For the husbands.

Actually, it DOES mean he's a cuck. Textbook. The suggestion that it doesn't is a flagrant t disregard for the purpose of language and communication. I hate to get all specific with language and all, but, in truth, it is the very definition of a cuckold. We can't just throw words in the trash because the may be unflattering. Simple truth: If your wife has sex with other men, you know about it and don't take action AGAINST her, You are, IN FACT, a cuckold. Quit bitching about labels.
Is "cuck" a dirty word? Ok, it's not a word, but we get it. Like it or not, by definition, you are a cuckold ("cuck") if your wife is having sex with other men and you accept it.

My wife has cuckolded me. She takes greater offense at that word than I do. She Tries to deny the genuine reality. It does not change the fact that she has cuckolded me. (See? that wasn't hard...To not make it ALL ABOUT ME and MY EGO)I accept (and even participate with) her having sex wtih other men.

If your wife fucks other men and you are aware of it and you allow it YOU ARE A CUCK! DO NOT allow anyone to tell you differently. If you are to this point, who CARES?!?

If you like seeing other men fuck your wife, YOU ARE A CUCKOLD. It is a hard and fast definition, it is NOT open to interpretation. Do not let some asshole who avails himself of the status convince you that it's not true. If you are, in fact, a cuckold, LIKE I AM, , just put your false pride on a shelf and enjoy. It's 2017. I think it's silly to be "ashamed" of this "label".


You need to look up the term Stag, which have similar definition but without the caging a man's privates, or participating with the other male what so ever.
 
Husband here-
After reading this thread and my own personal thoughts considered with what has happened in the past... I know I am not one to consider myself a true cuckold. I do get turned on with certain aspects of what cucks do but that is not, by definition, me. Even my gorgeous wife would say as she has in the past that the stag/vixen title is more fitting for us. I am almost positive that there will be some emotions that are fighting within me but the love and desire I have for my wife is on a different level. We have spoke about rules and boundaries a little and I'm hopeful that those are not crossed as we BOTH agreed to them. The failed attempt that we had a few years back (mfm) not on our part, but the "friend" who we agreed on, hopefully proved that to my wife. I would literally do anything for my wife within reason and i think she's starting to realize that. Hopefully this turns out to be an experience that we look back on and enjoy.

I enjoyed your comments. What do you mean by doing anything for your wife within reason?
 
I enjoyed your comments. What do you mean by doing anything for your wife within reason?
Honestly... Part of our dynamic is that we do our best to talk about everything.. If she asked me to do something for her, generally she would get it. we know what each other is comfortable with and hopefully we don't try to push our luck to far unless its in good fun
 
I enjoyed your comments. What do you mean by doing anything for your wife within reason?
Neither one of us is into demeaning/degrading or making the other fell like less of a person. Honestly my biggest turn in its seeing her with someone else and she can attest to how "animalistic" (as she put it) I was after
 
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Neither one of us is into demeaning/degrading or making the other fell like less of a person. Honestly my biggest turn in its seeing her with someone else and she can attest to how "animalistic" (as she put it) I was after

Agreed, degrading and humiliating is not for us either. At some point putting someone in a position where they feel inferior will backfire.
 
Me personally, my immediate emotion is a depth of love and pride that is almost too hard to explain. I'm not too sure if I understand it myself, but there is definitely an element when they are fucking like wild animals and afterwards when its clean up time and my turn to fuck her, that I feel like the luckiest man in the world, to the point that I feel like my heart is going to explode.

But I have seen it go really bad on occasions as well, a couple of swingers nights and gang bangs, where the husbands say they are really into etc. until they actually see their wife climaxing for the very first time on another mans cock, or the guys is seconds from exploding in their wife and then hubby's not sure the want to go through with it and asking them to stop. Have seen some husbands really flip out in front of everyone once the stud has pumped his last drop into her, even with a condom on.

Even one couple who had never swung before, it was her very first time with another guy and she was pretty vanilla but hubby wanted to spice things up. Anyway, she got fucked by this really good looking guy and she just didn't stop cumming with him for about an hour, the hubby completely lost it and never wanted to swing again, but it was too late, the genie was out of the bottle, the wife wanted to keep swinging and they split and divorced within 6 months.
 
