Cuckolding becoming more common and acceptable

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by circusill, Jun 10, 2013.

  1. circusill

    circusill Active Member

    10 years ago it was a small niche fetish.

    Now 10 years later, its becoming more and more popular and common.

    All around the internet, I see real amateur videos of white wives having sex with big black men in front of their husbands.

    Wives are becoming more accepting of it. Pretty soon it's going to be a normal thing.
     
  2. OldSchoolPlayer25

    OldSchoolPlayer25 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    IT S A TROLL
     
  3. circusill

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    what are you guys talking about? Did someone else post something wrong? I didn't post any pics
     
  4. OldSchoolPlayer25

    OldSchoolPlayer25 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    No circuslll...the troll was rattling cages about kiddie porn on the site..just bs..stay cool..osp
     
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  5. Torpedo

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    I believe that this same posting has appeared on another thread. What is the nature of your malfunction? I don't see anything on this site that I would classify a kiddie porn. I have seem some stuff deleted by administrators but I didn't see what was deleted or why. You seem to be intent on blaming this site for things it is not. I suspect that you might be some pseudo-religious fanatic or you just like to make other people annoyed. If it is a religious thing one of the regular contributors is the son of a minister and he might have connections!:frantic:
     
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  6. Sissy4Blk

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    OMG I know...I mean the funny thing is it's always been a factor in sexual desires esspecially in america, I mean white men have always felt inferior to black men, it's common knowledge that they have bigger cocks, taller, and stronger bodies, and this mixed in with the heavy racial tension due to years of slavery and segregation has instilled a great deal of fear in white people, having once forced their black counterparts into serving them and degrading them, now the tables have turned and we are now being taken into sexual slavery by superior dominant black men...personally I've always known this and when I was younger I felt fear, anger, shame, inferior, helpless, but now I embrace because it's also true that even when feeling these feelings I was strangely arroused by my thoughts and upon meeting the internet found myself quikly unable to click on anything other than Big Black Cock, and of course you know the rest of the story lol
     
  7. cuckolded wimp

    cuckolded wimp Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Sissy, I agree with you, the cuckolding of us submissive and inadequate white bois, is to us arousing and what more and more of us think. That is that we want the best for our white, wives/g.f,s etc, and that in sex means letting the blackman take possession of (and willingly from both wives and husbands) own the whites.
    I know it doesn't sit well with some that "nobody should own another", but more and more white couples WANT TO BE OWNED BY THE SUPERIOR BLACKMAN. That is why cuckolding, by blackmen of white husbands is one of the fastest growing aspects of sexual behaviour
     
  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Well, someday people will realize that interracial sex has absolutely nothing to do with cuckolding ... why so many insist that it does is beyond those of us that know what cuckolding is.

    In its simpliest of definition as is possible, "a cuckold is a married man who's wife has sex with other men." Now, tell me, how can this possibly have anything remotely to do with interracial sex? The married woman might choose a black man, or chinese man, or midget, or even a aborigine as her alternative sex partner, but it won't make her husband any more or any less a cuckold. The fact that she has sex with someone other than her husband is all that is required to define a man as a cuckold.

    Since the popularity of the word seems to be growing, the definition of the work, cuckold, has been mutating into broader meanings ... for example, women are now defined as "being cuckolded" when their husbands cheat on them ... couples that are in supposedly monogomous, committed relatonships can cuckold each other by cheating and having sex with others behind their partner's back.
    Still, the race of the partner one cheats WITH has no bearing on whether one is defined as a cuckold or not.
    Why is this so hard to understand? Look the word UP ... show me any thesaurus definition that even mentions race in the definition of cuckolding ... just one thesaurus definition.
    It's like some people decide to redefine the meaning of a word simply for their own convenience ... its like calling a car a truck, or a cat a dog, or ... well, whatever. :rolleyes:
     
  9. Susan Stackpole

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    I think a lot of men, mostly white I would say have always had these desires. Through history there have been cuckolds and a lot of women have cheated on their husbands. I think it's a natural progression, when a woman can't get what she needs with her current partner they seek it with more alpha males. Even in nature this happens. Females want a mate to be a gatherer and provide for the family which usually are beta males but for her desires to be fulfilled she will naturally pick an alpha male.

