Well Black2White, we can report success! Last night the wife went out on her first date with a guy we met on FetLife, he has an account here too but for his privacy I won't link it. Nothing physical happened, this was just a meet and get to know each other date, and no I didn't go with, it was just the two of them. She was incredibly nervous getting there, but said she had a great time! They went out to eat then went to play some pool, she said she was blushing the entire time as he told her how he'd love to bend her over the pool table in front of everyone at the bar and let them watch her be a slut. She also said how he felt her up on the ride over, making her super wet, and she felt him up too, describing at as, "OMG it was SO HARD." Don't know when they'll meet again, but I'll be sure to share whatever details I can. Just wanted to say thank you to everyone for all the comments of encouragement, the pm's, and those of you who kik'd with her and gave her the confidence she needed to take this step!