Meeting an unsuspecting hotwife

[tl5000]

My GF is open to the idea of trying a BBC. She's has no problem wearing QOS branded clothing in public, but nobody approached. She's 100% against finding someone online, and doesn't even like the idea of setting up a tinder profile. But she says she'd totally love a black guy coming up to her in public at a bar, mall, restaurant, etc. However, she said she's a little picky and not just going to sleep with any black guy that approaches her. There has to be an attraction.

I've messaged a few local guys on here and on reddit that would love the chance to 'bump into her' in public and make it seem completely random. My question is, how would a guy respond if she ends up not finding him attractive? Would they be ok and willing to accept that? I don't want them to feel like we're wasting their time. Thoughts? Am I making this into and issue when there isn't one?

 

[NicholeB]

I would say your best way forward is to make a friend who’s a black man. Spend time with it. Don’t just spring it on her. Get to where she feels comfortable having him over in your home. Then you can begin discussing having her be approached by him. This is what my ex husband did and I felt very comfortable exploring his fantasy for him.

 

[bigfly99]

My GF is open to the idea of trying a BBC. She's has no problem wearing QOS branded clothing in public, but nobody approached. She's 100% against finding someone online, and doesn't even like the idea of setting up a tinder profile. But she says she'd totally love a black guy coming up to her in public at a bar, mall, restaurant, etc. However, she said she's a little picky and not just going to sleep with any black guy that approaches her. There has to be an attraction.

I've messaged a few local guys on here and on reddit that would love the chance to 'bump into her' in public and make it seem completely random. My question is, how would a guy respond if she ends up not finding him attractive? Would they be ok and willing to accept that? I don't want them to feel like we're wasting their time. Thoughts? Am I making this into and issue when there isn't one?

Take her to a lifestyle party in your area that has a lot of black guys. Let her just watch for a little while and see how she responds. At some point ask her if this is something she'd like to participate in. Have her pick out a guy she's attracted to, and then you go approach the guy and explain what your wife wants. If she doesn't want to play in front of strangers, rent a hotel room beforehand and invite the black guy to join you there.
I guarantee you that when she feels the lifestyle party vibe and hears the moans and groans of the ladies and sees the full-sized equipment some of the guests are packing, she will definitely want to join in.

 

[Pcrook]

My GF is open to the idea of trying a BBC. She's has no problem wearing QOS branded clothing in public, but nobody approached. She's 100% against finding someone online, and doesn't even like the idea of setting up a tinder profile. But she says she'd totally love a black guy coming up to her in public at a bar, mall, restaurant, etc. However, she said she's a little picky and not just going to sleep with any black guy that approaches her. There has to be an attraction.

I've messaged a few local guys on here and on reddit that would love the chance to 'bump into her' in public and make it seem completely random. My question is, how would a guy respond if she ends up not finding him attractive? Would they be ok and willing to accept that? I don't want them to feel like we're wasting their time. Thoughts? Am I making this into and issue when there isn't one?

That should be a mager accepting factor! Now if she doesn't find them attractive then it must be stated! If the guy or girl don't want to accept it then they are not the right person for you to begin with! The whole thing is respectful and those who are not following the guidelines then he or she does not belong inside your circle or in the lifestyle to begin with!

 

[Pcrook]

I would say your best way forward is to make a friend who’s a black man. Spend time with it. Don’t just spring it on her. Get to where she feels comfortable having him over in your home. Then you can begin discussing having her be approached by him. This is what my ex husband did and I felt very comfortable exploring his fantasy for him.

Yes very good advice

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

I would say your best way forward is to make a friend who’s a black man. Spend time with it. Don’t just spring it on her. Get to where she feels comfortable having him over in your home. Then you can begin discussing having her be approached by him. This is what my ex husband did and I felt very comfortable exploring his fantasy for him.

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