For my wife n I it was actually cool as fuck. I grew up in E. St. Louis. I had seen my buddies in the showers after practice or games..I knew they packed meat. My wife basically never heard any stories of the size of some black men.. I showed her some porn & she said it was fake..I bet her it wasn't. After a night out drinking & strip clubbing I picked up 1 of my buddies & told him to show her.. was cool to see her surprised at his size. We got a room & before we were inside she had it in her mouth.. I enjoyed the show. He fucked her mouth til he came.. we dropped him off & she sucked my cock inside out.. I would send her on errands to places they would run into each other. Each time she swallowed his load. She has since become a size queen & enjoys when I hook her up. Always by surprise that she doesn't ever complain about. How can someone be jealous of their best friend having a good time?
 
I watched my wife with lots of white guys, and frequently watched her be disappointed. So seeing her with other men was normal for me. Thirteen years ago I watched her with her first black man. I watched him walk into our hotel room and have her naked, legs in the air in less then 10 minutes. I watched as she had her first of many multiple squirting orgasms. I watched as he fucked her over a 5 hour period. I heard words coming out of her mouth like she was possessed. It was very intense and way beyond what I had imagined. I was so turned on seeing her as the slut that I had read about, seen amateur porn videos, and there she was, MY WIFE, being fucked and reacting like a whore in heat. I loved it and was very proud of her. When, over breakfast, she announced 'no more white penis' admittedly I was surprised that she was hooked after just one night. The other bigger surprise was when I asked if she wished she started earlier (she was 50), she said yes but she didn't think it would be good for our marriage if she started early on. After the first month of her going wild for more and more sex with black men, I started getting nervous and suggested stopping. Her one word answer of an emphatic "NO" said it all. In retrospect I am happy we did not stop because I love it as much as she does.

Bottom line, seeing her like this https://www.blacktowhite.net/media/gjune050017-jpg.141797/ is just so damn sexy!
 
We've yet to venture down this path but I can say that from the way I feel just talking to my wife about having a black lover I know the first few times I am going to feel every emotion their is. I am the somewhere between you spoke of.
Am I going to be jealous? I get a tad jealous at times just hearing my wife talk about black men so I certainly think it will happen if I watch her in bed with a black man. But I've thought this through and from an intellectual standpoint I understand that what I feel is unimportant versus how I react to my feelings. My wife even addressed this with me one night saying "you can't get jealous or mad at me afterwards once it's over."
We talked at length about me being able to actually see her in bed with a black man and I admitted I could feel a twinge of jealousy but that it was my problem to deal with and not hers. I was candid and said how could I not have that emotion at some point seeing you being taken by some well hung black man and hearing you in bed with him, it would be naive to believe otherwise.
On the other hand I know I am going to be more aroused than if it was me getting to make love to my wife. In fact I will be so excited I will probably orgasm before they ever get in bed. This excitement of seeing my wife make love to a black man will be the thing that helps me overcome any jealousy. I enjoy the idea she wants a hung black man to provide her sexual pleasure and is willing to allow me to watch and I do not want to screw that up.

Was it you or your wife that first suggested that she takes a black bull?
 
For you husbands that have actually had the pleasure of seeing your wife with a black man what emotions did you feel that first time? I've encountered many husbands who were consumed with jealousy and had a bad reaction even though they swore this was what they wanted. They wound up flipping out on their wives and she never ventured down this path again. I've also seen husbands who loved it from the very beginning. Of course you have many more who fall somewhere in between. So tell us, how did you feel/react the first time your wife did it?
I wrote about our first time and definitely felt one of few pangs of jealousy because of the incredible orgasm she had when she was with her first black guy. It was an incredible feeling - so excited for her yet feeling that anguish and then letting go and trusting her so deeply.

I also had this kind of anguish night the first time she stayed the night with her boyfriend...