    Due to society stigma most people suppress their natural feelings and desires. I think the internet has open the doors to break down this social stigma. Now it's easier to meet and socialize with people that want to break free from normal social views. It's not that people are different now, now they can connect instantly and see they are not alone and weird. There is a whole new world out there that before was suppressed by fear to be discovered. Now we can connect and be ourselves.

    I get a lot of questions about my relationship. My advice to all who seek this type of relationship, if you are married or in a serious relationship. Put into your mind that in a cuckold relationship there are three individuals, and they all have their own roles and status. I think that everyone in the relationship deserves their own respect. In my situation, even though we have progressed to me cutting my hubby from intercourse. I have not ignored him totally, he does have the least amount of say in our household now but he understands that and embraces his role. All participants need to know what role they play and except it. I do not have intercourse with my cuckold husband but I have replaced it with other ways to stimulate him.
    I see a lot of comments here and other sites that cater to this lifestyle and some is just not reality. If you just treat your cuckold as a wimp and ignore and humiliate him to no end then I can say that whatever relationship you have will not last.
     
  10. Susan Stackpole

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    I agree that cuckolding has nothing to do with interracial sex. I originally was cuckolding hubby with white men and it was very exciting. I did go black and now I am only into black men. The interracial thing is a personal choice. I am sure not all women are into black men. I think that once the woman has the freedom to pick her alpha lover a lot of times she ends up gravitating towards black men. The taboo is very appealing and at least with me was something i really wanted to try. I later got hooked and now totally addicted
     
  11. jd2234irl

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    we do it cause we enjoy it and it is FUN!
     
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  12. willsrvu

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    While it does appear that interracial mating/sexual interaction and polyamory/cuckolding are all becoming more accepted socially as time goes on, it will still be a long, long time before they (in any combination) are common or anything close to being mainstream.

    It is nice to see inroads being made though. :)
     
  13. Threedecadecuck

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    Ah, but poly and cucking is mainstream. It is more common than most people want to admit. I am sure there are few neighborhoods that do not have that woman or that couple that everyone talks about, but never to them. Few people have not at least fantasized about the lifestyle, and a lot more have delved into it than most might imagine.
     
  14. wbfbm19

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    And I'm sure you have more than mere speculation and wishful thinking to back up your statement? Of course not. When most people don't even know what these terms mean, there's no f'n way it's mainstream.
     
  15. willsrvu

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    Somehow, I think it will still be quite a while before we are seeing commercials showing a husband bringing a bottle of name brand champagne to the bedroom to serve to his wife and her lover of any color.
    Although I can picture it and hear the voice over: "When the occasion is this special, Mumm's the word!" :bounce:

    Heck, General Mills is catching hell for their Cheerios commercial showing a white wife, black husband and bi racial kid.
     
  16. Threedecadecuck

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    In reply to "And I'm sure you have more than mere speculation and wishful thinking to back up your statement? Of course not." There is a swinger's motel in the Denver metro area that has been there as long as anyone can remember. Many couples and "single" women and men go there often, many are regulars.

    Downtown Denver you have the Scarlet Ranch. Near Golden you have the retreat. Both are on premise swing clubs. The Retreat is a very low pressure club where couples and "single" women can go to meet others and have god adult fun. Many couples have their first swinging experience there. The Scarlet Ranch is for the younger crowd. Many who go there are members as well as regulars.

    There is a large swinging and poly community in the Denver area, as well as in Baltimore, D.C., Los Angeles, Houston, etc. We personally know of several poly triads and quads in the Denver/Boulder area. My hubby and his ex were very active in the swinging scene when they lived in Los Angeles.

