she had to tell me evrything, get to watch now and then and she could meet him alone alse.
Now i get to watch she tells me stuff and he tells me stuff, i am saitisfied with that.