 
Scared, horny and consumed by an overwhelming sense to worship her being. Ever since Krystal slowly cucked me, I honestly, can rarely get hard for another woman. Unless shes there for me to watch or get fluffed by, no other woman tingles my dick. Krystal ruined porn for me by being such a great hotwife. I do not post much but I feel as though this will be insightful for many "cucks" out there. This takes years to develope and the fun part is the ride so don't try to go to fast or figure everything out on the first go. Keep an open mind, have no expectations or you will be disappointed, enjoy your wife enjoying herself and realise it isnt about you until afterwards. You should be a fly on the wall when she has company, tell him to bring a six pack or some weed or he cant come over. Thats a good way to see if hes just a broke loser trying to score. We prefer guys who have their ******* together and are reliable for ongoing play since we like bareback. If you need any more pointers pm us and ask for Nico or if youre horny and want to talk to the Star of this show, ask for Krystal Lynn. She also has great tips for wives and cucks. Good luck to all and remember this is supposed to be fun not a chore.
 
Was it you or your wife that first suggested that she takes a black bull?


I did it after watching interracial porn. I started fantasizing about my wife being with a black man and it finally got to the point I was willing to admit to her I was doing it and asked if her if she would do it while I watched.
 
I did it after watching interracial porn. I started fantasizing about my wife being with a black man and it finally got to the point I was willing to admit to her I was doing it and asked if her if she would do it while I watched.

And what was her initial reaction?
 
Well she was calm but stunned that I would want her to sleep with a black man.

J was the exactly the same. I take her calmness as being a deep down willingness. You'd expect them to freak out and not speak to you ever again if they truly objected to the idea! ;)
 
For you husbands that have actually had the pleasure of seeing your wife with a black man what emotions did you feel that first time? I've encountered many husbands who were consumed with jealousy and had a bad reaction even though they swore this was what they wanted. They wound up flipping out on their wives and she never ventured down this path again. I've also seen husbands who loved it from the very beginning. Of course you have many more who fall somewhere in between. So tell us, how did you feel/react the first time your wife did it?

My heart pounds every time we talk about it and she asks more questions and wants to discuss it in more detail. Just the fact that she is considering it and thinking about it makes me nervous and excited as hell. I can't even begin to think how I'll be when it happens for real..
 
J was the exactly the same. I take her calmness as being a deep down willingness. You'd expect them to freak out and not speak to you ever again if they truly objected to the idea! ;)


I was scared the entire time because I though this might be a deal breaker or it could change her feelings towards me but she never once got upset. And you are right, now that I look back on it her response was one that indicated her own interest in sleeping with a black man. She eventually even admitted she had been curious about black men even during our marriage. I opened the door and she coyly walked through it.
 
My heart pounds every time we talk about it and she asks more questions and wants to discuss it in more detail. Just the fact that she is considering it and thinking about it makes me nervous and excited as hell. I can't even begin to think how I'll be when it happens for real..


Lol, my heart races too because it is stunning to know my wife wants to be with a well hung black man even though she is a faithful wife to me.
 
For you husbands that have actually had the pleasure of seeing your wife with a black man what emotions did you feel that first time? I've encountered many husbands who were consumed with jealousy and had a bad reaction even though they swore this was what they wanted. They wound up flipping out on their wives and she never ventured down this path again. I've also seen husbands who loved it from the very beginning. Of course you have many more who fall somewhere in between. So tell us, how did you feel/react the first time your wife did it?
This is easy for me. I have been watching Robin fucking black men for 20 years now. I have absolutly loved every minute of seeing her with black men from the start and it never ever gets old. Each time shes with a black man its like a new adventure for me....maybe its a new BBC shes fucking.....a different setting.....his place..a new hotel/motel....out in public....maybe shes fucking more than 1 BBC.....an IR hotel party where shes 1 of several white women fucking black men....each BBC does her differently....so many different scenerios that make each BBC fuck session new and exciting for me. The only emotion i feel is extreme excitement when I see Robin fucking black men and knowing how much shes enjoying fucking him/them.
 
For you husbands that have actually had the pleasure of seeing your wife with a black man what emotions did you feel that first time? I've encountered many husbands who were consumed with jealousy and had a bad reaction even though they swore this was what they wanted. They wound up flipping out on their wives and she never ventured down this path again. I've also seen husbands who loved it from the very beginning. Of course you have many more who fall somewhere in between. So tell us, how did you feel/react the first time your wife did it?
I can see how a white husband would have those kind negative of feelings upon seeing their wife screwing a black man/men the first time. Before I shared my wife I was incredibly turned on by the idea. Once it happened, I was surprised how it went down and how much she enjoyed it. I was overwhelmed with jealousy and fear while still being unbelievably turned on at the same time.
 
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