    We are one of two households that have lovers who are live-ins on our block. Our neighbors across the street and 8 houses down from us are a white couple and they have two black men who live with them. We met them 4 years ago. We met them when my now hubby and me and our live-in (at the time) were out biking.

    We mentioned that we loved their lawn and had noticed how much work they had done. The wife stated that she and mostly her husband had done most of the work. While we were talking to the couple, one of their live-ins walked out, nodded to us, then he kissed the wife and went to his car and drove off. The wife admitted that she and her husband had an open relationship.

    I introduced myself and my hubby, then I mentioned that our live-in was my lover. To prove the point, our live in reached under my T-shirt and grabbed my breasts and kissed me. The wife asked my hubby if he was okay with it. He told her he was very okay with it. This neighbor and I have shared men several times since.

    My now hubby and his ex-wife have also introduced me to many of the triads and quads he and his ex-wife have known for years. The majority of the poly friends we have are a bit secretive of their lifestyles because many of them have children who are school age. And that makes sense.

    Since my nephews, who still live with my sister, have shared the same g/f for the last four years, and my sister and I have shared men, and my sister's husband has enjoyed the lifestyle, and my nieces and their friends enjoy the lifestyle, and most all of our and my hubby's ex wife's friends are either poly or swingers, it is hard not to feel that we in this lifestyle are the few.

    We have attended poly/swinger camp outs where up to 200 poly and swinger people got together and enjoyed each other. We have also attended a few swinger Halloween and New Years parties where 100 or more couples played with others and numerous husbands watched their wives with several of the same men.

    When we have visited friends in Utah, Nevada, California, Washington, Oregon, Texas, New Mexico, Wyoming, Montana and Missouri we have been able to find others who either lived the lifestyle or wanted to.

    The reason that I see this type of lifestyle as more common than most might think is from my own experience. I have had sex with more men than I can count. And I am sure many of them have been married. I also know that my sister, who is married, lives the cuck lifestyle. My ex-sister in law and I have shared men. We even shared men when she was married to my brother.

    My hubby still has sex with his ex-wife. I have sex with most any guy who wants me, most of the time. I have a lover who I have known for over 25 years. He is married. I have come home to find our live-in doing another woman in our bed and her husband has been standing in the doorway masturbating and watching his wife with our live-in.

    How am I not supposed to see this as more common than most think it is?
     
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  17. jackielyn

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    i thought my life was twisted till i read this. Lol
     
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  18. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    At least for me I would say cuckolding plays no part in my sex life. As far as I know all of the women in the past several years that have shared my bed have done so without their husbands knowledge or consent. We go to great lengths to keep what goes on between the sheets private. The women have no desire to embarrass or humiliate their husbands. I have considered a cuckold as a husband or significant other that encourages his spouse or girl friend to have sex with other people with him as a spectator or minimally participating. If he wants any type of sexual contact with the male(s) fucking his wife then I would consider him bisexual and not a cuckold. Personally I am not interested in fucking a woman with her husband or boyfriend present, if he want a show he can go rent a movie or have us video the action, And I don't need any instructions about how to fuck. Plus I am not bisexual
     
  19. MacNfries

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    well said, Torpedo ... I think most would agree 100% with your statement. Married women are generally not out to humiliate their spouses, they simply want "good sex", and infidelity is still a tender subject with most females thus their desire to keep it low key when they, themselves, do it.
    When I read posts from "supposedly female posters" about how they like to humiliate their spouses, I pretty much can tell when its a male posting it and when its actually a female posting it. For some reason, bisexual males have found a HOME here to post their homosexual phobias.
     
  20. flsubboy4u

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    What is it about black men that you find better? Since you have cuckolded your husband with white men and black men, and have decided to only have sex with black men, I would love to hear exactly what the difference is in your mind.
     
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