It wasn't planned. I had arranged for a well hung bbc for my wife's birthday. We had agreed that condoms would be used. The first time a condom was used. As they were laying recouping, he started playing with her breasts. Then, he rolled on top and started rubbing is cock vigorously on her clit and entrance to her pussy. Soon, she was begging for him to put it in. He did what he was asked. He slid in bareback and 30-40 minutes there was our first interracial creampie.
What`s the use in agreeing
"that condoms would be used" when you subsequently don`t use them? The important questions are
1.
why do you prearrange something?, and
2.
have conditions changed when you decide not to keep them?
It is well understood that a woman in heat loses control easily. That`s one of the more important reasons the husband (or boyfriend) should be present, especially in case the wife/girlfriend plays with a stranger. ImO it is the husband`s/boyfriend`s
duty to protect his woman and keep her from harm as good as he can. Putting a wife/gf at risk of infections with STDs is
his failure to protect her.
Okay, well, from the way you write about it i guess that you`d been lucky and nothing too bad has happened to your wife and you. If i`m right here, i`m happy for you two.
Yet, i find it important to stress the obvious: Noone willingly chooses a life in need for taking care of a limiting health condition each and every day of it; Noone willingly chooses a life of prevailing self-reproach just because of one night.
A husband may be a sissy, if that`s the role he takes on. But in a lifestyle that is characterized as
safe,
sane and con
sensual, he can never be a wimp! (for the sake of the couple)
I did it because I wanted to. Wife doesn't know yet. I would agree I am likely orally bi
"likely orally bi" is another way to say "gay". No problem with that at all. The only pity is that you don`t include your own wife in your adventures (yet). Cheer up & all the best!