Miss (shouldn`t it be Missus?) BBB (big-bottomed bitch),
It is important to find someone trustworthy even for a one-time thing and to set things clear FIRST.
Different people have different "intrinsic" expectations. To some a fuck is just that. Others think that once it has come past a certain point it has to mean some kind of relationship. If you haven`t talked about and agreed upon the boundaries beforehand, it will be much harder to convince than to just remind him of the agreement.
Does he even know you are married and there is a risk for you? Or does he just not care?
It is important to find someone trustworthy even for a one-time thing and to set things clear FIRST.
Different people have different "intrinsic" expectations. To some a fuck is just that. Others think that once it has come past a certain point it has to mean some kind of relationship. If you haven`t talked about and agreed upon the boundaries beforehand, it will be much harder to convince than to just remind him of the agreement.
Does he even know you are married and there is a risk for you? Or does he just not care?