Both you and brothaman have insight i'd be curious in hearing more. Darkcavern was basically the first adult chatroom i allowed myself in freshman year of college....right as social media was starting up. It was def exciting, but it also wasn't perfect. (although I'm a bit of a switch/cuck...now finally a cuck in a relationship with a snowbunny).
I think there was a real golden period of opportunity when social media broke out where it was easier to find more (and younger, single) women who'd want to engage with the lifestyle, i remember begging admins to help me market for them, lol. But the old chatrooms (breedingclub, nworship, darksecret, darkcavern) seemed to be stuck in the ways of older, pre-social media couples...which is fine, y'all are important too!
you have a point that the rise of the onlyfans era sorta has women really going to it as a money thing, than a lifestyle thing, i've noticed it's harder to find women who are genuinely enthusiastic about interracial and cuckolding than it was during the "whitegirlwednesday"era. but its really about how to search and grow the community.
i'm just finally glad to have a *non-crazy* woman who is genuinely interested in pursuing cuckolding and swinging, and who isn't across the country, lol. 2022 will be crazy.