Do you still love your husband?

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MarriedWhite said:
My husband and I are much closer than we were before we started this and I love him more than I ever thought possible. We have been involved as a COUPLE from the beginning and that will never change. Humiliation, embarrassing comments or insulting remarks are never a part of what we do. The men we meet are an addition to, not a replacement for, which isn't always what we see on here. We never judge others and '..to each his own..' is our operating philosophy.
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Very well articulated. Congratulations on your fantastic relationship.
 
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VictorCharlie said:
We didn't come to this place due to an inadequacy in our sex life, so maybe that makes a difference. He has always been a great lover. I've grown more in love with him through this process. Seeing how sexy he finds me through his description of his fantasy. Seeing his confidence and strength while watching me with no fear or jealousy. It makes he hot and cherish him even more. So yes, I LOVE my husband.
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So pleased to hear that it's working out fine for you and your hubby. Cherish what you have. Congrats!
 
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Cutewife said:
I still love him even if he doesn’t penetrate me anymore.
The relationship of course is changed since I knew him many years ago, but I am very grateful he has guided me into this different kind of relationship.
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@Cutewife, why doesn't your husband penetrate you? I understand the concept of polyandry, but why a husband or boyfriend would stop having sex with their SO is beyond me. Of course, medical reasons are the exemption.
 
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Yes of course! He is supportive and amazing. Can't say I love him more, as I felt comfortable telling him I wanted to get into the lifestyle and that says a lot.

For all the wannabes that like to fantasize about your wife treating you like garbage all the time and thinking of them as wimps, that's fine in fantasy I guess. In real life though I can't see that really working.
If you had the flu or a loved one died you wouldn't want your wife to treat you with contempt. And no wife wants a wimp hubby when it comes time negotiate the price of a new car or get ahead at work.
Just my opinion.
 
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Jane34mwf said:
Yes of course! He is supportive and amazing. Can't say I love him more, as I felt comfortable telling him I wanted to get into the lifestyle and that says a lot.

For all the wannabes that like to fantasize about your wife treating you like garbage all the time and thinking of them as wimps, that's fine in fantasy I guess. In real life though I can't see that really working.
If you had the flu or a loved one died you wouldn't want your wife to treat you with contempt. And no wife wants a wimp hubby when it comes time negotiate the price of a new car or get ahead at work.
Just my opinion.
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That is exactly my experience as well. My husband is a wonderful man and we are true soulmates. He understands that the sex I enjoy with my lover doesn't diminish my deep love for him.
 
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MacNfries said:
Of course they do ... they're getting their cake and eating it too ... family support while they go fuck around. Nice arrangement!
..... I wonder how many of these ladies would STILL love their husbands IF their hubbies started seeing other women and having sex with them?
Women tend to NOT like sharing their men with other women. But, a little reality check or KARMA would be most beneficial as a reminder of them favorable arrangement they have.
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First let me say, I’ve always found your posts to be very intelligent, interesting and insightful.

Having said that, while many couples may fit your description, I know MANY that don’t.

I love my husband more today than I did the day we married. Our marriage has evolved in many areas including our sex life. He is absolutely my soulmate and very best friend.

Our sexuality is something that most can’t understand. We are very active in this lifestyle, but continue to play in the “swinging” lifestyle as well. I find it very erotic to watch my husband play with another woman. We don’t don’t do that as often because it seems like it’s much more challenging to find a couple that we are both into. But we still play with couples.

Ultimately, what we have learned, is that every couple and every person have their own unique sexual appetite. We have met many people and couples that are “into” many different things. While things used to shock us sometimes, they really don’t anymore! :)
 
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IowaFunCouple said:
First let me say, I’ve always found your posts to be very intelligent, interesting and insightful.
.....I love my husband more today than I did the day we married. Our marriage has evolved in many areas including our sex life. He is absolutely my soulmate and very best friend.
.....I find it very erotic to watch my husband play with another woman. We don’t do that as often because it seems like it’s much more challenging to find a couple that we are both into. But we still play with couples.
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re: I’ve always found your posts to be very intelligent, interesting and insightful.
Now HOW could one take offense to such a great compliment. Thank you, and I do mean that.

"Soulmate" ... I posted a nice piece on that in these forums a few years ago ... If I find the time, I'll see if I located it for you. If more relationships were formed around finding their soulmates, there'd be so fewer couple breakups, wouldn't there. And its interesting and hard to explain, but identifying your soulmate is difficult to put a finger on, at least initially ... but, you know when you've found them, as both of you are in tune with each other and like what the other likes, almost down to a "T". With my wife of 20 years, we actually wake up in the mornings at the same exact time, even when we're far apart from each other ... have the same ideas (movies, eating out, ordering IN, etc) at the same time ... you're just totally in tune with your soulmate. Nice to see others who really know about soulmates.
My wife says a lot of women are different than men when it comes to "spouse sharing" because women understand women and some of their more devious plannings. That said, we do mostly threesomes, both MMF & FFM when we swing. My wife isn't bisexual, and I'm definitely hetro, myself, but we had a great relationship with a younger woman we met at our restaurant, Outback. Our ******* were pre-school then, and when we showed her pictures of our ******* she showed a real interest in them, saying IF we ever needed a babysitter, she'd love to babysit them. So, we did, and our 3-some romance developed. She was a drop dead gorgeous natural redhead ... and when I say we hit it off, it was a perfect relationship. She'd babysit, then after she put the ******* to bed, she'd join us in the "hospitality bed" ... watching two beautiful ladies go at each other was a treat I've never had since. We swung with her for 3 straight years until she graduated from college and moved back home.
Thanks for your response ... Mac (David to you)
 
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I love my husband. But one day we was watching a movie with a interracial seen and he said you think you can take a big black dick. I said are you crazy. I told him i will not cheat on you and and me it's not cheating that ill give you a hall pass. I said do you love me he yes that is why. Then he said if you love me you will do it and i did and he loves me more than before.
 
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Qosmd75 said:
I think most cuckold husbands created this lifestyle for their marriage so why compare"if the shoe was on the other foot"??
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I think it’s interesting that you said that. I’ve thought that before as well. Yet, our marriage is stronger more now than before. 25 years later he is still my best friend and I love and respect him very much.
 
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too hot said:
I love my husband. But one day we was watching a movie with a interracial seen and he said you think you can take a big black dick. I said are you crazy. I told him i will not cheat on you and and me it's not cheating that ill give you a hall pass. I said do you love me he yes that is why. Then he said if you love me you will do it and i did and he loves me more than before.
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nice couple
 
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advice4newbies said:
I do love my husband, but that love has changed over time. When we first met, I was 20 and he was older, dominant, and experienced. I craved him in a raw and primal way, in addition to loving our intellectual and emotional connection.

When he started sharing me, we both encountered men who were even more sexually dominant than he was, and frankly sexually superior overall. It was a turn-on for both of us, but it did change the dynamic between us.

It deepened our intellectual and emotional connection. After all, sharing requires a lot of self-awareness, communication, honesty and trust. And, we were both sharing something very intense, private, and intimate. These experiences have cemented us as life partners.

But, experiencing sexually superior men (and seeing my husband become more submissive / passive over time) has also reduced the raw, primal attraction I had for him. The lust I once felt for him is now reserved for well-hung black men.
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Very well said!
 
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