SaucySauce
Male
Are the feelings still the same? Do you think of him as lesser in any regards?
how long he is not entering in uI still love my husband. He does not enter me at all. He knows he can't satisfy me.
Very well articulated. Congratulations on your fantastic relationship.My husband and I are much closer than we were before we started this and I love him more than I ever thought possible. We have been involved as a COUPLE from the beginning and that will never change. Humiliation, embarrassing comments or insulting remarks are never a part of what we do. The men we meet are an addition to, not a replacement for, which isn't always what we see on here. We never judge others and '..to each his own..' is our operating philosophy.
So pleased to hear that it's working out fine for you and your hubby. Cherish what you have. Congrats!We didn't come to this place due to an inadequacy in our sex life, so maybe that makes a difference. He has always been a great lover. I've grown more in love with him through this process. Seeing how sexy he finds me through his description of his fantasy. Seeing his confidence and strength while watching me with no fear or jealousy. It makes he hot and cherish him even more. So yes, I LOVE my husband.
@Cutewife, why doesn't your husband penetrate you? I understand the concept of polyandry, but why a husband or boyfriend would stop having sex with their SO is beyond me. Of course, medical reasons are the exemption.I still love him even if he doesn’t penetrate me anymore.
The relationship of course is changed since I knew him many years ago, but I am very grateful he has guided me into this different kind of relationship.
Yes of course! He is supportive and amazing. Can't say I love him more, as I felt comfortable telling him I wanted to get into the lifestyle and that says a lot.
For all the wannabes that like to fantasize about your wife treating you like garbage all the time and thinking of them as wimps, that's fine in fantasy I guess. In real life though I can't see that really working.
If you had the flu or a loved one died you wouldn't want your wife to treat you with contempt. And no wife wants a wimp hubby when it comes time negotiate the price of a new car or get ahead at work.
Just my opinion.
Of course they do ... they're getting their cake and eating it too ... family support while they go fuck around. Nice arrangement!
..... I wonder how many of these ladies would STILL love their husbands IF their hubbies started seeing other women and having sex with them?
Women tend to NOT like sharing their men with other women. But, a little reality check or KARMA would be most beneficial as a reminder of them favorable arrangement they have.
re: I’ve always found your posts to be very intelligent, interesting and insightful.First let me say, I’ve always found your posts to be very intelligent, interesting and insightful.
.....I love my husband more today than I did the day we married. Our marriage has evolved in many areas including our sex life. He is absolutely my soulmate and very best friend.
.....I find it very erotic to watch my husband play with another woman. We don’t do that as often because it seems like it’s much more challenging to find a couple that we are both into. But we still play with couples.
The wife gets off on watching me with women too. So I guess she could be referred to as a cuckqueen. We like an even bigger laying field. Her being bi helps tooI think most cuckold husbands created this lifestyle for their marriage so why compare"if the shoe was on the other foot"??
That is exactly my experience as well. My husband is a wonderful man and we are true soulmates. He understands that the sex I enjoy with my lover doesn't diminish my deep love for him.
I think most cuckold husbands created this lifestyle for their marriage so why compare"if the shoe was on the other foot"??
nice coupleI love my husband. But one day we was watching a movie with a interracial seen and he said you think you can take a big black dick. I said are you crazy. I told him i will not cheat on you and and me it's not cheating that ill give you a hall pass. I said do you love me he yes that is why. Then he said if you love me you will do it and i did and he loves me more than before.
Very well said!I do love my husband, but that love has changed over time. When we first met, I was 20 and he was older, dominant, and experienced. I craved him in a raw and primal way, in addition to loving our intellectual and emotional connection.
When he started sharing me, we both encountered men who were even more sexually dominant than he was, and frankly sexually superior overall. It was a turn-on for both of us, but it did change the dynamic between us.
It deepened our intellectual and emotional connection. After all, sharing requires a lot of self-awareness, communication, honesty and trust. And, we were both sharing something very intense, private, and intimate. These experiences have cemented us as life partners.
But, experiencing sexually superior men (and seeing my husband become more submissive / passive over time) has also reduced the raw, primal attraction I had for him. The lust I once felt for him is now reserved for well-hung black men.
Lucky hubbyI still love him even if he doesn’t penetrate me anymore.
The relationship of course is changed since I knew him many years ago, but I am very grateful he has guided me into this different kind of relationship.
i think i will still love my husband.even i haven't been blacked yet.