Picture?So I convinced my wife to dress sexy in public and wear a QOS anklet charm, she is an athletic redhead but no black dudes hit on her....how do we make it more obvious?...I suggested getting help while trying on shoes
I would hit on you for sure MargaritaeasyI know I love being "hit on" in public. It makes me feel desirable, does wonders for my ego and self esteem. Unfortunately it doesn't nearly happen enough.
That was a decent and thoughtful response, I appreciate itIn my opinion you also have to have some sort of social skills to be able to land a bull. Black men aren’t some monolithic robot sex machines. They’re people and require respect and kindness. More than a few couples have come to my groups gatherings and walked away disappointed because all the guys didn’t immediately “act” like what the couples fantasy was. Also, husbands need to back off a bit (my opinion) let people ******* and flirt and dance. Don’t helicopter if a fella starts talking to your lady. #DontMakeItWeird
For all the brave talk, most men, including black men, are not comfortable hitting on a married woman if her husband is near. Never know when some whack hubby will go ballistic. So when you see a highly desirable guy (and he def will have already noticed you in those slutty clothes}, hubby takes a walk and wifey flirts. If she's desperately horny, have her approach him.
Encourage your wife to be more flirty and outgoingSo I convinced my wife to dress sexy in public and wear a QOS anklet charm, she is an athletic redhead but no black dudes hit on her....how do we make it more obvious?...I suggested getting help while trying on shoes
Crazy as hell not me. Let me see yo ass walk by me.Many men are not confident enough to hit on beautiful women.
I don't blame guy's bro this is a different generation where MEN are no longer loved or respected due to #metoo movement and feminism so more guys are stepping away from hollering at females because dudes ain't trying to catch a CASE! Everything was great with dating and pick up until 05' and now in 2020 with all of these FALSE ALLEGATIONS going around men threading carefully. Especially as a Blackman it's 10x worse for approaching females now.You really would be surpriaed of howmany times she has gone into a beachbor anywhere else where she could be half naked. And, no guy makes a move.
FactsI don't blame guy's bro this is a different generation where MEN are no longer loved or respected due to #metoo movement and feminism so more guys are stepping away from hollering at females because dudes ain't trying to catch a CASE! Everything was great with dating and pick up until 05' and now in 2020 with all of these FALSE ALLEGATIONS going around men threading carefully. Especially as a Blackman it's 10x worse for approaching females now.
Well, I understand. But, we were in Brazil. So, I "released" Megan into the wild by herself. She was looking gorgeous with her Brazilian bikini. Also, she loves to smile to anyone who smiles at her. The beach was full of men of different races. Shebwalked for miles. Not a single guy attempted to approach her. My conclusion is that many people disregard fantastic opportunities, to the point where they dont even perceive them, because they are really convinced that they don't deserve it.I don't blame guy's bro this is a different generation where MEN are no longer loved or respected due to #metoo movement and feminism so more guys are stepping away from hollering at females because dudes ain't trying to catch a CASE! Everything was great with dating and pick up until 05' and now in 2020 with all of these FALSE ALLEGATIONS going around men threading carefully. Especially as a Blackman it's 10x worse for approaching females now.
Oh ok I got ya its different there bro...But remember it depends if they are attracted to her also.Well, I understand. But, we were in Brazil. So, I "released" Megan into the wild by herself. She was looking gorgeous with her Brazilian bikini. Also, she loves to smile to anyone who smiles at her. The beach was full of men of different races. Shebwalked for miles. Not a single guy attempted to approach her. My conclusion is that many people disregard fantastic opportunities, to the point where they dont even perceive them, because they are really convinced that they don't deserve it.